Homosexuality, is it acceptable? |
 Nov 9 2005, 12:07 AM
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 My name is really Matt... if you care.  Group: Member Posts: 1,442 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 258,234  |
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you guys have some great advice... i will stay w/ my best friend... i knew the other guys were jerks all along i guess... just wanted to be popular...  any hoo.... lets turn this into ppl you know who are homosexual or closet-cases? i think that might be good.... ORIGINAL: QUOTE i am posting this to find out if it is NC that is homophoebic or everywhere
my best friend that i grew up w/ since we were 7... comes up to me one day and says "would you hate me if i was into guys" i said "no, as long as you dont like me like that, b/c i wont roll that way" were still friends, but i feel bad for him b/c he let it slip to a few other friends who told one more person, so u know how it is, naturally, he is now "that gay kid" and the whole school knew w/ in a few weeks... NOW... my other friends are telling me to stop hanging out w/ him... its "bad for my image" i said: "who the heck cares? this is high school... u guys wont have my back when we leave this school... but he will... so shove off!" or something like that... i was pissed plz post replies.... am i wrong for still being his friend? or wrong for losin' other friends? im in a bad spot right now |
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Nov 20 2005, 08:41 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(Boyfriendless @ Nov 19 2005, 1:05 AM) My friend just told me she is bi....I don't know what to think anymore.  Why not ? Shes still the same person. Shes jsut attracted to people with both Penis or a Vagina. Nothing different than who shes always been. |
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Nov 21 2005, 05:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
I know people who've keep their homosexuality a secret for a long time. But I accept them and help them through it.
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Nov 27 2005, 08:49 PM
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 I like to fill pill bottles with mints and eat them on the bus.. Group: Member Posts: 233 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 293,534 |
We were born this way. God made us this way. If he wanted someone to be a guy or a girl he would have made that person one.
Edit: Don't get offended. Thats just my personal opionion. I grew up this way. Please don't take this the wrong way. |
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Nov 27 2005, 09:33 PM
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i think its wrong but homos dont bother me...theyre fun to be around
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Dec 21 2005, 12:47 AM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ Homos ? That sounded so .... offensive. Sorry, just my opinion. =\
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Dec 21 2005, 12:36 PM
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Yeah, and what exactly does "they're fun to be around" mean, anyway? It's not like homosexuals are fundamentally different from any other person.
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Dec 21 2005, 12:49 PM
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QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Dec 21 2005, 12:47 AM) ^ Homos ? That sounded so .... offensive. Sorry, just my opinion. =\ homos = homosexuals jeebus. |
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Dec 21 2005, 11:36 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ I know what it means. I didnt imply I didnt. I just said it sounded mean.
I agree with Mipadi also. Why are they "fun to be around". Their sexual preference shouldnt really have anything to do with personality, in most cases. |
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Dec 22 2005, 06:16 AM
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 damn, right! Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547 |
I kinda agree with HolyMoly... but really, I was raised that way too.
I have nothing against homosexuals, though. And I treat them the way I treat those who are bi's and straight. |
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Dec 22 2005, 03:41 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(SHORTxSWEET @ Nov 27 2005, 8:33 PM) i think its wrong but homos dont bother me...theyre fun to be around ... Proof that homosexuals are seperated from human beings. But yeah, if you're not a homosexual, don't go crazy about homosexual rights. Basically, what you're saying is, homosexuals are too stupid to fight for themselves, so I'm going to do it for them (says Russell Peters). And aren't there enough topics about this!?!? |
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Dec 22 2005, 06:24 PM
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QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Dec 22 2005, 3:41 PM) But yeah, if you're not a homosexual, don't go crazy about homosexual rights. Basically, what you're saying is, homosexuals are too stupid to fight for themselves, so I'm going to do it for them (says Russell Peters). And aren't there enough topics about this!?!? It takes all people to fight for the equality of all people. |
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Dec 22 2005, 08:29 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ Agreed again. Just to strengthen the point,if only homosexuals fought for gay rights, if only black,asian,latino,white, or any other race only fought against rcaism towards their race, and didnt care because they werent the other. what if everyone thought that way back during Martin Luther King Jrs. time ?
