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 Sep 3 2005, 01:31 AM
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QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Sep 2 2005, 10:23 PM) Reading that makes me angry. I mean, he's sitting there writing and complaining about how he's soooooo nice. If he likes the girl, then why not ask her out. Not ALL girls like guys who are jerks. I personally do not. Or maybe it's because the guys that girls run to aren't really NICE at all, but they're being a jerk for being jealous of the jerk-y guy because he actually dated her. The jerks are getting the girls because he's actually doing something about it and not writing and complaining about how he never gets the girl. I mean, if he's so nice then why doesn't he have a girl yet? Because I don't think that girls would really date jerks. I don't even think that made sense.  It definitely made sense and it's definitely absolutely correct! |
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Sep 3 2005, 04:40 AM
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sorry about my this expression, but for sure,if you dont have the "balls" to ask,just spit-out the words,and you wait for the girl to make the 1st step,you will die alone for sure :-)
btw:gurls sometimes,likes this kind of guy,kinda crazy,doing crazy things :P if you dont have something to show,nothing to make her interested,hellyeah she will go with that "jerks" and not with the "nice guys",cuz if she will be with the "jerks" she will have lots of fun,but with you ? Mr "Silence is the most wonderfull....oh yeah,lets do something, LIKE ? "lets be nice" :P doh! and that "relationship" wont last too much,cuz one of you will get bored very soon :/ PS:Make her feel like she's your "Woman" the one and only,every second of your Relationship and she will not have any reason to be Jelous,because like we all might know,that's the 1st Obsession of all Woman's. //edit QUOTE(jennypie @ Sep 3 2005, 11:44 AM) I am currently interested in one of these "nice guys"... so I'm sorry but the theory has been proved wrong. Nope, nor even 1 person is the same,everyone has his own preferences. ex. someone like's the Hands someone like's the Eyes someone like's the Lips someone like's the Boobies etc. And there is no Theory, Its just the way you live your life. IMO |
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Sep 3 2005, 04:44 AM
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I am currently interested in one of these "nice guys"... so I'm sorry but the theory has been proven wrong.
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Sep 3 2005, 02:55 PM
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Actually this is true. All of it, but the problem remains that it doesn't say WHY this situation happens.
I've had personal experiance. I must have read like 20 of these things trying to figure out why it was so wrong to put a girl up on a pedestal. The real reason? Well besides the fact that most of these guys will not have "the balls to ask her out", they send of every signal that dooms them. 1. Sure they help out with thier problems, but they do it way to freakin much. 2. Sure they'll always be there, which is why they aren't a challenge, it makes them boring and the point is to make the women feel good. Boring...no. 3. You can love her as much as you want, but all it will get you is affection MAYBE and maybe 1.0x10^-1094895716146087% of the time, attraction. I'd go into details, but blah. |
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Sep 3 2005, 06:42 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
yeah that's true ^. But seriously (to the complaining nice guys), stop complaining about not getting the girl. Don't stereo type girls like that. If you really like that girl then it's best that you stop thinking of being selfish and care for the other's feelings no matter how stupid they are. the more you complain about not getting any love back the more they'll distance from you. A girl wants to be free. I want to be free. I don't want to be caught up in some guy's hands just because he goes one-sided over his feelings for me.
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Sep 3 2005, 07:25 PM
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wow. that really was a good read. i find it horrible how there are so many nice guys that turn out like that. i must look out more for these nice guys, or at least just realize those that are there.
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Sep 3 2005, 08:49 PM
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Some nice guys get girlfriends and stuff... I'm going out with one of those nice guys.
but it's true, girls do like the jerks sometimes. Girls like the nice guys, but they also like the guys that'll get them in trouble, the ones that will hurt them, the ones that will break their heart, the dangerous ones... |
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Sep 3 2005, 10:27 PM
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most nice guys don't want to ruin thier friendship with the girl, so they don't ask her out because they believe they don't have a snowball's chance in hell.
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Sep 4 2005, 01:55 PM
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QUOTE(takingbacksandy @ Sep 2 2005, 12:27 PM) i can't help but think some nice guys have motives too. they're not as innocent as they seem. and some nice guys are just annoying. the ones you could never see yourself dating because they lack something "assholes" lack.. as said earlier, confidence. these type tend to whine a lot, whine more than a girl. they seek attention by using tactics that don't exactly win girl's hearts.. like trying to make girls pity them. nice guys are predictable, assholes aren't. but props to the nice guys, the good friend that can take girls bitching. always there no matter what. I agree w/ u!! But some gurls do like nice guys, but the guys r to scared of rejection so they won't ask the gurl our. even though the girl will most likely say yes! |
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Sep 4 2005, 05:04 PM
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so are you saying jerks and assholes are the guys who asks girls out?
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Sep 4 2005, 08:58 PM
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QUOTE(Kameko @ Sep 4 2005, 6:04 PM) so are you saying jerks and assholes are the guys who asks girls out? Not exactly. Guys with confidence ask girls out; however, there's a very fine line between confidence and arrogance. |
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Sep 4 2005, 10:18 PM
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Jesus he's bitter. Not that he doesn't have reason to be, in that situation. But still, not all guys that girls go out with are bad. For example:
QUOTE You know that guy you call at any hour at night to talk about your relationship triumphs/problems? The one who always compliments you, makes you feel better about yourself? Is always willing to drop whatever he's doing to satisfy your needs? *points to the quote* that perfectly describes my boyfriend. He's the sweetest, most caring guy I've ever met, and he'd do anything for me. So there, you can't generalize completely, can you?  And also I think eventually everyone has to go through a bad relationship. We're young right? It happens. It's life experience. That doesn't mean you can brand girls for life with the label of bad taste in guys. |
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