does sex feel good?, or is it all pain? |
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 Jul 14 2005, 06:45 PM
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 *dazzle  Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071  |
im still a virgin but from what i heard, when you have sex for the first time - it does hurt & your hymen breaks, then you start to bleed. but when you wear a tampon and you put it in wrong your hymen breaks too so when you have sex, it wont hurt. for atheletes its different because they stretch it out so it doesn't hurt for them. and this is why my mum wont let me use tampons. simply because im still a virgin and she doesnt want my hymen to break because then my husband wont think im a virgin. please..
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Jul 16 2005, 06:11 PM
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 I am tako <3. Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,052 |
when i first had sex i didn't bleed but i bled the second time and when i walked
it felt like something was still in there but after like 10 minutes i lost that feeling. and yes sex does feel good to be honest 
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Jul 16 2005, 09:38 PM
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 Ima [proud] brunette! Got a problem w. it? i dont kare! Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 171,502 |
QUOTE(lilphoenix @ Jun 25 2005, 4:49 PM) 'comming' is actually 'coming.' getting into athletics does not prevent pain. [horseback riding is the same] you're simply breaking the hymen w/o intercourse, and you probably won't feel pain since you're actually just stretching it. therefore, there will be no barrier. [you can still feel pain even if your hymen is already broken. it's from the guy's size.]  woah so when i was in Cheerleading i broke my hymen? because i had to like practice my splits a lot and for cheer practice i would have to contantly climb up the prymid and jummp off and land on the Slpits...Its hurt the first couple times but then i didnt mind at all o_o does that mean i broke it?  so scary to know that it might be 
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Jul 17 2005, 04:10 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ you could have possibly. when you stretch alot it can tear or something.
you cant really be sure and i dont think you can check if your hymens still intact. |
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Jul 17 2005, 10:05 PM
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 Flamebow Group: Member Posts: 299 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,444 |
it doesnt hurt if you stay calm, because if you tense up your vaginal walls will clench making penetration more difficult and painful. So, just breathe deeply and enjoy... dont freak or it will hurt.
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Jul 17 2005, 10:16 PM
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I haven't had sex yet, but I think it's gonna feel GREAT!!...(lol)..but then I don't know cause one time I got a tampon up there, but then another time I got it stuck and it hurt like hell coming outt...
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Jul 24 2005, 06:00 AM
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maybe 'cause the guy was so agressive?
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Jul 24 2005, 07:59 AM
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 sweet abandon Group: Member Posts: 194 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,225 |
First FEW times hurt like hell. I didn't bleed but it was still pretty painful. Then it started to feel really good. However, it became too good. I started to want it a lot, and I ended up getting pregnant. lol (not really funny but it's not a big deal for me to laugh about it anymore.)
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Jun 9 2007, 10:47 PM
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ok so wat if tha boy doesnt want 2 stop
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Jun 9 2007, 10:51 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
it`s just different for different girls. i hurt the first couple of times but not to the point where i couldn`t walk. after a few times it stopped hurting and started feeling good.
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Jun 9 2007, 11:30 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(kitcatblac @ Jun 9 2007, 08:47 PM) ok so wat if tha boy doesnt want 2 stop Find a new boy to have sex with then. His ass should feel lucky to be getting some and should stop when you tell him to. If not, that can be considered rape. And again, sex shouldn't hurt. I mean, it may if it's your first time and you haven't been fingered or whatever before, but hopefully if your bumpin n grindin you got warmed up first. |
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Jun 10 2007, 02:08 AM
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sounds scary
i think I'll wait until i'm married |
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Jun 10 2007, 02:53 AM
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My first time didn't hurt - there was a lot of foreplay. The second and third times hurt like a bitch.
Now, it just feels good. Oh, and i didn't bleed my first time. |
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Jun 10 2007, 01:59 PM
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ok so how long is tha bleedin suppose 2 last?
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Jun 10 2007, 02:05 PM
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Why.. wouldn't sex feel good?
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Jun 10 2007, 02:10 PM
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QUOTE(xXMomoBubbleTeaXx @ Jul 17 2005, 10:16 PM) I haven't had sex yet, but I think it's gonna feel GREAT!!...(lol)..but then I don't know cause one time I got a tampon up there, but then another time I got it stuck and it hurt like hell coming outt... ..... Tampons and sex feel completely different. o_O |
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Jun 11 2007, 03:29 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(CrazayChristian @ Jun 25 2005, 12:33 PM) I'm told it hurts, but athletic girls build up this..(Crap I can't remember the word, H something) And they don't bleed or hurt as much. But from what I hear, first timers do bleed. Yupp |
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Jun 11 2007, 05:42 PM
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my first time didnt hurt me at all. i was just sore in the legs for a couple days after haha
but if the guy is big, maybe it would hurt. |
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Jun 11 2007, 05:49 PM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
i'd like to know too.
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Jun 11 2007, 06:00 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
 All this pain talk is making me kind of scared.
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Jun 11 2007, 06:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,834 |
QUOTE(XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX @ Jun 11 2007, 03:29 PM) Yupp I'm athletic and it hurt me the first time; but I didn't bleed. But it isn't as bad as everyone is making it out to be ... |
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Jun 11 2007, 08:06 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
Everyones different. But for me, my first time hurt a lot to the point where it was not enjoyable at all. I was shakeing real bad afterwards. But as we kept doing it every time hurt less and less. It just takes a little getting used too. I didnt bleed though..so my hymen must of popped.
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Jun 11 2007, 09:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,834 |
QUOTE(xhidethedetails @ Jun 11 2007, 08:06 PM) Everyones different. But for me, my first time hurt a lot to the point where it was not enjoyable at all. I was shakeing real bad afterwards. But as we kept doing it every time hurt less and less. It just takes a little getting used too. I didnt bleed though..so my hymen must of popped. that's kind of how I was. [minus the shaking - I just chickened out] But yeah ; everyone is different. |
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