i have a girlfriend see.and im walking my best friend to class.i always call girls beautiful and i compliment them and i always carry my best friends book. and watch over her...u know....when someone touch her....i kick thier azz....do u think thats cheating....

No, but it is kinda dancing around it.(as in the compliments and stuff)

I agree. I think if you have a girlfriend, you should only be calling her beautiful.

well...i dunno that's kind of a hard one. i mean, honestly like what the others are saying, you should only be calling your girlfriend beautiful, but yeah...if you have to compliment another girl, don't let your girlfriend hear it in case she's the jealous type.

like for me, i get mad when i hear my boyfriend call another girl "beautiful" especially if he uses the word "hot" cuz idk it just makes me jealous (unless it's about a celebrity cuz i know he has no chance with her). sorry if what i said sounds bitchy; i was just being honest.

^ No, that wasn't bitchy at all. In fact that's probably how most girls feel

And.. whoa. Step away from other girls. Your best friend is one thing, but calling others "beautiful" is another. It's not cheating but it can piss your gf off a lot.

^i agree. i would be really pissed off if my bf did that, i mean shouldn't that word be reserved for someone more special? the carrying of books and taking care of her is fine, after all she's your best friend. just dont compliment like other girls too much.

I think that if you really love your girlfriend then you should makesure that she is the most important. Its cool n all if you are close with your best friend but just make sure that things don't go too far.

well usually when you hav a girlfriend
and a girl best friend

drama starts to happen

all i can say
is that
it's not cheating
unless you're doing all that stuff for ur best friend
because you really like her or something

but it seems like you dont
so ur gf should know that
ur best friend is like a little
sister to you

the only thing wrong
is dont call girls beautiful
except ur own girl

cuz
she'll start to get jealous
and all this ddrama occurs

lol i couldn't agree more.
I mean it's all nice that you protect your best friend and carry her books, i mean ok that's nice.
But when you walk around the halls and call other girls beautiful and compliment them all the time...eh....if i was your girlfriend i would probably be jealous. I mean girls like to know that you only see them. you know?
So i would advise you to probably stop doing that.

that seems like just flirting to me.
...but it may be just a compliment. just remember to not over do it. expecially in front of your girlfriend. that's where drama starts. and that could ruin your relationship.

I dont let any male friends call me beautiful unless I am feeling down and they said it to cheer me up. I think it is not cheating but definitely a matter of relationship ettiquette.

No it's not cheating. Cheating would be banging/kissing/getting serious with another girl. You're just being an overprotective and caring best friend

not cheating man but i would get seriously jelous if my boyfriend called another girl beautiful. yeah your a goodfriend, but still got to think about your girl too.
and yeah i agree with someone who said up top that its all about relationship ettiquette

Unfortunately, we live in a world where men and women can't be friends.

oyeah i want to add to what i said...

if you spend more time caring for your best friend than your gf... well i'd be jealous if i were your gf... try to treat your gf more important than your best friend although you should treat them equally

Mhmmmmm.
it's not cheating. but i would get pretty jealous and etc. and if you walk and carry your best friend's books to class more than you do so for your girlfriend.. she has the right to be mad.
and i would absolutely hate it if he complements another girl beautiful.

im spend more time with my best friend then with my girl.its cuz i have no classes with her.cuz we in different grade,harhar.we always helpin each other out.my best friend is really special to me.the best one i ever had.omg....i hate when she embaresses me too.she always makin me spend more time with my girl which is something good.to me,best friends come first than girlfriend,am i right?i mean,if u would choose your best friend or your girlfriend,who would it be?ill try to hang with her and my best friend.im going to introduce them to each other which i never have a chance to do and they always see each other but like.....barley look or talk.......this reminds me of Lizzie mcguire....u know,miranda,lizzie,gordo......heh,i hated that show,kinda concited.the difference with my life and lizzie mcguire is im sexier than gordo and my girls are more beautiful...

Compliments are cool, so long as that's all they are. You don't have any feelings beyond friendship, so there's no problem. Also, it's understandable if your girlfriend can't understand that, but you should ask her to try and if she refuses or just simply won't try, then she's not worth it. You seem like a sweet enough kid that you shouldn't have to choose between your best friend who is a girl and a girl that you won't date for the rest of your life. Although, thinking of it in that sense makes the decision easy, right?

I hope that helped. And umm... ignore my display picture when you read this, it takes away from the sincerity of it... haha.

Good luck! =D

^

Mr. Bunnell boy are you wise... i never thought of it that way

^ my thoughts exactly. if my boyfriend was off complimenting every girl he could i'd probly get a bit irritated too. but what you're doing is definitely not cheating by my standards. just tone down with all the 'beautifuls'

Break up with your gf...sounds like you don't like her that much

No, you're not cheating. You will be if those compliments turn into actions though.

um, i would get pissed if my ex (well when i was going out with him) called another girl beautiful...

You're all so possessive. Not wanting your boyfriend to comment on the way he views another person is one thing, but getting mad over it? Too much, far too much. He's not engaging in flirtatious activity, he's not holding hands and rubbing noses, he's holding books and saying, "You're very beautiful." What if she was crying because she felt that she wasn't beautiful (which I disagree with also, but that's another story) would you try to restrain him from saying, "No, of course you're beautiful!"?

Just because somebody compliments another person on their looks, or how much fun they are, or anything like that, does not mean they're flirting and you have no logical reason to be upset other than your own insecurities. A significant other/spouse is not a possession, it's just as it says. Significant other. One who isn't you, but lies on an equal plain. Allow them to make decisions and live life accordingly.

I guess I'm just ranting here, but it seems like such a close-minded thing to say. "No you cannot compliment other people. Your compliments better be aimed at me."

I still love you, though.
<3

EDIT: 3 AM makes you extremely hyper, but also extremely outspoken. Sorry.

^ hahah. you are very wise indeed, even though your profile picture does take away the sincerity.

i'd be okay if my boyfriend, that is if i had one, called other girls beautiful or hot. but only if he'd be okay with the fact that i find other guys hot as well.

to jumony, i think it's okay, just as long as you don't overdo it. but maybe you should spend some more time with your gf. it might be a bit hard on her especially since for you, best friends come first, and in this case, your best friend is another girl. wait...am i right? it's not cheating, but it'll definately make your gf jealous.