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 Jan 7 2006, 12:59 AM
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 Feeel X  Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498  |
this topic is not asking whether you are one or not.
but like if someone asks you "are you a virgin?" what are the advantages and disadvantages of being or not being one? beacuse if your are one, then the partner may think you are unexperienced. but if you aren't one, someone who is may have some weird feelings towards you. what do you think? |
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Jan 7 2006, 01:16 AM
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Uh... if you're old enough, why would it be bad? As long as you wear the damn rubber. And not have done it too many times so you don't look like a hoe.
And what's wrong about being unexperienced? Everyone starts off being unexperienced... |
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Jan 7 2006, 01:42 AM
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 the crip killa. Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,628 |
QUOTE(i_liek_sushi @ Jan 7 2006, 2:16 AM) Uh... if you're old enough, why would it be bad? As long as you wear the damn rubber. And not have done it too many times so you don't look like a hoe. And what's wrong about being unexperienced? Everyone starts off being unexperienced...  OWNED i actually dont see a diffrence. everybody will do it at some point. better sonner than later =) |
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Jan 7 2006, 01:57 AM
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 I'm happy, are you? Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 345,268 |
For me, it makes no difference. I'm a virgin and I don't feel weird around people who aren't. I don't think virginity should even be looked upon or ever thought of as possibly being a advantage or disadvantage. Its just something that you are or aren't. It doesn't make you a completely different person either way.
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Jan 7 2006, 02:14 AM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
being a virgin mainly to keep yourself for the right person is my thought.
It's an advantage cuz itll make your partner feel special |
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Jan 7 2006, 02:25 AM
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QUOTE(DaTru KataLYST @ Jan 7 2006, 2:14 AM) being a virgin mainly to keep yourself for the right person is my thought. It's an advantage cuz itll make your partner feel special Anyone getting laid by me should feel special no matter what. |
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Jan 7 2006, 03:03 AM
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What do you mean by virgin?
I'm a 99% virgin at age nearly 15. I had kissed my mom when i was like around .. 4? Does that still make me a complete 100% virgin. i'm so confused with the terms virgin and family member. QUOTE(Gerifan04 @ Jan 6 2006, 10:57 PM) For me, it makes no difference. I'm a virgin and I don't feel weird around people who aren't. I don't think virginity should even be looked upon or ever thought of as possibly being a advantage or disadvantage. Its just something that you are or aren't. It doesn't make you a completely different person either way. Including someone who is extremly unattracted? I think virgins and non-virgin is nothing. |
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Jan 7 2006, 03:11 AM
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The only way you can lose your virginity is by sexual intercourse. By sexual intercourse I mean, your penis penetrating a girls vagina, or your vagina being penetrated by some dude's penis. By that, I mean, if you bang or get banged, you are not a virgin. By that I mean:
You + Sex = Virginity Gone Anyway, on topic. There are some advantages of not being a virgin, if someone asks you at school. It immediatly gives you some social standing at school. Believe me though, that news spreads quickly. Nobody has ever acted weird towards me once they knew I wasn't a virgin. Conversly, nobody really makes fun of virgins anyway. It doesn't really matter, although you get a nifty label if you aren't. |
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Jan 7 2006, 03:15 AM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
haha. Thanks. I heard there is such thing called ... "lip virginity", is that true?
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Jan 7 2006, 10:28 AM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
QUOTE(i_liek_sushi @ Jan 7 2006, 8:25 AM) Anyone getting laid by me should feel special no matter what. well aren't you the charmer QUOTE Anyway, on topic. There are some advantages of not being a virgin, if someone asks you at school. It immediatly gives you some social standing at school. Believe me though, that news spreads quickly. Nobody has ever acted weird towards me once they knew I wasn't a virgin. Conversly, nobody really makes fun of virgins anyway. It doesn't really matter, although you get a nifty label if you aren't. well said QUOTE haha. Thanks. I heard there is such thing called ... "lip virginity", is that true? presumably that is slang for having your first kiss... i've never heard it before, but that doesnt mean it isn't used by some people |
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Jan 7 2006, 11:06 AM
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lol...
