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 Oct 1 2005, 06:47 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians  Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066  |
if there's already a topic about this... GOMENOSAI! I AM SORRY! just please close it then ^_^
I don't mean to be bragging, but this guy from xanga just started IMing me and he's younger than me by 2 years. And after a few weeks, he said he loves me... OKAY I AM CREEEEPED OUT. I kinda think he don't even know what he's saying. Everytime i have to sign off, he keeps making me promise to come back online tomorrow although i keep telling him that i can't guarantee that. and when i say i can't promise, he would send 100000000 e-mails and i am afraid he might track me down to this point... can anybody give some tips on how to get rid of this guy... in a nice way? |
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Oct 1 2005, 06:49 PM
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Have you tried simply telling him that you aren't interested and that he's coming on too strongly?
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Oct 1 2005, 06:50 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Stop talking to him all together?
For a kid, whom I am assuming is quite young, I think he has his mind in other places... |
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Oct 1 2005, 06:50 PM
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Another problem with online relationships.
Well, since you really don't know him, you can just block him from everything. It's just better not to talk to him. Oh how online relationships are annoying in some cases. 
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Oct 1 2005, 06:52 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 1 2005, 6:49 PM) Have you tried simply telling him that you aren't interested and that he's coming on too strongly?  yeah but he keeps pulling these guilt trips on me like, "you're just like that girl who hurt me." or "i am gonna commit suicide if you don't come back" i have tried to block him but he keeps getting new sn's and i changed my screen name and he still finds out... it's like he's tracking me or something and he had my other friends who i talk to online convinced that we're in love when we really aren't |
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Oct 1 2005, 06:54 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
...Stalker ish. Creepy.
 If he's pulling the suicide knife out..he needs to grow up. You just need to tell him the truth, before it'll turn into an even bigger mess and then an even bigger one... |
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Oct 1 2005, 06:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,665 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,076 |
Woah, this is gettign real out of hand.
He is just totally desperate. Just try to block everything about him. Make a new email, something totally different, with different information. 
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Oct 1 2005, 06:56 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(Blue-Chan @ Oct 1 2005, 6:55 PM) Woah, this is gettign real out of hand. He is just totally desperate. Just try to block everything about him. Make a new email, something totally different, with different information. ...and only tell the people you can utterly trust about it.. |
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Oct 1 2005, 07:00 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Freaky. Tell him one last time to stop, leave you alone. be stern.
Then proceed to change your sns and email and anything else he can reach you through and lay low, dont tell anyone for a while [ a week or so ] and then presume to what you normally do. if he somehow finds out your information again then report him or something. |
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Oct 1 2005, 09:03 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
Alright thanks for the advice. I did just that but he won't stop. Should I report to the police? But really, I think he'll stop if I act mean towards him since I act all nice... and I'm tired of that
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Oct 1 2005, 09:07 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Oct 1 2005, 9:03 PM) Alright thanks for the advice. I did just that but he won't stop. Should I report to the police? But really, I think he'll stop if I act mean towards him since I act all nice... and I'm tired of that ...find someone really smart who can write a virus and mass spam email it to him... Okay, that'd be just mean. But..get your friends to mass-im him saying to stop being a perv..creep..etc etc etc |
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Oct 1 2005, 09:07 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(Kristinaa @ Oct 1 2005, 9:07 PM) ...find someone really smart who can write a virus and mass spam email it to him... Okay, that'd be just mean. But..get your friends to mass-im him saying to stop being a perv..creep..etc etc etc Yeah that sounds perfect. Thanks |
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Oct 1 2005, 09:09 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Oct 1 2005, 9:07 PM) Yeah that sounds perfect. Thanks lol np..it's worked for me...a couple of times... |
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Oct 1 2005, 09:16 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(Kristinaa @ Oct 1 2005, 9:09 PM) lol np..it's worked for me...a couple of times... Wow you probably had it bad. But experience can be useful. Thanks again MODs, you can close this topic now |
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Oct 1 2005, 09:19 PM
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You do realize he could be lying about his age...He could be a 45 year old man...
Block him from everything and don't talk to him. These things are scary... |
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Oct 1 2005, 09:42 PM
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>< omg.. that has happened to me before..
i ended up telling the guy off... saying that i had a bf... later, he just kept IM-ing me.. but now, he's all like "i like someone else now." i'd just totally ignore him.. and plus.. don't allow him to make you go on a guilt trip.. |
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Oct 1 2005, 09:46 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
You could privacy block him (Meaning, only people from your buddy list can see if you're online).
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Oct 1 2005, 09:48 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(silver rain @ Oct 1 2005, 9:46 PM) You could privacy block him (Meaning, only people from your buddy list can see if you're online). Yeah I tried that, but like I said, he keeps getting new sn's |
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Oct 1 2005, 09:50 PM
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hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Oct 1 2005, 10:48 PM) Yeah I tried that, but like I said, he keeps getting new sn's But that wouldn't matter... if he's not on your buddy list, then he doesn't know that you're online. |
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Oct 1 2005, 09:51 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(silver rain @ Oct 1 2005, 9:50 PM) But that wouldn't matter... if he's not on your buddy list, then he doesn't know that you're online. that's true, but you know how people can type ur sn in the IMing windows and type something to see if thier online? well it always works for him |
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Oct 1 2005, 10:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,450 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,407 |
tell him to stop, and say you'll call the police if he doesn't. that might work.
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Oct 1 2005, 11:01 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
maybe you could block his ip
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Oct 1 2005, 11:26 PM
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just wondering.. does he have any clue how you look like? && do you guys live in the same... area? if not, then dont worry about it, i'd say. block him.
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Oct 1 2005, 11:33 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
^ Agree.
Also, if he does happend to track you down (which he can't if you guys don't live near each other, nor does he not know what you look like), he's two years younger than you. Which is probably young, right? There's no way he could possibly do anything to you.. |
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Oct 2 2005, 05:14 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Tell him that you don't like him and you wish that you dont want to have anything between you guys.
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