Is it,, wrong to have sex before marriage? |
 Jul 16 2005, 02:35 AM
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 I am tako <3.  Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,052  |
Just a question, everyone have different belives and thoughs about this but
is it wrong to have sex before marraige? |
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| *anubis* |
Jul 16 2005, 03:34 AM
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i believe that you shouldn't buy a car without test-driving it first.
does that answer your question? 
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Jul 16 2005, 03:41 AM
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 GREEENROCKS Group: Member Posts: 1,393 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,624 |
i think it's better to wait, so the bond between you and your future spouse is more special.
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| *anubis* |
Jul 16 2005, 03:46 AM
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QUOTE(elmogurly @ Jul 16 2005, 2:41 AM) i think it's better to wait, so the bond between you and your future spouse is more special.  ...but what if the sex turns out to be horrible? 
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Jul 16 2005, 06:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,534 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 170,127 |
wrong? uhm...for myself, no..I'm not judging anyone by their sex life.
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Jul 16 2005, 07:25 AM
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 Donna-chan Group: Member Posts: 1,183 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,389 |
well, to me, it's good to be married first, so you know the daddy will be there since you two are together, instead of being a couple, and then he leaves you, since he found out your were pregnant
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| *danielle_x3* |
Jul 16 2005, 08:25 AM
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QUOTE(anubis @ Jul 16 2005, 3:34 AM) i believe that you shouldn't buy a car without test-driving it first. does that answer your question? lmao! well, i know a lot of people who chose sex before marriage. it's not wrong, it's just your choice |
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Jul 16 2005, 08:27 AM
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 not da vinci's mona lisa <3 Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,781 |
i don't believe in sex before marrige [religious beliefs] but that's just me.. everyone else has their own choice to make.
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Jul 16 2005, 09:10 AM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
QUOTE(anubis @ Jul 16 2005, 4:46 AM) ...but what if the sex turns out to be horrible? well if you only have it with one person and its your first time anything is good no matter how horrible...ok maybe not like that but i mean it would still be good. shouldnt this be in debate? o.O |
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| *mipadi* |
Jul 16 2005, 10:53 AM
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I think if the decision it arrived at in a mature, responsible manner, then it's fine. I'm not into "random hookups" or sleeping around, but I think it's okay to sleep with someone before you are married (as long as they're not either
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Jul 16 2005, 02:06 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
i think sex before marriage is okay.
but if its some random guy you met at a club..then thats wrong, in my mind. |
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| *anubis* |
Jul 16 2005, 02:55 PM
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QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Jul 16 2005, 8:10 AM) well if you only have it with one person and its your first time anything is good no matter how horrible...ok maybe not like that but i mean it would still be good. shouldnt this be in debate? o.O ..what if she's a screamer? or worse... a CRYER? (one who cries during intercourse) that'd be kinda...
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Jul 16 2005, 02:59 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
QUOTE(anubis @ Jul 16 2005, 3:55 PM) ..what if she's a screamer? or worse... a CRYER? (one who cries during intercourse) that'd be kinda... well what if he never watched porn or anything and doesn't know what sex is supposed to be like...haha thats such a big stretch |
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Jul 16 2005, 03:38 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(Julie. @ Jul 16 2005, 5:54 AM) wrong? uhm...for myself, no..I'm not judging anyone by their sex life. Exactly. Who cares about sex? It's your choice if you want to have sex before or after marriage, but you just have to be wise about who you're doing it with... |
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Jul 16 2005, 06:24 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
I don't think it's wrong to have sex before marriage, but you shouldn't do it just for the heck of doing it before marriage. I say once you have found a really good guy/girl, and you and they are ready, you should go for it, but take your time!
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Jul 16 2005, 06:27 PM
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i think you should use a condom before marriage and after no rubber
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Jul 16 2005, 06:38 PM
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QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Jul 16 2005, 6:27 PM) i think you should use a condom before marriage and after no rubber ^agreec |
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Jul 16 2005, 06:39 PM
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memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Jul 16 2005, 6:27 PM) i think you should use a condom before marriage and after no rubber ^agreed |
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Jul 16 2005, 06:39 PM
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memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
oops sorry for the double post
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| *mipadi* |
Jul 16 2005, 09:28 PM
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QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Jul 16 2005, 7:27 PM) i think you should use a condom before marriage and after no rubber Is that to say you should use a different contraceptive after marriage, or...none at all? |
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Jul 16 2005, 09:59 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ Jul 16 2005, 7:39 PM) oops sorry for the double post *points* HA TRIPLE POST! Anyway, I really don't agree with the whole rubber before, no rubber after. That's just like...hey shes hot lets go eff her...or somethign like that. |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Jul 16 2005, 10:12 PM
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For me, I do think it is ok to have sex before marriage as long as you know what you are getting yourself into.
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Jul 16 2005, 10:15 PM
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I think it's all up to the individual person. I had sex, I'm not married, and I'm totally happy with it. If you want to save it then fine =) I know my relationship with my boyfriend changed dramatically. I do think sex can change a relationship. I would prefer to have protected sex with the guy before becoming married but again, that's just me.
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Jul 16 2005, 10:37 PM
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QUOTE(danielle_x3 @ Jul 16 2005, 8:25 AM) lmao! well, i know a lot of people who chose sex before marriage. it's not wrong, it's just your choice exactly .. i love that saying;; "you should never buy a car w/o test driving it first" lol |
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Jul 17 2005, 05:18 PM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
I'll try and wait but if I don't, no biggie. :) Sex it up.
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