HEYCOMELOOKATTHIS, roar |
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![]() K R I S E X Y ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 438 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 351,189 ![]() |
here's my advice. lol
power ranger - theme song It is risky, but you'll never know if you're not gona give it a try. |
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![]() RAWR. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 ![]() |
well I'm curious to how old you are because in jr hi and even high school I had friends and boyfriends that threw the "I love you" around all the time. And I love everyone of the people I've met and been friends with, exes included, but I'm not in love with any of them and that makes a difference. Having said that, if you like and him he likes you, go for it. You don't want to be like me and my now best friend 9 years down the road going "I liked you and you liked me why didnt we ever hook up?" because now we never can. i t would be way weird. we're too close for that. so yeah. Do what feels right. if you enjoy his company and you can be yourself around him, and he makes you happy, go for it. If you arent always 100% comforatable with him and you feel like you would be faking something, either with yourself or with him, then don't. You have to be honest with your feelings. To him and yourself. yep thats my take!
oh, and ex girlfirneds shouldnt affect hwo you feel for someone. so don't let it. unless he beat her. then it should matter. |
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*hello moto* |
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18. hes 18. yeah i know everybody tosses those 3 words around, but i'm pretty sure he wouldn't be that type to do that. thank you! you never can? why didn't you guys ever give it a chance.. even if its too weird? maybe you'll get married to him :)
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![]() RAWR. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 ![]() |
QUOTE(hello moto @ Jan 19 2006, 3:46 AM) 18. hes 18. yeah i know everybody tosses those 3 words around, but i'm pretty sure he wouldn't be that type to do that. thank you! you never can? why didn't you guys ever give it a chance.. even if its too weird? maybe you'll get married to him :) lol its one of those I know every dirty little thing down to that random nite when you were on vaction to europe type things. (true story!) and we know every fault and every mistake, and every time one of us cheated or did something gross, so its just...hes not even attractive anymore. BUt yeah, I would talk to the guy, ask him what love means to him. I mean, I don't even know what love really means and I'v been dating the same guy off and on for 4 years now. Just be honest with him, tell him what you are worried about. If hes a cool guy hell understand you. |
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*liquidize* |
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^ is that a love song?
----------------------- okay this is eddie here! my reply is- this guy, give us background on him! but it seems kind of fishy that he is confessing this at this time! so in my mind i'm thinking that he thinks you're a rebound! Also, if this is true then i dont think you need to worry about breaking his heart! but anyways, give him a chance, spend some quality time with him and you never know! Discover what your real feelings are(forhim), and maybe if you can find a place in your life for him, you're good to go! (as in realtionships wise)...but you know personally i find relationships weird, either they last or they dont, seriously i have a "friend of a friends"(to put it distantly) who have been dating for 8 years...and then my teacher recently married after dating for 10 years, so if you are going to jump in, think long term. anyways, if you dont want to jump into a relationship with him and just stay friends, you can always just give him a call once in a while, ask him whats up and such! But right now i'm pretty sure hes crushed, so if you want him to not be crushed then you have spend time with him. Oh yeah and the problem about 1 hour away? you have a lot of spare time! drive to see him! thats like...8 dollars in gas money right? pack a lunch, and set off to see him! maybe suprise him, he'll love it! it can be worth it too, catch up on news! and if it doesn't work out and you dont ever talk again? psh trust me, i know from experience that they always end up talking to you again! (seroiusly) just dont do something like really unforgivable. summary= give hima change! but be careful! edit// QUOTE If hes a cool guy hell understand you. nope! he'll take it the wrong way, unless he understands women really really really well, like (hitch)the movie character well. |
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![]() RAWR. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 ![]() |
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![]() <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 ![]() |
don't you think that it's weird that he's confessing his feelings to you right now, after a few weeks of being dumped by his gf, but if you think he truely means it and you like him then by all means go for it. well you'll just have to take a risk if you say yes and get into a relationship with him, the fact that you might later on lose him as a friend IF you break it off that is. about his ex and him, don't worry about that, she ended it with him
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![]() Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 226 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 144,979 ![]() |
okay! numero uno. i think you should talk to him first and see how he feels. if he's really a good friend of yours, he'll take the time to listen to every little thought and doubt you have, which is basically everything you've told us in the last paragraph. don't be afraid, take a chance. ask him if it would be okay for you guys to be friends again once you may feel that being with him isn't something that you want and etc. everything's worth a try at least once.
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have you even realized that the only reason he's friends with you is because he wants a piece of that ass (your's)?
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*krnxswat* |
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yes, you're only a rebound.
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![]() cB Assassin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 ![]() |
Sandy does relationships?
![]() I would say no, don't do it.. |
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