well, there's this guy in my class. i just started actually talking to him a few days ago... i never really had the courage to go up to him and talk, because i'm really shy and end up saying things i don't really mean. by that i mean, i totally freeze and become mean. whenever i like a guy, i ignore him, i can't help it.

anyway, i started talking to him, and i can't help but notice that he's so sweet and funny. and well, just charming. we met eyes during class today, and i couldn't help but feel those butterflies. i don't know him so much, but i want to. if i do get to know him, i'll see if this is just a crush or maybe something else.

the thing is, he's confusing in. he seems to be eyeing this other girl, and well, they seem to have a connection. or maybe i'm just imagining.

i know, i sound like a ditzy freshmen with another meaningless crush. but i have to admit, i'm not sure what this is... do i like him... or maybe it is just a crush.

anyway, the question is, how can i get his attention? i want to be myself, but i want him to see me.

m...if you are really crushing on him...you won't have ne doubts ---

Well, isn't "liking" someone and "having a crush" on someone pretty much the same thing?

^ Yea, it is.

And i'd say you have a crush on him.

I'd say you're crushing on this guy, almost no doubt, and because of that, it seems like he's eyeing everyone else.

Have you ever seen a whole bunch of something when you didn't need it, and then the next day, you need whatever it was you were looking for, and can't find it anywhere?

It's definitely that kind of thing.



That isn't exactly true, because sometimes you don't know. Though, the way you describe him definitely shows that you have a crush on him, whether big or small.

The talking problem, though, is a little harder to address, in that, that isn't something some stranger online can help you with. I can tell you though, that all you need to do is talk to him. Don't really show that you like him, just be his friend, as if it were any other of your guy friends. If you do this, it will be much easier to know if you like him or not, and then you can go from there.

-Nixin

go for it...you always have that what if question if you don't lol...

if the wind blows that way, the grass will bend that way....

give it a try.

it sounds like you like him, you're doing that helga thing like on "hey arnold!"

i used to be like that too but i've grown out of it.

if you keep talking to him, he'll eventually initiate the conversation sooner or later...just keep talking. after you get through the get to know you stuff, talk about past relationships to hint your interest.

want him to really notice you?
Then next time you see him in class, be sure to drop a waterballoon on his head. hey, no harm to him!

haa..yea, but if you seriously want him to notice notice you, then go up and make conversation, like asking for homework. If you are lucky, maybe the teacher would pair you and him together for some sort of projects.

ask him for homework, always works =P and then try to turn that into a conversation about school or anything else

hm, i put 'liking someone' and 'crushing' in different categories. like, i think liking someone is having actual feelings, and crushing is just thinking the girl or guy is good looking..

just me.

I'd say you just have a crush on him. Liking him is definately the same thing.

If you think it's something else, I'm sorry, but you're wrong. There is only lust at first sight, not love. Love only comes after you get to know someone. When you get to know this guy and possibly go out with him, your feelings should deepen, but they may not be love.

When you're in love, you'll know it. It's like you've been underwater your whole life and you finally take your first breath. You'll know when it's love; love knows no doubts. Puppy love does.

Okay, sorry about the love lesson... But, yeah, you definatly have a crush!

Rin-chan

exactly. only i don't call him football-head, haha.



i know i'm not in love, i don't even know him that well yet. i just like him, you know. i hope it is something more than just a crush though... no worries about the love lesson, haha, it is true anyway.

thanks for all the advice guys.

OMG IM THE EXACT SAME WAY/IN THE SAME SITUATION!

It's this kid in my biology class.


But you definately have a crush. I do too.


This is my silly advice,

Stand in front of a mirror, and imagine that instead of looking at yourself in the mirror, you're looking at him...and say what you want to say.

Inhale. Exhale. Inhale. Exhale.

Just be casual, as casual as you can. It's hard, i know, but just try.

First off;
Be yourself
Don't change for a damn boy
And i can't exactly tell you if you like a boy or not
Eeerm
Your heart will tell you
Give it time
Get to know him
Try to talk to him little at a time first
So you don't get all
RRAR and stuff

you like him and you know it
you first have to find out how he feels about you