well i highly doubt she cut herself over this, she has other issues that she kept whining about. so, get her some help. i didn't bash her because shes a newbie, i told her to shut up because she was annoying. if any of my so called cb friends kept whining about something so stupid to get attention i would've told them to shut up. i didn't blast her until she started crying, she cried all on her own (shes sensitive i guess). i'm sorry i don't feel sorry for her.

hey people deal things in different ways, i know if this girl came back she would've kept going on and on.. maybe next time i will ignore so you guys could stop bitching already. are we done already? was the purpose of this trying to make me guilty because i honestly don't. its the internet, why in the world would you take it to the heart.

^ because sometimes, people cant take it. if you're too insensitive to recognize that, you should just be quiet. i didnt say ytou were bashing her because she was a newbie, the point was that she was a newbie, she doesnt know you guys, and when random people yell at you, then its off putting.

and michael, i assumed that was what other people had been refering to. i agree, personal attacks are unjustified.

:Points Finger at Rik: XD jk

What if she just got those pictures online? I mean you can get anything online and claim it.

-Phil-

lol okay??? then why was she saying shit back to us? does that make it okay? just because i didn't cry and cut about it

did i SAY she was an angel? i wasnt there. i dunno what was said, by weither party. i just know that you, personally, can be a rude, obnoxious, gobshyte, when you get going.

all of you should just ignore each other.

this is applying more to you, because you're here reading it. presumably, she isnt.

Wow. That's really sad.

okay. i was there. i was nice to her at first, because she didn't seem like one of the irritating noobs at first. yea and then she started bitching and complaining and being annoying and putting herself down, and that pissed me off, and i'm sure it pissed alot of other people off too.

the reason i didn't just press ignore was because it was better to be told to shut up, meanly, online from people that she didnt know than from other people that might be her friends in real life. if she complained and bitched like that in real life, i'm pretty sure that eventually, her friends wouldnt be able to take it. they would get really pissed off and might even go beyond the "shut the f**k up" that we said. at least from us, she might even be able to take a clue and not do that anymore.

I wasn't there either, but I mean, was it really necessary to tell her to shut the f**k up? Wasn't there a more civilized way to go about it?

sorry, that logic seems stupid to me.

why didnt you give her that littel speech? or something constructive?

what, "we're telling you to shut thefuck up so that you don't get told that in real life"?
she wasn't exactly listening to what we were saying either.

and i wasn't saying it was RIGHT for us to "bash", or tell her to shut up. i'm just saying why i personally didn't press ignore. sorry that my mind of stupid logic isn't very constructive.

im sorry, too.

ok, if you were trying to help her, fine. you did it badly. next time, just press ignore.

the more civilized way is just to ignore her, but none of us did except the ones that were in there who didn't say anything to her. james. like what? stop cutting yourself? stop being depressed. get some help, stop talking to us because we can't help you.

say if you were there. what would you have said to her so we all can take an example of what to do when a depressed girl or boy starts complaining about how much life sucks.

also, i'd just like to add that we didn't mean for her to cut herself.
and we're sorry about that.
but i've been told to shut the f**k up plenty of times before. by people i didn't know. and i'm sure that everyone else involved had been too. we didn't expect that to come of harm. but what's done is done, and there's nothing we can really do about it now. she's not gonna want to be buddy buddy with us, even if we say sorry.

But Sandy. Don't I always say stupid stuff in the chat just to get attention? And no one really seems to mind. (Not against you, I just felt like I had to say something OmG LoLlErZ!

lol stupid stuff like

"i want to die"
"i cut myself"
"i'm crying right now"

uh you just post pictures of yourself a lot in chat. i swear i've seen every picture in every angle and even body parts i didn't want to see!! i do mind, i'm just used to it. i don't think i'll get used to girls or guys telling me how they want to end their life everyday.

besides we all go through that stage, well i did. when i was young i used to complain so much about how much life sucks, how i want to end it, how i'm oh so depressed. it was all for attention.

^ including pepperoni tits.

and eddie, you know we tell you to shut up. :D

Yeah but when do I ever shut up? I'm the hyper on-going dude!

im not saying that you were necessarily rude or obnoxious then, like i said, i wasnt there. but your past behaviour leads me to believe you probably were. and the fact that someone felt strongly enough about this in the first place.

if i had been there, in this instance personally, i would have probably ignored her, specifically, because i dont know her.

however, in cases where you do know the person, i am happy to give you advice, if you would genuinely like it. one of my best friends went through an EXTREMELY hard time in her life, and i do have an idea of how to try and help people get through those kind of times. mainly, you have to recognizwe that very often, it ISNT attention seeking. thats the primary problem.


well thats fine
YOU'RE sorry. you cant speak for the other two who specifically said they werent.
anyway, just try and be civilized

I agree. She annoyed me to death. I thought I was annoying..omg you should've read her posts! She was a miss let's have a pity-party kinda girl!

But cutting yourself?

Over cB chat?!

PPl in the chat tell me to STFU all the time. They be like STFU, and I be like O_o, and they be like yeah kid you heard what I said, and I be like O_O, then they say aight kid i see how it is.

No seriously though, Sandy , Julia, and Rik have all told me to stfu on many occasions, I never take it to heart. They cool with me and I'm coll with them. Its a chatroom for crying out loud.

^ STFU.

I don't know anything of what happened in the chat as you guys mentioned... but let's avoid the same thing happening again, ok?

Agreed.

Some members can be very harsh in there, and that is just taking it way too far. They have done that to me, because I'm new, but I didn't go slice myself over it ...


Their lame, petty insults just made me giggle. : D

Lol. More people should have that attitude, and be like, "Aww, you guys are so cute."