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 Dec 18 2005, 11:30 AM
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 ``AZNCUTiEAMY``  Group: Member Posts: 165 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,039  |
i think when the first time you hace sex i think u bleed not sure
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Dec 30 2005, 07:20 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
QUOTE(katek @ Dec 17 2005, 11:05 PM) my gf is not virgin either .. but now we have married since last October .. but for me virgin nor virgin is not important .. as long u love her .. .. i think u also not a virgin right .. i wonder if you masturbate  before ...   why the f**k is that picture there? |
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Dec 30 2005, 08:04 PM
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 YEA? ILL EAT YOUR FACE OFF =] Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,087 |
QUOTE(V_TEK @ Dec 14 2005, 9:26 AM) Sorry for asking you ladies but it concerned me a lot. Well the story goes something like this..... My girl and I dated when we were 12/14...now we're around 16/18...we had broken up and hooking back together a lot. Anyways, one summer we broke up and each of us found ourselves a new partner. I got myself another girlfriend and we did everything except for sex. When I came back to my real girlfriend, she asked me "so have you done anything to that girl?" I did everything except for sex...and I asked her, "What did you and that guy do?" She said "well I was naked and he fingered me?" (Sorry if this isn't pg13, I got to be specific.) So I thought oh, she's still a virgin and so am I. Later we actually did have sex for the first time of my life, but then it's weird... She didn't bleed? I heard from a good friend of mine saying that it should bleed because his girlfriend bleed when they first had sex and she's like 20 while my gf is like 15 at the moment. If she wasn't a virgin and she lied to me, I would be very upset because I lost it to some player. You see, I like to loose it to someone I love a lot...like someone who I will spend the rest of my life with but it feels like she's a player. When you girls who lost it to the one you love and you guys break up...don't you feel sad and do whatever it takes to get him back because he's the one who broke your virginity? Well in my case I want her back no matter what but she acted like she don't even care or need me. I was like what the hell? So I was thinking to myself that she lied to me. When she was naked and that guy fingered her (I mean the only reason a guy would fingered the girl is to make the girl more horny then after that intercourse, correct?) They must have sex... I bet she didn't want to tell me because she would think that I would think differently of her. But boy, I am pretty upset...I thought she was the one but she's not and now I lost it. I mean it's a once in a lifetime experience and I want to lose it to my wife...not some slut!! What do you guys think? you guys are like..15 and had sex?  like all the other people said on some other posts, your gfs hymen can break from excersizing. just because she didnt bleed doesnt mean she lied to you. |
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Dec 31 2005, 03:06 AM
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The vagina bleeds when the hymen is torn. I guess it's skin or something and some girls arn't even born with them, some tear them riding bikes, doing gymnastics and stuff like that, but a lot of girls bleed on there first time if they havn't torn it already.
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Dec 31 2005, 03:08 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,463 |
QUOTE(Trashley @ Dec 31 2005, 3:06 AM) The vagina bleeds when the hymen is torn. I guess it's skin or something and some girls arn't even born with them, some tear them riding bikes, doing gymnastics and stuff like that, but a lot of girls bleed on there first time if they havn't torn it already. oh and tampons can break them too! 
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Dec 31 2005, 07:01 AM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
man...i'm sorry to hear that. i'm a guy, but this is what i think.
first, when i read the other guy fingered her and was probably for intercourse, not neccessarily. cause the girl still had the right to reject. my ex was naked in front of her ex and nothing happened, and i believe her cause i mean at that age, we're just curious to see and don't have to neccessarily lose virginity, but the part that pissed me off is when you had sex with her and she wasn't excited or anything as if she was used to it and shiet. ok, thats not cool. well, you wanted to lose it to someone who you spend your life with, but...as you age and if your still not a virgin, chances are you will be the few that are still a virgin at that age. well it's good experience i guess? it's fine, you can still find someone that will love. many people out there, but just be true to yourself and don't take love for granted. now i have question for the ladies, how much do the girls bleed when they torn the hymen? |
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Jan 2 2006, 06:08 AM
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QUOTE(faithin_felix @ Dec 31 2005, 7:01 AM) man...i'm sorry to hear that. i'm a guy, but this is what i think. first, when i read the other guy fingered her and was probably for intercourse, not neccessarily. cause the girl still had the right to reject. my ex was naked in front of her ex and nothing happened, and i believe her cause i mean at that age, we're just curious to see and don't have to neccessarily lose virginity, but the part that pissed me off is when you had sex with her and she wasn't excited or anything as if she was used to it and shiet. ok, thats not cool. well, you wanted to lose it to someone who you spend your life with, but...as you age and if your still not a virgin, chances are you will be the few that are still a virgin at that age. well it's good experience i guess? it's fine, you can still find someone that will love. many people out there, but just be true to yourself and don't take love for granted. now i have question for the ladies, how much do the girls bleed when they torn the hymen? hi felix  OK. well even though i'm a virgin, i'm pretty sure i've broken my hymen. HOW, u ask? ( NO not because i stuck something up there) i distinctively remember that when i was 11 years old, i was walked down the stone stairs one day and i TRIPPED and FELL right on my tushy. later i found blood on my underwear. mom thought i had my period. but the bleeding stopped the next day. i got my period like half a year after that. if you want an amount, felix, it was about half a teaspoon or so of blood. not that much. its not like when you break ur hymen blood floods into the room, k? |
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Jan 3 2006, 05:51 PM
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 im NO ordinary! akO ay taO! Group: Member Posts: 385 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 314,294 |
i dont know if i can help you much but i have something to tell you.
the obvious part is: -shes with another guy even though she said "she only broke up with me because her parents doesn't let her date." -then she said "well I was naked and he fingered me?" -and suppose you were the guy "would you not have sex with the naked girl in front of you" -and when you finger a girl "would it not lead to sex" (for me ofcourse) -then you observe "When we first had sex, and then she went home...it doesn't seem like she is that excited? " (for me -> its maybe because she had already) -and the way you feel "i'm sick of her lies" -and the really obvious thing is that "you are hurt" so add them all we will get the word LIE, we cannot call it cheating cuz you broke up, we cannot also call this betrayal cuz you are on to her when it happens. just keeping youre mind clear.. 
