^your sig is stretching the browserwindow.

aw xander. don't worry. everything will work out for the best. if you're not meant to be, then it's probably for the best. you'll find the right one for you. keep your head up 'k? there'll always be better days.

email me if you want to talk (:

hum... I gave you my advice but obviously I had no idea you two had been together for a year. I could just imagine what your relationship was like, so that is that. Then, from what you wrote you saw your ex gf with another guy. What a week after you two broke up? So she either left you for him and told you she needed time to study etc. OR two, she did not want to be with you anymore and thought it would hurt you less if she told you it was for her studies, and then met a new guy that fast. Which is possible. It's happened to me. So, whatever the options she told you she doesn't want to be with you. For studies or whatever. I don't know how old you are but I am sure you are young and you will meet someone when the time comes. Right now, don't just ''wait for her''. If you feel like you have some last words to tell her, because maybe you didn't really think she was actually breaking up with you that day, write her a letter and let go.

You will get past the hurt. ::Just give it time:: take care.

well guys, its over! l talked to her this morning and we decided to end it up. She said that the reason why she broke up with me is that she thought that were going a little to fast or things happened so fast for both of us ( l haven't even kiss her yet, now thats fast.hahaha!). She said that she's going out with Mike. She said that she dont want to hurt me anymore and she think its good for us to be friends again. She said that she's not sure about her feeling toward me. She said that she's confuse about my feelings too. She said that she have mixed feeling.






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there is always for a reason why things happens the way they do.
many of us fail coz many of us don't try at all. we make our selves believe that the best way to overcome an emotional challenge is to avoid it. but avoiding it simply puts the challenge aside. we will stil need to face the day when we have to comfort the feeling we need to stay away from before.
sometimes we ask out selves, why loving someone has to be as complicated mess of emotion and entanglements. sometimes circumtances make it very diffecult for us to openly express what we feel for someone. sometimes love is so elusive and when we finally fine it, its too late.

xander, there is time for everything and now is not. maybe there is a place somewhere out there for that love. maybe there is a time catch up on all that you have missed. but until that day dawns, you simple have to move on and live not a what "could have been life" but rather a life that should be. if you are meant to each other then you have to wait because Ayen will comeback to you. if she doesn't then you have to accept that she never was yours. Do not let your love for her make you feel miserable. let that love be the strenght so that so that you my find happiness in the arms of someone trully meant for you.







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everything happened for the best. if the person you
love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love
somebody else again;you'll never know if it will
returned unless you give it s try. You never really
love someone unless you risk for it.

love strives and grow in hurting. lf you dont get hurt,
you don't learn how to love.

love doesn't hurt all the time. the hurting is there to
test us and help you grow. you cannot finish a
book without closing its chapters. to move on, you
have to leave the ast in the same way you turn the
pages.

loving is not destroy by a single single failure or
won by a single caress. it is a life verture wherein
we are always learning, discovering and growing.

loving's great irony is letting go when you need to
hold on and/or holding on when you needed to let
go. loving people means giving them the freedom to
choose whom and where they want to be happy,
regardless whether those choices leads toward or
away from you.

we lose someone we love only when we are
destined to find someone else who can love us
more than we love ourselves.

dont try to find love, let love finds you. that's why
its called "falling in love" coz you don't force your
self to fall. you just fall.

in falling to someone, take time to heal and then go
back to the horse again. But don't make the same
mistakes of riding the first trew you.







but l'm stil hoping for the same horse who trew me

everything's going to be fine.


i find this very well written.
don't let your love for her "cover" the kinds of happiness you could have. it'll be hard since you guys were together for so long, but it's all going to be okay. soon, you'll be truly truly happy, cuz i know you deserve it.

thanks yanlin, your so sweet


yeah, everything will be ok

hope so....

Hey take it easy, everyone goes through breakups sometime in their life

l'm trying

it's gonna be all right. i know it's cliched, but there's always the sun after the rain. (:

ghee

thanks yanlin

dont worry everything will ok. All l have to be is make my self busy and busy and busy.


"keep your head up 'k? there'll always be better days."

yup there is and l'm trying to keep my head up to the sky and pretend nothing happened. l'm good at pretending. lols



l'm ok now

thank you very much guys

^ Yeah I agree with mipadi. She probably couldn't say "I like this other guy and I wanna be with im not you." I say, you get over her. OR find an activity you really like and start getting into it.