boyfriend that can be a best friend aswell? |
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 Sep 15 2005, 01:09 AM
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i like for my guy to be my bestfriend as well as a bf cuz that way u can be on ANY level with him and not be scared to act a damn fool and what not..
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Sep 15 2005, 02:41 PM
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I like to be able to tell my boyfriend almost anything. Therefore, I'd like him to be like a best friend to me. After all, I wouldn't wanna spend a lot of time with someone who I couldn't really talk to.
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Sep 15 2005, 07:05 PM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
yes, you will feel more comfy too
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Sep 15 2005, 07:57 PM
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i don't want another bff i just want a boyfriend
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Sep 15 2005, 07:58 PM
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Thats how it should be.
Well, thats how it works for me. I look for a friend first, and then a girlfriend. Your relationship is doomed if your significant other is only significant as a boyfriend. |
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Sep 15 2005, 07:59 PM
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my boyfriend is my best friend. He was before we got togehter. It was nice because we already knew eachothers secrets, we already had trust built up, and we already were comfortable with eachother. those are things that are important. So yeah, I think your man should be your best friend. It makes it so much easier!! Just hopefully you are mature enough that if you break up, you stay friends. Me and my boyfriend have broken up twice and we stayed friends through it all. I suppose thats why we're still together now.
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Sep 15 2005, 08:05 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
then when you loose him you lose a best friend and a boyfriend.
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Sep 15 2005, 08:40 PM
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yeah. but i'd have another best friend behind me so i don't fall flat on my face if he goes.
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Sep 16 2005, 12:47 AM
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yup yup. why not? =)
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Sep 16 2005, 07:15 AM
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 What you're waiting, if you wanna Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 230,978 |
yes. yes.
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Sep 16 2005, 04:46 PM
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My boyfriend of 3 years is my absolute BEST friend! but we were only 13 when we started "dating" so we like literally barely knew each other...so we got to become best friends and fall in love at the same time so there is nothing weird about it! b/c we weren't friends before we dated. But now he is the only person besides my mom or dad that i can trust with ANY secret! he knows EVERYTHING about me!
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Sep 16 2005, 05:15 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
The boyfriend I had was really great to be around, because not only was he a great boyfriend, but he was a great guy friend too.
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Sep 16 2005, 05:23 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Hmm, well yeah I would rather prefer that my boyfriend was my best friend too. And yeah, my boyfriend is my best friend, I feel like I can tell him anything, and vice versa.
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Sep 16 2005, 10:20 PM
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 yeah, whatever.... Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 126,628 |
If I ever get a boyfriend, I'd want him to be my friend.
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Sep 16 2005, 10:24 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
youre really lucky i f i had a boyfriend id want him to be like a best friend.
but then again if ur having problems with him its good to have someone to go to |
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Sep 17 2005, 01:04 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
if he's your boyfriend you should be at least close friends...after all you're trusting him with your heart.
i started out as best friends with my boyfriend 
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Sep 17 2005, 01:06 AM
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 Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
boiifriend=best friend
lol well mostly i fall for the guys that i have that special bond with. Where i can be with them forever.. and it usually ends up being my best friend who is my boii friend.. (wel i can't really say that b/c i've only had oen bf..lol) |
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Sep 30 2005, 08:07 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
yes so we can actually be ourselves with each other like we dont mind burping, farting, nose pickin and stuff infront of each other. If you can do tht, you KNOW the relationship will last long
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Sep 30 2005, 08:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 479 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,199 |
Of course! What's a boyfriend if he can't be your best friend? My boyfriend is my best friend...
I tell him everything! Absolutly Everything! And Visa Versa. He's everything to me, and I can't picture it being any different. In a relationship you have to be a team 
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Sep 30 2005, 09:10 PM
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 I love you more than sex appeal. Group: Member Posts: 3,045 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,932 |
Well, I'm not really sure. Having a best guy friend can be pretty cool and fun without getting heart-broken and on the other hand about having a bf can be so sweet. Someone that would love and care for me
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Sep 30 2005, 11:44 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Yes, definetly. I had that sort of relationship before, its great. I think the best relationships are when you are best friends first, and stay that way throughout. :)
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Sep 30 2005, 11:59 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
I think they CAN be but it's not a must.
As a boyfriend, he should have a strong emotional connection with me, but I don't really feel the need to be friends first. I used to say that, but then it just got to complicated. I started to value the friendship more than the romantic side of it all. I was afraid that if we took our relationship to a different level and broke up, there would be no chance of having that friendship ever again. |
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Oct 1 2005, 07:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
I would hope that my boyfriend's my best friend. If not, I would hope that he will BECOME my best friend.
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Oct 1 2005, 11:27 PM
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of course its possible, and it doesn't matter to me but they usually end up being my best friend. my boyfriend now was my best friend beforehand too so yeh.
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Oct 2 2005, 10:39 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 200,365 |
My boyfriend is my bestfriend.
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