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Jan 3 2006, 06:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 479 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,199 |
Well, she could have been telling the truth because she could have bled depending on...well...what happened. You're still sticking something there, so I mean, it could bleed even if you didn't have sex, so maybe that's why she didn't bleed with you if she did due to the thing with the other guy...
Ah, well that's one side, but my gut feeling is that she did lie to you. For me, I can't picture myself doing one thing with one guy and then have sex with another. Well, that's just me, but I have the same belief system you do: It's with that one special person and that person forever (and I'm glad I found him ^_^) Seems to me she's not as mature as you, and doesn't share your beliefs... Don't blame yourself if this is the case. You thought it was right...maybe now you will find the person you're really meant to be with. You never know. Things happen for reasons, so don't feel bad :) Important thing is you have a good heart, obviously, and very good intentions ^_^ |
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Jan 3 2006, 06:16 PM
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 the crip killa. Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,628 |
if you want mvho - i only have three words to tell you
GET OVER IT loosing your virginity really isn't that big of a deal. shit, trust me. |
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Jan 3 2006, 06:18 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 479 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,199 |
QUOTE(cLinT_wEStw0oD @ Jan 3 2006, 7:16 PM) if you want mvho - i only have three words to tell you GET OVER IT loosing your virginity really isn't that big of a deal. shit, trust me. No offense, but it's kids like you that don't cherish things or think something means anything...then you regret much in the future It's something special, not something you just do for fun...(though some people do, and it's sad...) Edit: when I say fun, I mean for money or like with just anyone for the heck of it, LoL |
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Jan 3 2006, 06:33 PM
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 Dragonfly_babe Group: Member Posts: 274 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 337,380 |
First of all a girl's hymen stretches if she bleeds its because it hasn't been stretched enough or never was. The best way to avoid bleeding is by fingering and using tampons on a regular basis. She probably didn't bleed because she used tampons, or the guy and her did it on more than one occasion, or he used more than 1 or 2 fingers which is the best way to stretch a hymen.
 OR maybe she masturbated on a regular basis by fingering herself and that is why her hymen is stretched!! 
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Jan 3 2006, 06:45 PM
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the crip killa. Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,628 |
QUOTE(WindSorcerous @ Jan 3 2006, 7:18 PM) No offense, but it's kids like you that don't cherish things or think something means anything...then you regret much in the future It's something special, not something you just do for fun...(though some people do, and it's sad...) Edit: when I say fun, I mean for money or like with just anyone for the heck of it, LoL after i read the davinci code (or angels and demons, don't remember which one had this in there) i really tried having sex with "love" in it. i assume i know nothing about love, which is why i am the way i am, or i didn't "love" the person i was having sex with. both are probably true, but that doesn't mean ima stop doing whatever it is i do until i find that "special someone". whenever i do though, it probably will have "love" in there. |
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Jan 8 2006, 09:15 PM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3 Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486 |
the first time i had sex .. i didnt bleed .... it didnt even hurt .. i dont ever remember bleeding from anything i did ( with a guy,riding my bike) anything .. but i do use tampons .. so that could be a possibility
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Jan 8 2006, 09:31 PM
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Damn... girls bleed all the time. Periods, that hymen thing, sex... glad I'm a guy.
but if anyone wants to loose their virginity i can assist you. =) |
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Jan 10 2006, 11:22 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 337,109 |
when me and my boyfriend ( of a year, whom i lost it to ) did it .. i didn't bleed but like one little tiny drop .. then the next time, he fingered me before and his hand was bloody. it was confusing for the both of us. then afterwards, we did it and nothing happened again.
maybe a tampon popped mine, but then why'd it bleed when he fingered me ? i don't know. i'm confused about my situation. not if it bleeds .. |
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Jan 13 2006, 05:26 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
I didn't bleed, but I use tampons, my friend that doesn't bled when she lost hers.
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Jan 15 2006, 01:39 PM
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 ALLISON Group: Official Designer Posts: 3,372 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 310,259 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Dec 13 2005, 11:28 PM) in health class i learned that you're not supposed to bleed after you lose your virginity because your hymen is a loose piece of skin. plus your hymen can break off when you're riding a bicycle. if there is bleeding it means some inner tissues have been torn and that is baaad because it can get infected. i did not bleed but it was one of the worst pains ever when i lost it. ^^ yea I learned that too p.s: you have bad grammar  ~~ msz. hixfive clickaty-clack |
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Jan 15 2006, 07:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
most time it bleeds because her hymen just broke
but sometimes i could have already been broken..like using a tampon and i think i heard that some girls were born without a hymen |
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Jan 16 2006, 08:37 AM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
Well, I know my friend bled when a guy fingered her for the first time. It can happen whenever, not necessarily during intercourse. I think if you believe this girl to be the love of your life, then you should have a little more trust in her.
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