so confused about my ex .., please help |
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 Jul 21 2005, 05:27 PM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486  |
well back in the end of march me n my ex broke up ... we both went with different people .. n we broke up ... we use to like hate each other .. but now we are really close .. i still have all the feelings that i used to for him ...
well today my ex (tyler) came over ... along with my other 3 friends .. ( tierra ben n corey) we were all swimming in the pool ... n when everyone was gettin out .. i went to swim once more n tyler followed me .. we were just sitting in the pool talk ... i was sittin on him .. n we were like a foot away .. just talkin .. than we started kissing ... n my friend started to say aww n stuff like that .. so we stopped cause they had to leave really soon .. then he went to get his clothes .. so i took his hat n ran to my room ... he went to get it .. than kissed me again took his hat and ran .. cuz corey was driving away .. lmao .. earlier today we were talkin before they came over n i had to get sumthing so my friend started to talk to him n she asked him if we would ever go back out n he sed it was a possibility .. but he wasnt sure .... hes not sure cause sum things happened at a party when we were all drunk ... do u think he still liikes me ?? i miss him sooo much .. u have no idea .. do u have any tips of how i could get him to like me again ??? if he doesnt as much |
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Jul 21 2005, 05:42 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
well he kissed you... but maybe he was horny or something hahaha
 well he wasn't drunk at that pool party was he? have you talked with him recently? because sometimes it's easier to tell with verbal signs then physical |
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Jul 21 2005, 05:57 PM
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hes the reason i smile.. <3 Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486 |
thats the thing .. he wasnt at the party .... it was me n sum other guy ... which i regret n he knos that ... n yea we were just swimming today when he kissed me n we were talkin .. but i just cant tell with him .. ya kno ???
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Jul 21 2005, 08:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
[friends with benefits] same thing happened to me... well atleast still get in touch with your ex.. talk to him still and everything, and when the time is right, try to get together again =)
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Jul 22 2005, 08:41 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(crazi_in_love_08 @ Jul 22 2005, 6:27 AM) we were just sitting in the pool talk ... i was sittin on him .. n we were like a foot away .. Um. I couldn't understand that. You were sitting on him, and you were a foot away?? Okay.. ANYway. Here's how i see your situation. You guys got together; you each went with someone else; you broke up. It was over. Now you want him again, so in order for the cycle to restart, you just gotta do whatever you did in the first place when you first wanted him. Does that make sense? OR you can always use the search button for previous topics about how to get a guy's attention.
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Jul 22 2005, 12:39 PM
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so i'm confused.. you kissed him and then at another party you kissed someone else??? am i interpreting that right?
if you want him to really like you, make sure you're not sending mixed signals. and you could always explain what happened... and, apologize? 
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Jul 22 2005, 12:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
I think that if you really want him backk..you have to think about all the things that you guys went through to why you guys couldn't be together...& if you think it was something dumb that you guys are old enough to get over & not hate each other about it anymore go with it...but jusst remember ya'll were drunk & he might have done some stuff that he didn't want to do..but you never kno being drunk brings out the other side of the person that hes scared to show...
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Jul 22 2005, 12:54 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
Oh god honey. I strongly advise that you carefully think about what you are doing. Me and my ex..we broke up a grand total of FOUR times. Over 2 years. Make sure he's really what you want or you will end up very sad, like me.
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Jul 23 2005, 05:43 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
it sounds really sweet. until the drunk part.
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Jul 24 2005, 09:29 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
it may be a possibility, when people are drunk sometimes they act out what they really want but are too scared to when they're sober...
or then again, he/you may be those touchy feely drunks... if you didn't say that you were drunk, then i would've said that nothing will probably happen with you two because if he really wanted to get back with you, he wouldn't have just made out with you without making a committment. plus it was at a party, he could have just done it to look cool or something. |
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Jul 24 2005, 09:31 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
aww...he probably likes you or he's just lonely
but do you like him? |
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Jul 25 2005, 01:52 PM
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hes the reason i smile.. <3 Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486 |
omg i found this out from my friends at the party ... i was trashed n the dude mike .. took advantage of me ... .. n yes i still have all my feelings for him as i use to
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