are friends 100% neccessary? |
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are friends 100% neccessary? |
Oct 30 2005, 09:09 AM
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Well, Im kinda bored and Im stuck through hwk so out of random Im just askinng this question: are friends neccessary? and if yes or no, Why?
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Oct 30 2005, 09:12 AM
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,746 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,125 |
Well, friends are a necessity. Friendship is determined by your level of trust with a person. Its when you can talk to someone and they understand you. That includes parents and other family members. So really, if you have no friends, you are isolated from everyone. That would drive anybody insane.
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Oct 30 2005, 09:28 AM
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![]() naïvety ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ agreed
If nobody had friends, imagine how cold this world would be.. If friends weren't 100% necessary, they wouldn't exist |
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Oct 30 2005, 11:53 AM
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In a word, yes. Humans are social beasts (to paraphrase...Aristotle, was it?). You need friends to be social.
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Oct 30 2005, 12:13 PM
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![]() Another ditch in the road... you keep moving ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
go dknows what i would do without friends... i wouldnt be able to cause melodrama for one thing
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Oct 30 2005, 12:13 PM
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![]() dakishimetainoni... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i believe that friends are necessary. you don't have to have boat loads of friends, just at least a few people that you can talk to, to help you figure out life and broaden your mind with new thoughts from actual people.
if you just spent time with just yourself and/or your family you'd only have their thoughts in your head...and if your family is anything like mine, i would have ended up a racist. |
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Oct 30 2005, 12:15 PM
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![]() define our lives for us. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
I defintely think that friends are necessary. Having at least one friend could change your life forever. And yeah, I'm pretty much agreeing with what chii said. Imagine going to school without anyone to talk to, nobody to sit with at lunch, no partners to choose from on projects, it's pretty lonely. I thought I didn't need friends, but feeling lonely like that everyday will change your mind.
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Oct 30 2005, 01:59 PM
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![]() ladybugs are hot <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,169 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,802 |
yes.
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Oct 30 2005, 02:38 PM
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![]() F**k me Beautiful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
i wouldnt say friendS necessarly, but someone who u can trust and talk to. and friends arent the only people u can do that with.
anyways from my point of view , i do think they are significant , but sometimes friends arent enough . |
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Oct 30 2005, 02:40 PM
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
I don't think so, when I moved to a different state, everyone was mean to me because i wore black. I survived without friends for a year.
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Oct 30 2005, 02:43 PM
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![]() unrequited love ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
yes. they are if we didnt have them then i dont think thier would be such a thing as a world. friends create who you are, your personality, your beliefs, your style, your life. Everyone has a friend...real or not. They're wouldn't be anything...i think. No one to talk too. no one to listen to your complaints. no one to hold your hand. no one to pick you up. no one to laugh with. no one to cry with. Friends in general could be anyone even your parents... hard to explain. but having friends creates you. like a seed which blossoms into a tree and branches out. ehh bad way of putting it but yopu all know what i mean :)
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Oct 30 2005, 02:50 PM
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
^ that is so true
when all the ppl in my school hated me, i almost resolved in suicide |
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Oct 30 2005, 02:52 PM
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![]() unrequited love ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
^ awww omg...I'LL BE YOUR FRIEND T__T;
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Oct 30 2005, 02:57 PM
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![]() Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
^lol aren't we already........ now my life is good... i have tons of friends (but i feel bad cuz they get abused by their drunken parents)
in a way, I think true friendship is a therapy for those who don't want to be lonely.... |
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Oct 30 2005, 03:00 PM
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In some ways yes, but in others no. Most of the time they don't, but you do get the select few that lay a great positive impact on you.
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Oct 30 2005, 05:53 PM
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![]() Flirtation=Attention with Intention ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 206 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 276,209 |
I don't know...but I think having a couple of friends is worthwhile. Even if its just one person at least its someone.
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Oct 30 2005, 05:55 PM
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![]() hello : ) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Yes I believe we NEED friends. Humans by nature are social creatures and need relationships (whether it be platonic like friends or not).
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Oct 30 2005, 06:10 PM
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Peggy. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,508 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 214,025 |
You need a minimum of one in order to share your own little secrets, complain, yadda yadda yadda.
If you want more than a friend, then it is different. Simply it is like this: You NEED ONE friend, and you WANT MORE friends. |
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Oct 30 2005, 06:55 PM
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If people had no friends then no one would have any problems other than family issues. It would be almost too perfect. And they shape who you are. Without them, you'd be nothing.
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Oct 30 2005, 07:12 PM
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![]() Residential Crazy Child ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
I don't think I could get out of bed knowing I didn't have any friends. Maybe they aren't 100% neccessary, but they make the day easier to go through.
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Oct 30 2005, 07:18 PM
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![]() Alisha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
^ true
for me, i def. need my friends for those tough times and in those tough times u see who ur real friends are =T |
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Oct 31 2005, 12:30 AM
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Friends are not necessary to live.
Friends are necessary to live well. |
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Oct 31 2005, 12:41 AM
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![]() I'll never be who I was again.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
^ agreed, well put..
I think you can live without friends, but without them, life would be really boring.. From experience I can say, life with friends is very different from life without friends.. If I hadn't had friends a couple of months ago, I would probably be dead by now.. |
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Oct 31 2005, 12:50 AM
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![]() MY LIFE IS MY LIFE !!!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 242,521 |
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Oct 31 2005, 02:16 AM
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My friends keep me sane... so yes, definitely.
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