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Umm...don't?

My mom doesn't know and thats how I'd like to keep it for a few years.

You wait for the "right" time.
You wait for when you think your mom
knows you can handle all this....

Or, like what ^^ rachel is love said, you don't.

well u dont..

Lmao...oh man. Since when are we supposed to tell our parents? Lol.

why would u tell her...?:/

-do you feel bad about it, or are you pregnant or sumthin?

dont...unless she doesnt care..but yeah idk how you would tell her :\

when she feels happy tell her?

but i don't think you shoudl tell anyone about your sexual life..it's your private life. If you want to tell her you can but if she's an understanding mom, she won't kill you

Yeah, don't tell her unless she doesn't care.

don't. Wait till you are like 20

yeah i agree with everyone else. don't tell her unless you're pregnant or something

"HEY MOM GUESS WHAT? TODAY WAS SUCH A GREAT DAY BECAUSE I LOST MY VIRGINITY"

dude dont tell your mom...she might get a lock for your poosay or something or a cage around it to end all your fun

I suggest you dont. (:

But i say, when shes dropping you off to school or somewhere, say "bye mom i love you by the way ilostmyvirginity BYE !" Then run out of the car. Which of course you will eventually face her later on that day.

teehee^

nah just dont tell her. there's no need

dont.

Besides, why would you want to tell your mom? Unless you were raped or something.

Why do you wanna tell her in the first place? It would be suicide to tell your mom, "Mother, I had sex."

My mother told me to tell her when I'm ready to have sex LMAO but why would your mom want to know that you're having sex? Just a question......unless it's one of those really freak ove rprotective mom's that need to know their kid' every moment but if it's one of those moms whose suppppper crazy like poke you in the eye with a fork crazy i'd beware and not say anything.

of course moms would want to know if you're ready. they want to make sure they can give you warnings or a piece of their mind and have a talk about it

*shrugs* I told my mum. Course, I lost it at age 20 and it wasn't a particularly big deal.
To me, a bigger deal is that I fell completely in love with him and he fell in love with me and we're still together.

Were you in that sort of situation?
I just hope you used protection :)
It may not be wise to tell your mum, but really it depends on the sort of person she is.
I have a younger sister about your age though and I think it'd really worry my mum if she lost her virginity. She's too young to fall in love and teenage lust makes people do silly things.

Well if you feel comfortable enough to share these kinda things with her, then maybe you can tell her that there's something important you want to talk about with her, and just tell her. But I don't know whyyou'd wanna tell. It's such a private thing...and if it were me, I won't tell. There is no need to tell her that you lost your virginity.

When you're married.

I suggest you don't tell her even though it's the wrong thing to do.

Thing is, she would freak out and stuff. & then she would lose trust in you. But the thing is, if you don't tell, wouldn't it be worse if she finds out one day? I don't know about your mom, but my mom's the type of person who can tell someone is a virgin or not just from looking at them. So let's jsut hope your mom isn't like that or knows anyone who can do that. Apparently you can just tell from looking at their lower part of their bodies. No clue how guys my age can tell, too. Like my friend, he can tell who's a virgin or not (the girls) in my grade. & the only upside of telling her is in case that you got aids or whatever from whoever you slept with.

Let's just hope nothing went wrong and that your mom doesn't know.