am i lesbian?, ... |
am i lesbian?, ... |
Jul 30 2005, 03:55 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 184,347 |
i am just so confused right now! ive ahd bf's in the past and i am attracted to them, but when me and my friends have sleepovers and stuff we always mess around u know just for fun, but i really enjoy it. is this normal?? we usually just make out and cuddle u know just cause were being crazy but one of my friends i just am so attracted to her and we finger each other and like to get naked and rub up on each other. IS THIS NORMAL? or am i a LESBIAN?!?! i need help...
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Jul 30 2005, 03:58 PM
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All I want for Christmas is an Underground Band. Group: Member Posts: 1,046 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,797 |
...ummm, you're bi then?
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*iNyCxShoRT* |
Jul 30 2005, 04:01 PM
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erm, i don't think it's normal unless you're bi or something o_o or maybe because you have urges because there's no guys around?
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Jul 30 2005, 04:18 PM
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ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
maybe you're "experimenting".
i dunno wth i just said but yeah. i dont think of it as like.. "normal" but maybe it's just a phase? i didnt you're probably bi. nothing bad about that :] |
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Jul 30 2005, 05:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
you're probably a bi. or messing around and treated her like your bbf.
dont be ashamed but your parent might .. " !@#$%^@#$% " |
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Jul 30 2005, 05:43 PM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
its been proven that teenagers, wether straight, gay or bi, like to experiment.
but maybe youre past that and youre bi. dunno. i used to kinda be in your position. butttt. yeah. |
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*danielle_x3* |
Jul 30 2005, 06:03 PM
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you're either bi or bi-curious.
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Jul 30 2005, 08:18 PM
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Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
I'm just gonna say that maybe you're bi. Or maybe it is just a phase. Only time will tell.
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Jul 30 2005, 08:32 PM
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speechless Group: Member Posts: 869 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,564 |
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Jul 30 2005, 08:34 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
your most definitely bi or curious and shit. but reading what you just said, was haawwwt. hahahaha =P
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Jul 30 2005, 10:44 PM
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none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
I don't think you are bi-curious, people who are bi-curious don't go that far.
You are most definately BI or Lesbian. |
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Jul 30 2005, 11:03 PM
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^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
wow, you're getting a little friendly with your friends there...
You coulld be bi, or you couldn't. Do YOU tihnk you're bi? It's all about you. If you don't want to be bi you don't have to, the choice is completely yours. If you want to be bi, go ahead, fool aroudn with some women (although it already sounds like you're bassically doing that already) if you don't want to be bi, don't. Go out with guys and forget about girls. Once again, it's your choice, and your choice only, don't let anyone influence you one way or another. |
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Jul 30 2005, 11:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,641 |
ur either bi or young and still experienceing new things!
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*RiC3xBoy* |
Jul 31 2005, 12:16 AM
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You might also be in a phase....other than that, just read what everyone else wrote.
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Jul 31 2005, 12:18 AM
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The lost and trying to be found.. Group: Member Posts: 444 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,073 |
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Jul 31 2005, 12:28 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
You're going through a phase. Being a lesbian isn't all about sex, contrary to popular belief.
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Jul 31 2005, 12:31 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
It is kind of too early to say.
Basically every teenager goes through a curiosity stage... even with their own sex, so it's basically pretty normal. It's too early to say... |
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Jul 31 2005, 11:37 AM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
it can be bi or you are just having innocent fun. Just for your own pleasure....but can you imagine yourself dating her?
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Jul 31 2005, 12:55 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
so you and your girlfriends make out, cuddle & finger eachother ? ..
like danielle_x3 said. your either bi or bi curious. or expiramenting [sp?] |
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Jul 31 2005, 01:47 PM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
QUOTE(HoodieObsessed @ Jul 30 2005, 11:03 PM) wow, you're getting a little friendly with your friends there... You coulld be bi, or you couldn't. Do YOU tihnk you're bi? It's all about you. If you don't want to be bi you don't have to, the choice is completely yours. If you want to be bi, go ahead, fool aroudn with some women (although it already sounds like you're bassically doing that already) if you don't want to be bi, don't. Go out with guys and forget about girls. Once again, it's your choice, and your choice only, don't let anyone influence you one way or another. You cant just -stop being bi- |
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Jul 31 2005, 02:03 PM
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show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Like what everyone else said, you're either Bi or just experimenting.
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Jul 31 2005, 05:02 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
You were straight till I read the fingering part...so most likely bi
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Jul 31 2005, 05:04 PM
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Beer, helping ugly people have sex since 1862! Group: Member Posts: 429 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,574 |
I think ur bi...=]
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*mzkandi* |
Jul 31 2005, 05:12 PM
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I agree with Felicia. Alot females confuse being physically and sexually attracted to another female with them being lesbian. But it goes beyond that. You have to have actually feelings for this person. If they are feelings of being in love then you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. I dont know if your going through a phase or not but follow what in your heart and not your hormones.
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Jul 31 2005, 07:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
woah.... im guessing your bi then
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