Yeah. He only calls me babe or things like that when we are having sex. But I am stupid and keep doing it.

Yeah I admit it I just had sex with him about an hour ago and now I know he wont call me for a few days. Damn it!

Look at it this way. Gay guys dont have sex with girls. ok. He is using you meaning that you are just as good as standing on a street corner if you know what i mean. To me intemecey should be secred and special. If he does not love you dont give him any. If he wont talk to you after you have had sex then he is an A-hole, dump him and hang him out to dry find another guy cuz he is just not worth it .

What was te purpose of the "Gay guys dont have sex with girls. ok."?

Corey, I suggest you leave him. Though you say you like him and it will be difficult just to let go, you have to take my word for it that you'll find someone else to like in over a period of time.

if he only wants to use you for sex then it's not worth it to keep on being friends with him. as a friend, he should see that you're more than just some sex toy.

wow lol...sounds like im in your situation. From reading your post, my situation is same and i was just about to post a topic such like this. :) O yeah....and the other bought tickets to fly over to visit me even though I still wont want to hangout....hmmm many here were in a similar situation :)

you need to talk to him about what you want & decide what's the best thing for your friendship together. good luck sir. hope everything works out & you guys are happy.

Yea, I agree with what Ola says coming to an understanding. In my humble opinion Though, it really comes down to what you want...its about you if you just want to cease friendship and reallly wanna do so..then feel free cuz I agree with what . I like what Starlette says in the 1st post
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So yeah, people who use once, will use again, and when they don't need you anymore...well...peace out.

sometimes i believe this...sometimes i do and sometimes i dont. But....none the less it is an interesting concept? "We live in a single world with gabillions of people, but we are each in a single world of owr own becuase me make what we want it to be," that is how i see it anyways i heard that somewhere, i dont remember where though. Maybe a tv show or an anime? hmmm

I must say i laughed my butt off at that one, the topic starter is gay, and hes talking about how his gay friend uses him for sex. He is drawn in by attraction and allows his friend to have his way with him every now and then.

The only difference i can see between this and a heterosexual situation is that it is harder for a gay person to find another person to attach himself to. But this situation still has disaster written all over it. Talking the situation out is always a good solution so both parties know how the other feels. And if you feel that you cant do that, then you prolly arent comfortable enough with this guy to be calling him boyfriend.

Same here. Mine dumped me because I wouldnt go to his house and have sex with him. His cover up story was "I miss you and I just wanted to see you" even though he saw me at school the day before. If you want to be friends with him thats fine I guess just if you think you'll regret it later on dont do it.

I hope your families are ashamed of you. I know any asian family would hide their face if anyone of their kids were gay. I know myself I would get disowned faster than a bugatti veyron!
btw i like receiving head so i dont use anyone for sex

If I were you I would give myself two options...

1. Dont be all girly and emotional... and just take what you get. Obviously, this means not to be stupid and get anymore emotionally attatched then you already are...just have fun.

2. Slowly pull yourself away from this guy. Stop getting attatched, stop caring so much, look at the situation for what it really is...

You're the one letting him have sex with you.
If you don't want to, tell him you don't want to.
If you're enjoying the sex, keep doing it.

You obviously feel bad, so just tell him you want to be friends.
If you're positive he can't handle that, maybe you shouldn't see him for a while.

well... it may not have been his intention to use you to have sex, since you went along with it. (i know that sounds really unfair, but yeah.) but you should definitely make it clear to him that you don't want to be friends with benefits, you just want to be friends.