Is it possible to fall in love in 1 month??? |
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 Oct 29 2005, 05:46 PM
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yea i think it is...who knows?!?
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Oct 29 2005, 05:55 PM
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QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Oct 29 2005, 11:39 AM) Well yes actually, You can fall in love at first sight But realize it a year later or find the love of your life and fall deeply in love in a long period of time for me love can happen anytime as long as you're sure you're in love you're in love no one can always be sure for example, my mom and dad met when they were 4 or 6 or somethin and became really good best friends.... and they realized they were in love after college but congrats that you found someone who you can bind yourself to  lols awwhs how cute...hahahaa...=) heehee well i beleive love can happen at anytime, but so many teens nowadays think they're in love within that time period and like a few weeks later they're "in love" with someone else already...what a quinkie dink huh?!?!?! lols...but i think that love is just out there somewhere...haha you might not know it now but you know, its out there...hahaha sometimes i think i've met my love somewhere before and like i actually haven't MET him met him yet...get my drift? lols =) but yeh its possible, but make sure its LOVE and not lust or infautation...lols...those can kick you in the nuggies too 
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Oct 29 2005, 11:41 PM
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Love knows no time limit. I'm sure its possible to fall in love at 1 month or even the first sight.
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Oct 30 2005, 04:05 AM
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 after all that we've been through... you know we're cool Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,691 |
Yes, yes, oh yes!!! Don't listen to the ones to whom it hasn't happened yet. XD They're just bitter....
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Oct 30 2005, 09:49 AM
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its possible i guess...I dindt fall in love until like the 3rd month or so. Nadir though said he loved me ever since he got to know me which was before we started goin out so i guess its possible
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Oct 30 2005, 10:48 AM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Oct 29 2005, 5:55 PM) lols awwhs how cute...hahahaa...=) heehee well i beleive love can happen at anytime, but so many teens nowadays think they're in love within that time period and like a few weeks later they're "in love" with someone else already...what a quinkie dink huh?!?!?! lols...but i think that love is just out there somewhere...haha you might not know it now but you know, its out there...hahaha sometimes i think i've met my love somewhere before and like i actually haven't MET him met him yet...get my drift? lols =) but yeh its possible, but make sure its LOVE and not lust or infautation...lols...those can kick you in the nuggies too lol yeah exactly! QUOTE sometimes i think i've met my love somewhere before and like i actually haven't MET him met him yet...get my drift? lols =) lol like the movie, "Sleeping Beauty" ...that song that goes like, "I know you, I've met you once upon a dream" |
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Oct 30 2005, 08:38 PM
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 I think it is possible, depends on how you both feel at the time, and want to work on the relationship. then you have to be brave because it might not last long and you are left with a broken heart.
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Oct 30 2005, 08:52 PM
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what kind of a question is that? first of all, it depends on the person. seccond of all, it depends on your definition of falling in love. and thirdly, you can fall in love in 1 seccond.
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Oct 30 2005, 09:00 PM
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QUOTE(d4z3 @ Oct 29 2005, 1:42 PM) Well. According to the entertainment world, you can fall in love in 10 days. (I love that movie, btw). Only you can tell. I don't understand why some people come and ask online if they're in love or not. I mean, Most of you are askng complete strangers. We've never seen the way he's made you smile and laugh. We can't feel how he makes you feel. You can tell us, but it's not the same as the actually feeling. frick!! u took the words right out of my mouth. i feel the same way..  hmmmm. im in love and he knows it, sadly he doesnt know if he still has feelings for his ex or for me. ugh. it sucks. every day that goes by my feelings for him grow stronger and stronger.... Ive known him for  a month and a half.
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Oct 30 2005, 09:59 PM
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Please don't double-post.
 i guess it's possible, but you don't want to become too obsessive and clingy. *is amazed how this relates to hezron and his ex*...[/off topicness] |
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Oct 30 2005, 10:12 PM
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QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Oct 29 2005, 3:45 PM) well how are you attracted to someone in the first place? of course you'll have to thinkn they're pretty to like them and I don't mean general pretty like pretty by the way she/he treats people or simply by the way she/he looks in your opinion you can like someone for their looks and then fall in love with them after getting to know them. That's my definition for love at first sight what is with your obsession with spaces sdfasdfasd |
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Oct 31 2005, 12:14 AM
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You can fall in love in any amount of time.
It's how large the chances are of falling in love that quickly that are questioned... Personally, I feel if it's a passing highschool boyrfriend or crush, you most likely aren't in love. Just infatuation. But that's just me... |
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Oct 31 2005, 04:40 PM
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diff opinions...
