friends with your ex?, ... |
 Apr 20 2006, 11:38 PM
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 Hello There.  Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673  |
My ex and I are good friends. Is anyone else friends with theirs?
"I think we should just be friends."--Thats how we broke up. Some people I know despise their ex so I was just wondering. |
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Apr 20 2006, 11:52 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
we said we would be friends but now since we dont go to the same school anymore we haevnt talked to eachother in like..2 years. not like we're not friends anymore, we just, dont talk.
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Apr 21 2006, 12:29 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Well good for you if you could be friends with your ex. Me and my ex said we would...and we only talked like twice after we broke up. We just..don't talk. I personally finds it to be hard to be friends w/ an ex...emotions get in the way sometimes.
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Apr 21 2006, 10:43 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Eh, I think he wanted to be friends, but he ignores me now... I kinda do want to be friends with him again though.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 21 2006, 10:46 AM
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Nah, when I say "we should still be friends" I mean it. I'm friends with my exs and I try to keep them close. Believe it or not, exs are great friends.
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Apr 21 2006, 01:09 PM
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My ex & I are like best friends but sometimes how I feel for him gets in the wayy. People shouldn't hate their ex's...well that's what I think anyways.
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Apr 21 2006, 01:43 PM
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 CertifiedMusic Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,636 |
ive tried being friends with my exes but it never works out.
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Apr 22 2006, 01:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,677 |
No wayy. Heh.
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Apr 22 2006, 01:06 PM
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 maybe it's just a dream Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,421 |
depends. most of the guys I've broken up with still consider me a good friend, but there are a… select… few.
 those two just don't know when to give up. 
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Apr 22 2006, 01:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,274 |
it sometimes works... but there's always the awkward moments
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Apr 22 2006, 03:39 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
It depends on the relationship I had with them. There are only like 3 ex's of mine that I dont like and I have one ex whom i'd rather never see again in life. Other than that I usually stay on really good terms with mine.
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Apr 22 2006, 04:53 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
I've never had an ex, but most of my friends are not getting along too well with their exs, mostly because they're just uncomfortable.
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Apr 22 2006, 04:54 PM
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Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
my other ex and d0nt like each other at all. but we are in like 3 classes together+our parents are friends. that sux.
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Apr 22 2006, 06:13 PM
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im not friends with any of my exes...i guess all of my past relationships ended on a bad note. it's not that i dislike them, i just don't see them or talk to them anymore. i love my current boyfriend and i have no reason to have any contact with them.
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Apr 22 2006, 06:41 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it's not that i hate him or anything, it's just that he'd email me everytime he has a date, and tries and rub it in my face
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Apr 22 2006, 06:50 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
i dont have any exes to speak of... but with everyone i know who do they dont get along at all...
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Apr 22 2006, 08:32 PM
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 katie fox is love. Group: Member Posts: 530 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,798 |
We say we will, but we don't.
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Apr 22 2006, 08:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
yes & no... i have two exes and one of them [being in my grade], me & him are close, while the other [in a diff grade] arent. he did me wrong and i prefer not talking to him even i cant fight it!
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Apr 22 2006, 08:57 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
There's a great quote that says.. "If you're friends with your ex, it means you either never loved them, or you still do."
Personally, I'm friends with some of my ex's.. but not all. I've lost touch with most of them since I moved. Taylor`` |
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Apr 23 2006, 10:38 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 212,369 |
I'm still good friends with my exs but we don't talk anymore. It's just how it is emotions do get int the way. There's only one that i talk alot with.
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| *krnxswat* |
Apr 23 2006, 10:46 AM
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QUOTE(robb0 @ Apr 22 2006, 9:29 PM)  Best friends. =) Ditto. And I'm still friends with all my other X's 
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Apr 23 2006, 10:48 AM
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 revolution + desire Group: Member Posts: 205 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 284,328 |
i've attempted to be friends with mine. but...we both have a tendency to get into our old habits. and...it always starts the same cycle again. "i love you", "i love you too", "let's be together", "okay!"....and so on and so forth. each and every time, he breaks my heart. so...this time, i'm hoping i can stay away from talking to him. for both of our sakes. he's incapable of being honest, and i'm incapable of turning down an "i love you so much".
since, you know, the third time's the charm. even though..i have no idea how that pertains to us. i keep telling myself that i won't let it happen a fourth time. |
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| *jooleeah* |
Apr 23 2006, 03:51 PM
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Yes. But we're not ever going to be as close as we were before. Never.
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Apr 23 2006, 04:40 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Apr 22 2006, 6:57 PM) There's a great quote that says.. "If you're friends with your ex, it means you either never loved them, or you still do." Hmmm, I'm not sure how I feel about that. While I am best friends with one my ex's, I definently loved him, but don't anymore. Yet, with the newest ex, we are trying to be friends and what not...IDK. Eep. I confused myself. |
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Apr 23 2006, 04:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
We're best friends now just like how we used to.
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