oh bajeezus, advice puhleaze. |
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 can't touch this  Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,184  |
right outta my past, this guy i havent seen in two years shows up and i suddenly get the hots for him -
but i have a boyfriend. and i care about him aswell. and okay, this wouldnt be a bad thing, but this guy from my past just decided to tell me that he has a thing for me. what am i supposed to say? i told him i have a boyfriend and my boyfriend knows about it, but i dont know what to do! i dont want to ditch my boyfriend for this guy, but i dont want to hurt his feelings, ughughugh. curse me for not liking to hurt people! |
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Dec 22 2005, 02:51 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
well if you don't want to ditch your bf don't.
tough luck for the guy from your past, you already have a bf, he should understand that. |
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Dec 22 2005, 03:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 282,125 |
coming from experience...dont leave ur bf unless u seriously dont like him anymore....my ex left me for another guy...that hurt worse than any other breakup
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Dec 22 2005, 04:03 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
^ agreed..
dont leave ur boyfriend for another guy..its not right...i did something like that and the guy who wasnt my bf turned out to be an @$$.. |
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Dec 22 2005, 08:12 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
why do you like this guy?
all you have to ask yourself is if it's worth it to leave your boyfriend for this guy. just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean that he's the one. the only thing that's not fair is that you're keeping both or these guys to yourself. you have to let at least one go. unfortunately you can't go through life without hurting people. it's for the best though. it's much better to know that someone doesn't want to be with you than thinking you have a chance when you really don't. |
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Dec 25 2005, 10:45 PM
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 Umm its that thing you should call me...... Group: Member Posts: 111 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,898 |
First thing you do: Make it clear to your friend that you have a boyfriend.
Second:Decide who you like better....actually this seems like a better number one. *Insert as second before the tell your friend*if you like your boyfriend then go on to the next step. Third:Live with your choice. |
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Dec 26 2005, 03:30 AM
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 WOAH I CAN TYPE STUFF IN HERE?~!~ Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 274,826 |
easy, u tell him u have a boyfriend and say sorry
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Dec 26 2005, 10:49 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Technically he's (the 3rd guy) too late. But if he's "the one" (or he thinks you're "the one" for him) then he'll wait. Who knows what can happen in a year.
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Dec 27 2005, 12:55 AM
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 Infinite's End Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 193,597 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Dec 22 2005, 3:51 PM) well if you don't want to ditch your bf don't. tough luck for the guy from your past, you already have a bf, he should understand that.  yeah thats right! a guy from your past can go find someone else |
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Dec 27 2005, 07:48 PM
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I gave you everything ... Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,433 |
well hes been away for 2 years , ur boyfriend has been there for u , stick with ur boy friend
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Dec 27 2005, 07:49 PM
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I gave you everything ... Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,433 |
im bored
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Dec 27 2005, 07:50 PM
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I gave you everything ... Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 334,433 |
oopz sorry about that i lagged and i was typing on aim =X
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Dec 27 2005, 11:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 127 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 324,352 |
u cant always make everyone happy,
n ive learn that going through a sitution like that. but jus dont leave the one u love for the one u like, cus like they always say, they will do the same thing. leave the one they like for the one they love. u get me? |
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