i just moved to maui and i had a relationship with this guy back at honolulu. when i moved this guy and i were still together until my ex-"friend" sort of you can say "seduce" him so he breaks up with me. this guy and i broke up about a week and a half ago and i dont think im over it yet. i really dont know why i still like him but its that feeling.. he's nice, hes always there for me.. blah blah blah. though i know he has bad qualities, i still love him for who he is. i want to move on but its hard.

now im in maui, starting a new life, new school, everything new. i meet guys here and there and they want to go out with me and i sort of said yes to this guy, completely not knowing what i was doing.. it just happened. he just held my hand. sure i thought i liked him but, im still not over my ex. i want to get that straight before anything and just have fun. i dont want any relationship but how do i tell this guy im with now? i dont want to break his heart. and, i'm going with him to this luau on feb. 24 because its for the school. i dont know what to do or say.

my feelings are weird right now. even if i went to the luau alone, i'll be fine, as long as i get this stuff out of my system. it might seem like im selfish but i dont want to hurt anyone right now either. all i want is to get over "him" and move on. what do i do?

any suggestions? =/ please reply. thanks.