Non-Heterosexual, parents reactions? |
 Nov 8 2005, 11:50 AM
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How did your parents feel when you told them that you were either bi, gay, or lesbian?
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Nov 8 2005, 04:44 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
*non-heterosexual*
and, hypothetically, my parents wouldnt care |
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Nov 8 2005, 04:53 PM
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I'm straight, but my parents would probably be shocked and wonder how the next generation with my last name is going to last..
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| *mzkandi* |
Nov 8 2005, 05:03 PM
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I'm straight too but my parents would be pissed/disappointed/questioning where they went wrong if I wasnt. Thats just the way they think.......
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Nov 8 2005, 05:29 PM
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QUOTE(mzkandi @ Nov 8 2005, 5:03 PM) I'm straight too but my parents would be pissed/disappointed/questioning where they went wrong if I wasnt. Thats just the way they think.......  Yeah, pretty much the same here. But, I'm sure they would eventually learn to deal with it. |
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Nov 8 2005, 05:36 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if i was they'll probably freak out
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Nov 8 2005, 06:10 PM
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QUOTE(Szeh @ Nov 8 2005, 3:53 PM) I'm straight, but my parents would probably be shocked and wonder how the next generation with my last name is going to last.. once again straight, but im sure my parents would think the same, but also be understanding about it. not sure. dont have to worry about it though.
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Nov 8 2005, 06:39 PM
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I have two good friends(one boy & one girl) that are each homosexual. My guy friend's mom jokes around w/ him about it & she doesnt really care all that much, but I think she saw it coming. The girl's parents weren't mad either. They dont treat her different. & she went all out like cut her hair & everything
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Nov 8 2005, 07:56 PM
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I'm straight, but..
My dad's best friend is gay, so my dad would be totally cool with it. My mom on the other hand might be a little surprised. |
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Nov 8 2005, 08:23 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
My mom's been nagging me not to be a "lesbian".. but I'm not a lesbian. She's just a little paranoid. That's all.
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Nov 8 2005, 08:45 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols im straight as a board, but my parents...i don't really know...i bet they wouldnt understand at first and then i'd have to explain to them...my dad would probably never talk to me again...and my mom would...just cry....i think it would hurt her a lot because we always talk about the day i would get married to a great guy that would always take care of me for the rest of my life and have loads of grandchildrens and great grandchildrens(for my grandma)...lols...i think it would totally break her heart...
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Nov 8 2005, 08:49 PM
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I'm straight, but if I told them I was bi or lesbien they'd be totally SHOCKED
 so would I! 
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Nov 8 2005, 09:25 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Hypathetically speaking, Id be kicked out of my house again for who knows how long. My dad would go crazy, speaking his ignorant nonsense. And my mom would mumble yeah and uh huh and try to diss me but then falter in the middle of her sentence, sounding stupid. (:
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Nov 9 2005, 01:12 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,292 |
So much prejudice in the older generations and still alot in ours
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Nov 9 2005, 12:16 PM
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 My name is really Matt... if you care. Group: Member Posts: 1,442 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 258,234 |
also straight
um... yeah... my parents would like, have an exorcism  on me or something.. idkthey're always talking about how wrong homosexuality is and stuff yeah... they are like the most critical ppl i know  .. they always arre talking about other people and making fun of other religions and stuffi hate the way they think and so i strive myself not to be like that |
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Nov 10 2005, 11:23 PM
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QUOTE(Szeh @ Nov 8 2005, 3:53 PM) I'm straight, but my parents would probably be shocked and wonder how the next generation with my last name is going to last.. yeah mine would do the same...my dad told me he would disown me |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Nov 10 2005, 11:36 PM
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Well my sister's lesbian, and we have no idea if my mom and dad know or not. But I think they know, they just won't say anything.
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Feb 4 2006, 09:32 PM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
I'm bisexual but I cant tell my parents... they're the biggest homophobes I've ever met and are MAJOR gay haters.
I might tell them some day... I used to say I'd tell them when I got a gf.... but I have one now and I still dont think I'll tell them. idk... maybe I'll save it for when they're really pissed at me about something... just to distract them. lmao |
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Feb 5 2006, 12:09 PM
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QUOTE(brownsugar08 @ Nov 8 2005, 3:13 PM) Hypothetically speaking, my parents would be shocked. My mom would eventually understand, but I doubt my dad ever would. Haha my situation would be the other way around. My dad would be understanding whereas my mum would shun me and kick me out. -_- My mum is so unbelievably intolerant! |
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| *Programmer* |
Feb 5 2006, 12:15 PM
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probabaly kick me ass if i was.
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Feb 5 2006, 02:29 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
I'm straight, but if I told my parents my dad would probably blame it on me and my mom would be like really shocked.
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Feb 5 2006, 04:40 PM
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 omygay Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 281,195 |
My mom didnt care. She just hugged me. My step-dad didnt care. But my real-dad doesnt know cuz I havent talked to him for like 3 years.
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Feb 5 2006, 06:03 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
i don't think she'd care.
i mean, if i told her i was lesbian. but if i was bi or something, she'd be like WTFZZZZZ 'cause my mom freaks out whenever I'm with guys. It's either she's TOO paranoid, or she wants me to be lesbian.
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Feb 6 2006, 01:05 PM
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 say maydayism. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
A normal person honestly won't tell their parents that he/she is homosexual/bisexual.
But IF that ever happens to me, I think they'll probably be totally mad at me and try to transform me back to straight. |
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 6 2006, 01:59 PM
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i'm straight, but my parents would be shocked but they wouldn't mind. i don't think so anyways.
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