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sexual harrassment, don't you hate it?
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post Mar 2 2006, 12:11 AM
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Have you experienced that before? I hated that so much, but it might be that I am quite sensitive to these stuff...

Several guys at my class always picked on everybody (both guys and girls) during days of substitute teacher and did stuff like "[insert name here], go suck my d**k/I wanna see your boobies." Obviously people hated that and guess what these guys can't stop laughing. I was like furious although luckily I wasn't the victim.

I searched and couldn't find a similar topic and hopefully it's in the right forum.

Edit: These guys are HS juniors, so immature.
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 12:26 AM
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thats wayyyyyyyyyy 7th grade or w/e... thats real child-ish... i'm in HS [freshman - to be exact] & i know people at this grade have already MATURED from that kind of stuff....

but try living in NYC when theres guys trying to call out to you.. EVERYDAY
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 12:32 AM
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well the guys in your age group are immature like that. that's why girls enjoy dating older guys. they'll grow out of it eventually but don't let it show that it bothers you so much. your anger will only egg them on.

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the post below me reminded me to add something. if any guy ever lays a hand on your boobs or ass or anywhere you feel is inapporpriate, do something about it. tell a teacher or your parents or anyone who can do something about it.
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 12:36 AM
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That's never really happened to me before, but if it did happen to me I'd tell them to f**k off.

This one guy did poke my boob once but I totally bitched out on him and he got scared.
 
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post Mar 2 2006, 02:36 AM
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Girls try to grab at my nuts and more oftenly they tap and or slap my ass.
All of the times it has been girls I don't even know. Just random chicks.
Awful sexist bitches.
I didn't ask for that. Not cool.

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post Mar 6 2006, 01:45 PM
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^ Girls grab your nuts??? That's crazy.

Sexual harassment is a big topic in the corporate world. We just had to attend sexual harassment training recently. It's amazing in that - you can get busted if you're joking around with someone, and someone else hears and gets "offended." Now granted, I am glad that some of the sexual harassment rules are in place, because it does protect victims and potential victims, but when does the hysteria end?

(Um.. sorry, I might be getting a little argumentative about the subject, I apologize).

And I echo what Chii mentioned regarding if someone does something to you, speak out.
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 01:52 PM
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Im sorry but who really likes sexual harrassment. Of corce you hate it every one hates it. -_- I know I do.
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 03:17 PM
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Yeah..some guys are really immature. These guys in my p.e. class say..really awkward things to me mellow.gif I try to just ignore it..but it really bothers me. I don't get why people do it 0_o
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 03:31 PM
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QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Mar 2 2006, 2:36 AM) *
Girls try to grab at my nuts and more oftenly they tap and or slap my ass.
All of the times it has been girls I don't even know. Just random chicks.
Awful sexist bitches.
I didn't ask for that. Not cool.

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biggrin.gif Maybe it was becausr you were dancing and the girls thought it'd be alright mellow.gif


Anyways

Sexual harrassment like that should be reported


and those guys in your grade are immature. The sub should know the rules in a classroom...
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 03:37 PM
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the girls at my school like strip for money its crazy as fas as sexual harrasment goes i noe what u mean when girls try to touch u like at parties and at school its crazy
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 03:57 PM
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Some guys out there are total pigs and have no respect for women. I hate it as well. But by showing those guys that we girls won't take that type of talk from them by taking action will hopefully lessen the amount of sickos out there.
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 04:48 PM
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One time, this guy told me to jiggle my boobs in his face..so I slapped him really hard on the face..
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 07:02 PM
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QUOTE(Zatanna @ Mar 6 2006, 12:45 PM) *
^ Girls grab your nuts??? That's crazy.


Yeah, I have seriously had girls violently grab at my nuts. Or, just walk by and take a hold.
Seriously not cool. And, it's so hard being a guy and trying to neutralize that situation. I try to tell them no, but some don't listen. So, I may have to try to force them off. In which case, now, even if I'm as gentle as a kitten, I'm the bad guy because I'm becoming forceful with a girl. It's definately uncool.

QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Mar 6 2006, 2:31 PM) *
biggrin.gif Maybe it was becausr you were dancing and the girls thought it'd be alright mellow.gif


Heh. Not exactly.
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QUOTE(x0xIlmBx0x @ Mar 6 2006, 3:48 PM) *
One time, this guy told me to jiggle my boobs in his face..so I slapped him really hard on the face..


Two wrongs don't make a right. Imagine if gender roles were switched in that situation. The guy would be getting so much shit, but I bet you expect to get praised for your "brave" and passionate response?

Be the bigger person. Fight nasty words with sophisticated words, not with fists. Not cool.
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 07:33 PM
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I get approached by waaay older guys in the mall. & Im always uncomofrtable around male teachers mellow.gif
 
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QUOTE(shes out @ Mar 6 2006, 7:33 PM) *
I get approached by waaay older guys in the mall. & Im always uncomofrtable around male teachers mellow.gif

haha same here. And about the male teachers, even if they're not hinting to any sexual harrassment, I still get paranoid sad.gif
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 07:36 PM
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QUOTE(Blow_Don't_SUCK @ Mar 6 2006, 4:35 PM) *
haha same here. And about the male teachers, even if they're not hinting to any sexual harrassment, I still get paranoid sad.gif


Yeah, I know. It's like, the things I heard about teachers seducing their students. I never knew how much it affected me :0
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 07:38 PM
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^What's even worse is we have a 24-year old teacher and he fools around a lot, but when the girls find a chance to converse with him, they would all flirt with him...that's wrong
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 07:41 PM
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QUOTE(Acid Bath Slayer @ Mar 1 2006, 11:36 PM) *
Girls try to grab at my nuts and more oftenly they tap and or slap my ass.
All of the times it has been girls I don't even know. Just random chicks.
Awful sexist bitches.
I didn't ask for that. Not cool.

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God, that must be uncomfortable ohmy.gif HAHAHA, well duh laugh.gif
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 07:42 PM
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^it's cuz he dances too much XD
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 07:43 PM
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Haha, woah. So do we! It's really wrong..ugh.
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 08:02 PM
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those asses....
 
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post Mar 6 2006, 09:17 PM
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omg you have freedom, you can fight back... secretly! write stuff on the board, draw funny pics and stuff of them, do the little 5 year old stupid stuff. even though its lame, its hilarous because the whole class sees and is like wtf and everyone giggles and laughs. its fun. do it. do it now. we do this at work.
 
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post Mar 7 2006, 09:53 AM
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i have a 62 year old teacher and she hits on alla the guys its CRAZY and this is at a private school too! and shes married and like we have a 24 year old teacher too but shes cool but this once she was like so benji, hows class going and she like was touching my hair and getting close and finally some guy came in so i could leave... SCARY
 
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post Mar 7 2006, 10:06 PM
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well..in my H.S. .. i think everyones really mature enough not to do that -______- but here in NY....sexual harrassment comes from those darn pedophiles on the train! arghh pinch.gif i hate them soo much..theyre always groping me..and one even followed me off the train to my bus stop..pretended he was the good guy trying to protect me..and ask for a THANK YOU! ANNDDD my name, #, address and he asked me out to dinner!!! ohmy.gif

scary thing was..he was a very well dressed Wall Street professional business looking middle aged man ...u wouldnt normally expect such behavior from such well dressed business ppl cry.gif
 
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post Mar 7 2006, 10:22 PM
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i remember when i was in highschool there were the two guys that would always say really off the wall stuff to me. at the time it pissed me off. but now i look back on it and they were like the two hottest football players in the school and they were hitting on me O_O i feel pretty now. haha. but that still doesnt make it right. it made myself esteem low cuz i thought they were making fun of me cuz they were popular and i so wasnt. i was the quiet one in the corner drawing lol.

and a few years later there was this other guy in my science class that would grab my ass all the time. back then i didnt look at it as sexual harrassment cuz it made me feel hot. but now i realize it was and wonder how many other girls he did that way.

ppl really should think about the long term affect it can have. some people will be so ashamed they will carry it to the grave especially if they take it to far and the victim is scared no one will believe them.
 

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