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 Apr 4 2006, 05:44 PM
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 I'm with Stupid.  Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973  |
ok this is so weird
im like a smart 4.0 student and stuff and i like this total rebel.. and he likes me too hes been in juvie and hes now on house arrest is it wrong to like him? i havent told any of my friends this because im ashamed of it i really dont know what to do we're only 14 and everything >_> edit// btw hes white not black haha |
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Apr 4 2006, 07:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,893 |
Don't be ashamed.
As long as he's good to you, and doesn't change you- affect your grades or cause disturbances in friendships, etc, then there's no problem with liking him. |
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Apr 4 2006, 08:08 PM
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hahaha... well since u r so smart figure it out yourself, or u could just have sex with him and if he doesnt want anything to do with u then he really isnt worth your time
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Apr 4 2006, 08:12 PM
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You're a smart kid I'm sure you can figure it out!..
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Apr 4 2006, 08:14 PM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
you just wanna bang em'. its okay nothing wrong with a little jungle fever
just kidding! or am i im in love with a gangster...sounds like a song.... |
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Apr 4 2006, 08:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 277 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 381,654 |
it actually is the title of a song
Coolio - Mama, I'm In Love Wit A Gangsta |
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Apr 4 2006, 08:57 PM
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L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
I f**kin KNEW IT! I KNEW THAT SHIT!^
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Apr 4 2006, 09:09 PM
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it's alright to like a gangster.
you can't help how you feel, just be careful |
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Apr 4 2006, 09:14 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
In love with a Gangster - Knightowl
In love with a Gangster - Deestylistic In love with a Gangster - Kedash There are soooo many songs on that. But anyways. I wouldnt exactly call him a gangster. Just a troubled kid. What type of advice are you asking for ? Should you tell him ? Should you forget about him ? Should you try to get him to change his ways and show him a better life ? Befriend him ? Try to understand why he does the things he does ? |
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Apr 4 2006, 09:16 PM
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 Naughty... Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 388,724 |
Don't be ashamed, we can't help who we like. The only problem with dating people who are a bit on the wild side and get into trouble is that they can get you into trouble too. If you do start dating, stay the same person you always were, don't let a guy drag you down in school or get you into serious trouble. I'd say go for it. Opposites attract, right?
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 4 2006, 09:20 PM
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They say that opposites attract. You shouldn't be ashamed. You know what you're feeling. I can kind of relate. My boyfriend is a rebel, gangster, outgoing, straight up. The total opposite of how I am. But we're together!
 I say, go ahead and go for it. After all, life is all about taking risks. But if this guy gets to you and brings you down like Insanity said. I'll break his jaw. 
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Apr 4 2006, 09:20 PM
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in the words of .........slim thug
"good girls gotta get down with the gangstasssss" |
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Apr 4 2006, 09:23 PM
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 oanh is awesome *nods* Group: Member Posts: 470 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 190,637 |
yeah, oppisite usually attracts...but you guys are only 14, so he can't be that bad of a rebel? what he do to get into juvie anyways? (I just wanna know so I can judge somewhat of his character)
most of the girls I know have gotten beat/slap by their "gangsta" boyfriend at least once or twice. |
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Apr 4 2006, 09:24 PM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
hmm.. i would suggest that as long as you two really like each other, there's nothing wrong with that. although, you should "be careful who you trust", not that there's anything wrong with him. but yah.. just to be safe. haha goshh this is like "because of you" by kelly clarkson XD >> "play on the safe side so you don't get hurt"
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 4 2006, 09:26 PM
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QUOTE(xklipse @ Apr 4 2006, 10:23 PM)  yeah, oppisite usually attracts...but you guys are only 14, so he can't be that bad of a rebel? what he do to get into juvie anyways? (I just wanna know so I can judge somewhat of his character) ^ Oh but we don't know that for sure. Kids are getting worse and worse and the age is getting younger and younger. most of the girls I know have gotten beat/slap by their "gangsta" boyfriend at least once or twice.  Well, at least you know he can protect you. |
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Apr 4 2006, 09:29 PM
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L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
QUOTE(xklipse @ Apr 4 2006, 9:23 PM) most of the girls I know have gotten beat/slap by their "gangsta" boyfriend at least once or twice. haha^ wtf. yep cant trust those gangstas, especially those ethnicities. all they cause is trouble. and you know whos really bad? black people. |
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Apr 4 2006, 09:32 PM
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oanh is awesome *nods* Group: Member Posts: 470 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 190,637 |
^gah, thats true x(
society these day *shakes head* [/off topic] its so weird, I was never attracted to rebel when I was young, and still don't. I think its cause I was afraid of gettin shot >.< seriously! QUOTE(L!ckitySplit @ Apr 4 2006, 6:29 PM) haha^ wtf. yep cant trust those gangstas, especially those ethnicities. all they cause is trouble. and you know whos really bad? black people. yep! one of my closest friend ex-bf pointed a gun at her head. But the gangsta I refer to deal drugs and stuff... |
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Apr 4 2006, 10:04 PM
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wow...listen to all the negitivity...you have no idea how gangstas are brought up....you have no idea what so ever....so please don't judge off of what you only hear....
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 4 2006, 10:07 PM
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^ I agree.
If you get to know them, they can be the sweetest people you've ever met.So my advice to you once more is, don't judge a book by it's cover. Who knows, he may not be as intimidating as he seems. |
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| *nightmare4taki* |
Apr 4 2006, 10:13 PM
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What about that T Pain song
, kinda of similar to that Im in love with a gangsta.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 4 2006, 10:36 PM
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^
 That's what I first thought when I read the title. (Suzette, you changed username?) |
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| *mSz_dOrk_anGeL* |
Apr 5 2006, 12:21 PM
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Hahaha. Now I have the song "I'm in Luv wit a Stripper" stuck in my head.
The only reason I'm going to say anything is because I think this little situation is a bit ridiculous. Theres just one question to ask yourself, is it worth the trouble to get yourself caught up in something like a "gangster"? If he's only 14 and already getting himself into this kind of shit why try and have something with him when it's only going to get worse as time goes on, old habits die hard. |
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Apr 5 2006, 12:25 PM
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Mmm... sounds dangerous. I wouldnn't waste my time. There are reasons why he's been to juvie and is on house arrest. This guy doesn't sounds trustworthy.
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Apr 5 2006, 03:56 PM
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Whatever lies beyond this morning is a little later on Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 389,260 |
You like someone, nothing wrong with that. But I do think it's wrong your friends are judging his personality based on what had happened to him and what he had done.
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Apr 5 2006, 05:53 PM
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I'm with Stupid. Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 |
QUOTE(xklipse @ Apr 4 2006, 9:23 PM) yeah, oppisite usually attracts...but you guys are only 14, so he can't be that bad of a rebel? what he do to get into juvie anyways? (I just wanna know so I can judge somewhat of his character) most of the girls I know have gotten beat/slap by their "gangsta" boyfriend at least once or twice. hehehe cus he made these bombs in school and i guess the police found out and put him in jail |
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