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post Jul 30 2005, 03:55 PM
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i am just so confused right now! ive ahd bf's in the past and i am attracted to them, but when me and my friends have sleepovers and stuff we always mess around u know just for fun, but i really enjoy it. is this normal?? we usually just make out and cuddle u know just cause were being crazy but one of my friends i just am so attracted to her and we finger each other and like to get naked and rub up on each other. IS THIS NORMAL? or am i a LESBIAN?!?! i need help... cry.gif
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 03:58 PM
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...ummm, you're bi then?
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 04:01 PM
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erm, i don't think it's normal unless you're bi or something o_o or maybe because you have urges because there's no guys around?
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 04:18 PM
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maybe you're "experimenting".
i dunno wth i just said but yeah.
i dont think of it as like.. "normal" but maybe it's just a phase? i didnt
you're probably bi. nothing bad about that :]
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 05:13 PM
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you're probably a bi. or messing around and treated her like your bbf.

dont be ashamed but your parent might .. " !@#$%^@#$% "
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 05:43 PM
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its been proven that teenagers, wether straight, gay or bi, like to experiment.

but maybe youre past that and youre bi.
dunno.

i used to kinda be in your position. butttt.
yeah.
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 06:03 PM
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you're either bi or bi-curious.
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 08:18 PM
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I'm just gonna say that maybe you're bi. Or maybe it is just a phase. Only time will tell.
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 08:32 PM
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QUOTE(danielle_x3 @ Jul 30 2005, 3:03 PM)
you're either bi or bi-curious.
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I agree with her.
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 08:34 PM
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your most definitely bi or curious and shit. but reading what you just said, was haawwwt. hahahaha =P
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 10:44 PM
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I don't think you are bi-curious, people who are bi-curious don't go that far.
You are most definately BI or Lesbian.
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 11:03 PM
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wow, you're getting a little friendly with your friends there... wink.gif

You coulld be bi, or you couldn't. Do YOU tihnk you're bi? It's all about you. If you don't want to be bi you don't have to, the choice is completely yours. If you want to be bi, go ahead, fool aroudn with some women (although it already sounds like you're bassically doing that already) if you don't want to be bi, don't. Go out with guys and forget about girls.

Once again, it's your choice, and your choice only, don't let anyone influence you one way or another. happy.gif
 
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post Jul 30 2005, 11:12 PM
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ur either bi or young and still experienceing new things!
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 12:16 AM
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You might also be in a phase....other than that, just read what everyone else wrote.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 12:18 AM
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QUOTE(pyrochick19770 @ Jul 30 2005, 12:58 PM)
...ummm, you're bi then?
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yeah i agree.. and lyk some other said.. maybe you're just "expirmenting" cuz maybe your not sure.. and maybe your still trying to find what you really are
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 12:28 AM
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You're going through a phase. Being a lesbian isn't all about sex, contrary to popular belief.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 12:31 AM
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It is kind of too early to say.
Basically every teenager goes through a curiosity stage... even with their own sex, so it's basically pretty normal. It's too early to say...
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 11:37 AM
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it can be bi or you are just having innocent fun. Just for your own pleasure....but can you imagine yourself dating her?
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 12:55 PM
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so you and your girlfriends make out, cuddle & finger eachother ? ..

like danielle_x3 said. your either bi or bi curious.
or expiramenting [sp?]
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 01:47 PM
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QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ Jul 30 2005, 11:03 PM)
wow, you're getting a little friendly with your friends there... wink.gif

You coulld be bi, or you couldn't. Do YOU tihnk you're bi? It's all about you. If you don't want to be bi you don't have to, the choice is completely yours. If you want to be bi, go ahead, fool aroudn with some women (although it already sounds like you're bassically doing that already) if you don't want to be bi, don't. Go out with guys and forget about girls.

Once again, it's your choice, and your choice only, don't let anyone influence you one way or another.  happy.gif
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You cant just -stop being bi-
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 02:03 PM
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Like what everyone else said, you're either Bi or just experimenting.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 05:02 PM
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You were straight till I read the fingering part...so most likely bi
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 05:04 PM
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I think ur bi...=]
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 05:12 PM
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I agree with Felicia. Alot females confuse being physically and sexually attracted to another female with them being lesbian. But it goes beyond that. You have to have actually feelings for this person. If they are feelings of being in love then you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. I dont know if your going through a phase or not but follow what in your heart and not your hormones.
 
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post Jul 31 2005, 07:56 PM
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woah.... im guessing your bi then
 

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