Do Your Parents Know?, Do they know and/or care that you have a boyfriend? |
 Jun 9 2004, 08:01 AM
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Do you guys ever tell your parents about your BFs?
Well my dad doesn't care about these stuff so he's cool. But my mom's a little nosy... She knows everything that happens in my school...  That means she hears every lil rumour about me and some other guy... Well I never tell my mom that I have a BF but she'll figure it out. Like I start talking about some guy 24/7. I don't like her knowing coz she has high standards for my BFs. Once she suspects that I'm with a guy, she asks like a gazillion questions about that guy... But so far all my BFs has passed the test lol. My mom loved my very first BF coz he's come and fetch me whenever we go out to parties. Plus he was smart. He and I were always fighting to get to the top of the class. If I wasn't no.1, then he was and if he wasn't, I was. My mom adored my last BF. She still does. She thought he had a really great smile. And since he was in the honours class, she liked him even more. My mom and I would talk about him for ages. From his smile right up to how his biological mom abandoned him. Anyway, so no, I don't tell my parents. But they have ways to find out lol... |
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Apr 25 2005, 08:42 PM
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 *aSh* =] Group: Member Posts: 2,075 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,101 |
yeah they know and they dont care. they really like him =]
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Apr 27 2005, 05:41 AM
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 E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 |
They know I have a boyfriend, but they did keep me from getting one until I was 16. I think they like him, and they know him pretty well (we were friends for two years before going out, so they already knew them). My boyfriend was actually not supposed to date until he was 16 either, but his parents made an exception for me. Apparently a close friend from midde school's mother is friends with his mother and she put in a good word for me. Cool.
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Apr 27 2005, 05:45 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
my cousin (legal guardian *sigh*) never really cared, but she was psycho so I never really told her anyway. Not til I got to high school and started spending a lot of time with the guys. And they usually came over here so yeah. I never kissed them or acted like we were dating at all when they were around tho. I didnt want her to get all hyper-Christian on me and start accusing me of sleeping with them, which at first I hadnt. SO yeah. But the guy I'm with now, I've been with since high school, and that was three years ago, so she knows. I mean, he cmae with us on our family camping trip. All family, and my boyfriend. haha. everyone likes him better than me. He comes to the christmas parties we have...hell he does everything with my family, cuz if I have to go, I drag him along with me to keep me company so I'm not so miserable. And now they usually invite him anyway haha. SO yeah. but since I'm 19, and have been open about my bfs since I was about 17, you kinda grow into that trust. I know a lot of yall are young, and you are also not dating seriously yet, so its a big difference.
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Apr 27 2005, 06:25 AM
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 .bubblicious inspirations. @ www.bubbliciousoul.com Group: Member Posts: 466 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,228 |
yeh my parents know.. i'm very open to them esp my mum.. we talk about almost everything.. plus i've starting dating when i was like what?? 12.. so yeh.. sometimes she even gives me really good advice..
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Apr 27 2005, 10:59 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,084 |
gosh mai friends r so strict about boys! they always get so suspicious when i hang out with mai guy friends. it's so annoying. i have a bf rite now and they have no clue cus if they ever found out, they're gonna flip!! they don't even want me to date in high school. only after i go to three years of college. too bad i m dating rite now.
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Apr 27 2005, 11:12 PM
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 Too slow. Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
If I was going out with someone I would go behind their backs. But if it Is like a past BF they would be like "Oh watever" but if I tell them and im still going out with the person they would care.
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Apr 30 2005, 10:36 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
I dont tell my parents.. I never have either. I guess they'd be nosy, but plus I'm not really allowed to datee. my parents are pretty strict about it, so i really hide everything. yes im a naughhhtyy girl
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Apr 30 2005, 10:40 PM
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i told them i had a bf they didn`t care i don`t think they believed me.
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Apr 30 2005, 10:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i don't have a bf but if i did i wouldn't tell them...i dunno how they would react though
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May 3 2005, 12:02 AM
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my parents love my bf.........just cuz he's so loveable!
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May 3 2005, 12:05 AM
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I had 2 bf's in high school that I never told my parents about.
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May 3 2005, 12:48 AM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
Ashely, you have a very good connection with your mom, i bet many of us girls would love that w/ our moms..At least i would..
i don't know.. i never told my parents..;x |
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May 7 2005, 09:08 AM
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 Buggz Group: Member Posts: 26 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,280 |
They don't mind if i have a boyfriend.
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May 7 2005, 11:34 AM
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 Be mine ~* Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,169 |
They will certainly kill me if they know I have a bf ~
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May 7 2005, 12:18 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
my mom knows, and it's not a big deal.
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May 7 2005, 02:51 PM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
When i have a bf im not telling my parents o.O But she does asks if i have a "crush" on someone xS
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May 7 2005, 08:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 134,476 |
i wish they wouldnt care but they do. asses. haha
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May 18 2005, 09:24 PM
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my parents know but when my mom talk bout him she just says hes my very good friend...
very good friends dont go out till 2 in the morning T.T lol |
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May 18 2005, 09:25 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
my dad does because he hasnt met him yet, mom doesnt
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Aug 15 2005, 01:37 AM
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i had 2 but behind my parents back, i`ve always been too afraid to tell them. the only way i would tell my parents is if i know they would approve. my mom doesnt want me to have a boyfriend or a husband period,my dad is more laid back but still very protective & doesnt want me to have one anytime soon.
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| *salcha* |
Aug 15 2005, 01:58 AM
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I don't have one.
THIS TOPIC BELONGS TO THE GREEN TEAM. GO GREEEN. |
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Aug 15 2005, 02:29 PM
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 Pretty Rad Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 202,955 |
-> i go behind their backs
well i was asked out once last year.. but i said no. i think it was the biggest regret of my life. i said no even though i wanted to cause i was afraid what my parents would say about me having a bf.. and i new that my dad would say that i'm too young. i really wish he would ask me out now.. cause my life is so different.. i can just meet him somewhere and tell me parents that i'm meeting a different friend.. lie =/ |
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Aug 15 2005, 02:38 PM
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Pretty Rad Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 202,955 |
QUOTE(2L0VERLY @ Aug 15 2005, 1:37 AM) i had 2 but behind my parents back, i`ve always been too afraid to tell them. the only way i would tell my parents is if i know they would approve. my mom doesnt want me to have a boyfriend or a husband period,my dad is more laid back but still very protective & doesnt want me to have one anytime soon.  Ditto for me 
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| *tweeak* |
Aug 15 2005, 03:10 PM
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haven't had one, but i don't think they would mind. my stepmom keeps asking me if i like anyone as it is. i name a guy and she asks if we're only friends. good grief, yes! i'm sorry i'm lame (jimmy, you are a constant disappointment to me). my mom said i'd have to wait until i was 16 to date, but as it happens it didn't matter anyway since i'm now 16 and the issue still hasn't come up. bah. humbug. also, i don't think i''d be able to hide it, because my mom knows just about everyone i know and their parents...
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| *danielle_x3* |
Aug 15 2005, 03:11 PM
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not at first, but my brother would tell them :|
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