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Dec 26 2005, 06:36 PM
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My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
^ Martin Luther King Jr. was a BIG influence because he was speaking up for his own people. Name me one person that is active for gay rights that is gay and has done a lot for the society. I don't think anyone has made that big of an influence and I don't think anyone that's straight or bisexual will make an influence like Martin Luther King Jr.
People really need to back off and let homosexuals fight for themselves. I'm not against homosexuality. I really don't care. I'm just tired of people making such a big deal out of it. Such a big deal that people who aren't homosexuals are getting angry about it ... |
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Dec 26 2005, 07:09 PM
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Who knows. I guess we have to wait for a someone to fight for his/her people ...
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Jan 18 2006, 05:32 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
Whatever floats his/her boat. Homosexuality has no affect on me whatsoever. I have several friends who are into same gender relationships.
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Jan 20 2006, 01:52 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
I'm fine with homosexuality...
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Jan 20 2006, 03:36 PM
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It's ok if they're girls.
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Jan 20 2006, 10:56 PM
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 Brand New Colony Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,078 |
i think its okay to be homosexual. two of my best friends are bi. and my friend Frank, is really kewl, kuz then me and him can be like "ooo look at that hot guy" heh.
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Jan 20 2006, 11:58 PM
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 chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
if you feel as if he will be there for you, you did the right thing... it really does not matter what his sexual orientation is... as long as he is your friend.
and no, i dont think that homosexuality is wrong because everyone has the right to be happy and if their homosexuality makes them happy then its their choice not yours |
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Jan 21 2006, 04:33 AM
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 I'm happy, are you? Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 345,268 |
Well I'm gay so I don't think it's wrong. Although there are the few gay guys who can't even deal with it. But good for you for standing up for your friend. So many people in your position would've just ditched him, regardless of personal feelings.
*Edited to add: I forgot to say, I accidentally(Yes! It was an accident) voted "yes" on the poll lol.
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Jan 21 2006, 04:37 AM
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I'm happy, are you? Group: Member Posts: 291 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 345,268 |
QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Dec 26 2005, 3:36 PM) ^ Martin Luther King Jr. was a BIG influence because he was speaking up for his own people. Name me one person that is active for gay rights that is gay and has done a lot for the society. I don't think anyone has made that big of an influence and I don't think anyone that's straight or bisexual will make an influence like Martin Luther King Jr. People really need to back off and let homosexuals fight for themselves. I'm not against homosexuality. I really don't care. I'm just tired of people making such a big deal out of it. Such a big deal that people who aren't homosexuals are getting angry about it ... A lot of gay people would speak out but its a scary thing to do so. I'm sorry, but with black people, its there for everyone to see. Gay people can(and do) hide it. So many are afraid to fight if it means they'll have to come out. I know many people who honestly fear for their safety, even if they only let their parents know. So while I agree with you that more gay people need to stand up, I can also see why many won't. |
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Jan 21 2006, 07:49 AM
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But Mattie aren't you umm.... "yeah"?
anyways There's nothing wrong with being gay (as long as I can watch  ) and I think you should be friends with him forever!
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Jan 21 2006, 12:51 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
I know a lot of homosexual or bisexual people. The only difference is their preferences in a relationship, and EVERYONE has differences in what they want in a relationship, so they shouldn't be discriminated against. Neither should you for being friends with one.
There are some people at my school who aren't ver nice to them, but for the most part people don't really care. |
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Jan 21 2006, 05:20 PM
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homosexuality is definetly not wrong.
nothing about it is wrong. saying its wrong is like telling someone that theyre wrong for being a certain religion. you cant exactly choose your preference. |
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Jan 23 2006, 10:11 PM
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I think that the friends who stopped being his friend and told you to stop hanging out with him are so arrogant and ignorant,theres is nothing wrong with him being into other guys it doesnt make him a changed person hes still the really good friend you had before you knew..sticking by him could strengthen your friendship so much more because he may not get the support he needs from others ( you can tell by how the other friends have reacted )..your definantely an awesome person if you do so :)
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