My Girlfriend and I had only been going out for three weeks. That's not much people, but I felt pretty content and happy with her. Not to mention that, although she seemed afraid of commitment, she started sitting with me at lunch and spending time with me everywhere! Of course I thought that meant we were getting stronger and was excited to see what would happen in the next few days, especially December the 1st - My birthday. Well, my birthday came and I wondered if she got me something. She gave me something all right - the cold shoulder. I tried to talk to her, but all day long she just ignored me completely. Then Economics came, and before class started, she walked right up to me and snapped, "Happy birthday, I'm dumping you!" at me before walking away. I was so shocked and devastated that I couldn't speak.



edit: all i did was love her like a man should do...thats all...take her places and make her fell like a queen... ..thats...thats all..and i got a good rep. my parents worked for the school and i was Mr. Popular..so i wasnt known to get around

..what did you do to her?

I edit it for you and well i didnt do anything

go kill yourself

Steven (11:17:41 PM): steven agrees 100 percent with kelly.

:x

Wow. Screw her, man. That's all I can say.

^ yeah i did



why do you want me to kill my self?...thats kinda mean

Steven (11:21:02 PM): steven says that if your life was a light switch, he'd turn it off.

::Looks Both Ways Clueless:: Whoes Steven??

Sorry, that was our imaginary friend.

*cough*

Sorry that's our imaginary friend.

uuugghh ...you got my thinking its someone...well no more imaginary friends....this isnt..a funny topic..lol..ok a little bit but no "go kill yourself because steven said so replies"...lol ok?

stab the bitch.














But in all seriousness, it sounds like she was immature and not ready for a guy to take care of her. Lots of girls arent. They just want d**k. So I'd say its nothing you did. A girl who does that to a guy on his birthday is heartless. One of her friends probably said something abou tyou that made her embarrassed to be around you, or maybe she was with another dude and the time she spents with you made her feel guilty. Who knows. Like I said...stab her. In the eyeball. The left one. no. Right. yeah.

.....what ?! .... i thought it was the other way around .

she lefted me...read what i wrote

Speaking of taking care of people... How exactly do you mean "take care of her?"
What are the rules or the minimum requirements in terms of taking care of a girl? Just curious... or rather your definition of "taking care of her" is what I want to clarify.

Nehoo.. bout the biotch...
You're a guy, you're cute. I'd say retaliation would be truly sweet in this situation. Either that or just simply return the cold shoulder, hang with a bunch of chicks and that'll get her flying off the wall and being as green with envy as the snot hanging from her nose. Girls like her most likely love the chase... sucks to her because she lost out on a luvly guy. She'll be begging for your undivided attention in no time. But of course, you know better by this time and she's not worth your luv and time. =D

Take care of her...I mean like not treat her like dirt. Some girls just can't handlte an actual genuwine good guy. They always think hes up to somthing, and they tend to sabatoge things because they are convinced at any moment his true jerk will come thru. thats how I used to be. Any guy who did nice things for me, spent time with me, cared about me, I figured he was hiding something and I would start getting all paranoid and wind up breaking up with them. that was back in jr hi, but still, I did it. And some girls dont grow out of it that fast. Its hard to deal with a nice guy when u are used to jerks...because jerks a lot of times come off as nice guys to start. So yeah. Its just a defense mechanism, because most girls don't want their hearts pounded on over and over again. Yep. thats abouts what I meant..I think

well shes the new girl and well she did notice the big mistake..because all her friends were like "are you retarded thats max" and well long story short...is what i meant bout taking care of her is...i went to her house on our first date and bought a tux for the occassian..and rented a convertible bmw...well i took her to a restaurant in newyork called 21 and well it was really nice and i dont know..what happened...but all i did was get real mad the whole day and didnt speak that much..didnt eat lunch..probably the best thing that happened that day was last class i had gym and we played dodgeball and well there was this nerd..who was being a pain in the a** so...all that anger came together and he didnt feel the same after that....i knocked the crap out of him...


Thanks

she used you. stab her. forget in the eyes. Stab her in the stomach. Is she pretty? Cut her face. Like in Kill bill Vol 2.

But honestly, there's nothing you can do about it. Life goes on.

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=100384
Read that, it's pretty nice. Maybe it'll make you feel better.
Don't read the last 2 paragraphs. They're irrelevant too your situation. mkay

Doh,dewd move on, that's the such called "B i t c h e s",that's what they do,they hangout with you when they are bored,or when they're BF's are gone,and they dont have anyone else (to have fun with),and when she gets bored,she just SPIT-IT-OUT and then she leaves.

move on.
im sure there are #329492349 gurls there,from where to choose,no need to stop and react like this,you're DA MAN,BUT DONT FORGET, 1 TIME IS TO SEE HOW IT IS, DONT GET FOOLED MORE THEN 1 TIME,cuz it will happen over and over again.

"Forget The Paste And Live The Future"

it's her lost. you should just forget about her, girls like that aren't worth anybody's time.

that's a bit much for a first date...

you probably just scared her. you're parents work for the school, you're ..."mr popular," her friends didn't seem to care too much for you, and you spent all that money on her.

but anyway, who cares about her anymore, she's over and done with. in the future, just take things slow. it's fine if you put all of your heart into a relationship because you're showing your true feelings. you shouldn't just pretend you don't feel what you really feel...and if the other person just takes advantage of it, whatever they just missed out.

don't dwell on stuff like this.

Hm. I agree with Karamelle. She seems heartless to do that to you on your birthday. I don't think she was ready for the commitment. I don't think it was anything you did. She probably felt like she needed a boyfriend to fit in or something. She seems like a crappy person. As hard as it might be, you gotta try to get over her. 'Cause from what you said all you did for her, you seem like a really nice person, and you deserve much better than that, hun Good Luck with any future girls

thats so mean =( i mean on your birthday? i hope you feel better...