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Nov 5 2005, 09:57 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Oct 30 2005, 10:12 PM) what is with your obsession with spaces sdfasdfasd it helps my posts become neater and organized and out-standing praise to love "love is like oxygen" Love can be platonic and not platonic you can fall in love by just getting to know the person more and more who are we to judge if you're in love or not? It is you who decide it. Love is so unpredictable You never know... Anyone can fall in love at any age take Forest Gump and Jeanie for an example (it;s a true story folks) |
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Nov 5 2005, 10:07 PM
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seems like a lot of people think it is possible.
personally, i don't. i guess it depends what kind of love. but i don't think you can truly be in love after one month. a lot of teenagers just like the feeling of being liked/"loved" and "needed" by someone else. i don't think you can tell if you were really in love until you break up and look back. unless you never break up and spend the rest of your lives together. that's true love. this is kind of random, but i like it when i see old (like senior citizen) couples walking around holding hands, looking happy with each other. i think it shows how strong love can really be. anyways, you might be in love, but personally, i doubt it. |
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Nov 5 2005, 11:24 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
I always wonder
why people think teenagers can't fall in love ever since the underage sex epidimic people think love is being exagerrated by teens Would you say the same for happily married couples that met in High School or way before? |
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Nov 7 2005, 01:52 PM
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it is very possible. it depends how much time you guys have spent together.
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Nov 8 2005, 11:54 AM
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Love is a very complicated thing. There is no exact definition for it because we all see it slightly different. IMO love can only exist after spend lots of time with someone(give or take a few years) and really seeing them as someone you would share your life with. Thats just my view of it. Keep in mind that it might be different for you.
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Nov 8 2005, 03:55 PM
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Dude, it's possible for love at first sight...
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Nov 8 2005, 05:32 PM
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It can happen. Most likely it ends up getting all messy and not working out in the end, but it can happen. I wouldn't go out and do anything drastic about it, though. I know this girl who went about with her boyfriend for "almost 3 months" and they got engaged. Not even a week later they were broken up.
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Nov 10 2005, 04:55 PM
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Yes. Anythings possible. Sometimes, people even fall in love at first sight, or they say so.
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Nov 12 2005, 08:14 AM
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(Be prepared for maybe the worst thesis about love maybe. I was just talking to my friend and was really inspired to write this. I don't know if I'm right. I felt like i was on a role at the beginning but towards the end i didn't know how to finish it or but my thoughts into words so yeah; that's why it's called a Philosophy, not all Philosophies are correct. I probably made some grammical or typo mistakes so sorry for that too.)
Love Love is not a fire where the simplest thing like a spark can make it happen. It’s funny how people describe love as a fire, while maybe others describe lust like a fire as well. Lust is a powerful emotion some mistake for love, lust is a sudden yearning for that person and sometimes it can very powerful. The simplest thing can spark lust within a person, a simple touch, and a small flash of skin, just seeing a beautiful woman. All those things can spark lust. So yes lust is like a fire, the simplest thing can start it, it burns greatly for a certain amount of time and can last longer if you feed it more wood (temptation) but in the end it always burns out. You see love is not like that. Some people describe love as a spark that lasts a lifetime. Well I’m sorry, sparks don’t last a lifetime, a spark lasts a second. If you notice the spark or noitce it but don't think about it, then that is all it will be, a spark, a small fraction of time where you felt a yearning but nothing more. If you think about it and feed that spark some wood (thoughts and attention) then it will start a fire, if that fire is fed too much wood it can become uncontrollable and wild. Do you know what happens when they fire becomes uncontrollable? Rape… assault…death. Why would anyone compare love to a spark? Because they do not know what love is. Why compare love to a fire? What’s so great about a fire? Anyone can make a fire. Love cannot be a fire. Love is a long process that takes hard work and effort. Like building a car, or climbing a mountain. It takes time, patience, dedication; it is not an easy thing. Love is a special thing so shouldn’t it be compared to something special? Like climbing a mountain, building a car or a house with your bare hands? Those are special achievements that, like a fire, anyone can do; but it takes a certain amount of dedication, patience and effort to do it. Some of you may be asking: “Well sure all of those things are special and are a long process but a car nor a house last forever and sure climbing a mountain is a amazing thing but after you’ve climbed to the top then that’s it. You did it, nothing else, what did you gain?” That is a good question. What do you gain from building a house or car with your bare hands or from climbing a mountain that lasts a lifetime? A memory, that will last a life time. That memory is something you will cherish for the rest of your days. It’s something you can look back on that will make you happy. If you are feeling sad, you can always think of the good memories you had and that will make you happy. That memory or memories is what you gained and that is love. Love is like your more pure, happy and charitable memory. You will never forget it and it will never forget you. |
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Nov 12 2005, 10:46 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
^yeah true true
(I'll get off-topic from your response now) but I think it depends on a person's personality. I don't believe in the "destined to be together thing" I think people fall in love as they get to know each other. And when they find suitable for each other, they'll notice that they get more comfortable with each other. Love is when you're willing to protect a "spark" from withering away. Love is when you can't really define an "eternal flame" if you're not sure about the s#!t i'm saying, then go ask the nearest happily married senior citizen in your local nursing home 
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