i heard that some girls think virgins are cute so yeah... new pick up thing.. lol. but idk, i'm still a virgin because my ex gf was afraid to get pregnant because condoms don't work ALL the time... i think being a virgin is good but then again.. i think being experienced is better because when you find the right person, it's not like your gonna suck.. that bad. |
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Jan 7 2006, 11:42 AM
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 who again? Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,458 |
QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Jan 7 2006, 11:06 AM) lol... i heard that some girls think virgins are cute so yeah... new pick up thing.. lol. but idk, i'm still a virgin because my ex gf was afraid to get pregnant because condoms don't work ALL the time... i think being a virgin is good but then again.. i think being experienced is better because when you find the right person, it's not like your gonna suck.. that bad. haha i wonder why girls think that's cute ??  Whoever judges by virginity should really think twice. Virgins are just loyal and actually take responsibility in saving it till marriage. Non-virgins could be just as loyal and just as responsible, but i'm more than sure that the reason there non virgins was due to pressure, excitement, passion or even some premature love. A person is a person even if they have had sex on more than on occasion. |
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Jan 9 2006, 07:22 PM
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Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
QUOTE(cLinT_wEStw0oD @ Jan 7 2006, 1:42 AM) OWNED i actually dont see a diffrence. everybody will do it at some point. better sonner than later =) owned? and nice points guys. |
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Jan 9 2006, 08:07 PM
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i don't know why, but the guys i know think that them & virginity= less masculinity.
 so whether or not they actually ARE virgins, you wouldn't know because those who are keep it quiet.but then a lot of girls i know who are virgins are proud of it because they are "saving it for the right person" and all that. it's actually kinda messed up. 
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Jan 9 2006, 08:14 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(brownsugar08 @ Jan 7 2006, 10:32 AM) unless you swap bodily fluids with someone in some other form.. For a second there I thought you said "other life forms" |
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Jan 10 2006, 08:19 PM
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Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
QUOTE(mzbbc @ Jan 9 2006, 8:07 PM) i don't know why, but the guys i know think that them & virginity= less masculinity. so whether or not they actually ARE virgins, you wouldn't know because those who are keep it quiet.but then a lot of girls i know who are virgins are proud of it because they are "saving it for the right person" and all that. it's actually kinda messed up. hell yah, keep it for the right one of course |
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Apr 20 2006, 01:38 AM
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QUOTE(Levy2k6 @ Jan 7 2006, 12:06 PM) lol... i heard that some girls think virgins are cute so yeah... new pick up thing.. lol. but idk, i'm still a virgin because my ex gf was afraid to get pregnant because condoms don't work ALL the time... i think being a virgin is good but then again.. i think being experienced is better because when you find the right person, it's not like your gonna suck.. that bad. i think guys who are virgins are cute 
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Apr 20 2006, 07:29 AM
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 katie fox is love. Group: Member Posts: 530 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,798 |
Now this reminds me of the Next episode I saw yesterday and the "cute little virgin queen" who was a Gay Male. Yuck much?
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Apr 20 2006, 05:10 PM
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 CertifiedMusic Group: Member Posts: 58 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,636 |
QUOTE(faithin_felix @ Jan 6 2006, 10:59 PM) beacuse if your are one, then the partner may think you are unexperienced. but if you aren't one, someone who is may have some weird feelings towards you. I agree with you. But when you do say your aren't a virgin... thats when they ask how many dones have you done it. |
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Apr 20 2006, 10:33 PM
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I guess if you're a guy, you'd be the man. But for girls, the younger you lose it the more you'll get talked about. I guess people think that that girl must be a whore because she lost it at ____ age. I don't think there's any disadvantages or advantages. Other than gaining more experience and STDS. I guess if you are one than you are more "pure".
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Apr 20 2006, 10:43 PM
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QUOTE(i_liek_sushi @ Jan 7 2006, 2:25 AM) Anyone getting laid by me should feel special no matter what. i think i love this guy |
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Apr 23 2006, 03:48 PM
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QUOTE(Gerifan04 @ Jan 7 2006, 3:57 AM) For me, it makes no difference. I'm a virgin and I don't feel weird around people who aren't. I don't think virginity should even be looked upon or ever thought of as possibly being a advantage or disadvantage. Its just something that you are or aren't. It doesn't make you a completely different person either way. agreed. |
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Apr 23 2006, 06:10 PM
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QUOTE(i_liek_sushi @ Jan 7 2006, 3:25 AM) Anyone getting laid by me should feel special no matter what. Nope. I don't think anyone would.. 
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Apr 23 2006, 06:40 PM
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QUOTE i think i love this guy Dat wus wrong, Evan.  i thought u only luvd meQUOTE i don't know why, but the guys i know think that them & virginity= less masculinity. so whether or not they actually ARE virgins, you wouldn't know because those who are keep it quiet Save urself sum tears and lie virginity ain't dat bad. it's like the flu. u'll eventually git rid of it
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Apr 23 2006, 06:50 PM
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You know, you people talk about how being experienced is good because you don't want to be bad in bed.... well how about this novel idea!
Both of you are virgins on your honeymoon and you don't know if it's bad... because you've never done it before... so it's just be really good. (I'm saving myself for my future husband... yes I'm a virgin and proud of it!) |
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