i hate the music that my gf listens to. but i dont want to tell her and hurt her feelings, i mean all she thinks about is her music... should i tell her, and have her mad, or just live through the misery everyday???

Why don't you say "Hey let's listen to one of my CDs for a change." Or if she keeps listening to music that you don't like, say "I don't really like this singer, can we listen to something else?"

dont do it... cause when i did she started making fun of my music... rap and hip-hop and she got all bitchy

^Well not everyone will get mad, because if someone told they didn't like the music I listened to, I wouldn't get mad I'd just say "Ok, we can listen to something else."

i thought you didn't have a girlfriend.

Tell her before it's too late.

learn to like some? and try listen to other things?

I'd just go along with whatever she wants. It's a small sacrifice.

wtf man.. your such a loser...sheesh why does it matter for what kind a music a girl listen to? what matters is your relationship... its like her asking you to changed the way you act... deal with it..

Um...it's music...
Just tell her and things should be fine. Just don't listen to her music simple as that.

let her listen to some of your music and you never know.. maybe shed like it

just tell her that you don't care for it & ask her if she can put something on that both of y'all like.

damn your really insecure i dont mean to be a bitch but damn do you notice these topics you be startin its pathetic whyd dont you just be straight with her and tell her its not like she'll really care if she acts a bitch for a stupid reason like that you ought to slap her not literally but yeah this is stupid use your best judgement..dang you makin her sound all high maintence ill be damned if you really got a girl

hmm i just read that im sorry maybe i went over board but your topics are really startin to aggrivate me..but you know what i aint mad at you

-christina

hmmm...i dunno. if you cant stand it try telling her she should listen to some of your music, like i'm sure people have said. although if she's moody then i dunno maybe just leave it and wear invisible earplugs

Alright. com·mu·ni·ca·tion is one of the basics of a good relationship. You must talk. 'sides. Do you REALLY wanna keep listening to that music then?

Whatever, just tell her. Be like, "hahaa, yeaaa I'm not really into that type of music, you know?"

Or just SUCK IT UP. It's only music.

well if u dont like her music that shouldnt matter...so what its not like you two are gunna break up cause u twp have different styles. its only music...get over it.

I would tell it too her but not in a harsh way

ya..thats what i too..so do u have a girlfriend or not?

and if u do have a girlfriend, i wouldn't say anything about what kind of music she listens to..Just accept her for the kind of music she listens to..

okay she'll get offended. why dont you go, 'why dont you try to listen to some of my favorite songs?'

music is a big deal to me. and alot of other people.
tell her its really not good. and listen to stuff you both like?

well .. isn't part of a relationship about admiring another's personality ? .. if you dont like tha other person's music, then you don't like their personality .. so it does matter ..


i think you should tell her .. but not that you HATE her music .. just .. offer to listen to something else .

A person's personality is way more than her taste in music.

Suggest that you listen to some of your music as well if you're always listening to her music.
If you don't like her music, then that's okay, but don't try and get her to like your music. It's good to have some differences, you know, even in a boyfriend/girlfriend type of relationship such as yours.

haha this would be a funny reason to break up...

friend: hey why did you guys break up.
you: she got mad cuz i didnt like her music.

im sure if you asked shell change or at least give your music a shot.

(is she into the whole emo, warped tour type of music?)