i dont know if there is already a thread on this but here it goes!

i think its cool to get married to your frist gf/ bf... if its really meant to be.

what do you think?

Hrm, if I truly loved them. I would probably date other people first though, to be sure.

hell no i wouldn't. it's not meant to be.

nope i wouldnt.. i dont believe in that meant to be shit :P if i REALLY REALLY love him, i maybe would.. but why marry? bf & gf is fine too right xD

My first boyfriend? no. I don't even talk to him anymore lol

No, your first boyfriend or girlfriend isn't likely the one your going to get married with.

You really should date other people first.

As idealistic as that seems, no. My first date was a jerk; he wanted to screw after less than two weeks of getting to know each other. .... I was in eighth grade, he was in ninth. What a loser.

i don't see anything wrong with doing that. i mean--yeah some people will be like "you have to date around to see who you really are ment to be with--who you match more with" but sometimes, your first one is the best one you've ever had. maybe the rest are just going to be bitches.

so, if it really felt right to me, yeah, i would

If he's "courting" me..and if I like him..and I hope I don't have to date too many people to find the person I'm going to marry..

Yeah, cause you don't want to have to put a whole lot of effort into the marriage thing--why not just get it over and done with?

Okayyyy...that's not what I meant. But whatever.

I meant that I don't want to date too many other people and give my heart away to them and have nothing left to give the person I'm gonna marry..

ooh she's got a point there

Hell no. He was a jerk. Still IS a jerk. I'd die.

My first boyfriend? He played with my heart and broke it into a million pieces. And we don't even talk anymore, so no, I wouldn't marry him. I think i'd die if I did.

But if your first date was perfect for you, then why not? It's romantic ^^ However, I believed in the dating more than one person to find your match thing; variety is always good.

ehh...no. he's a nice guy and all but...no. he's still a friend of mine though. but yeah, that was back in freshman year and i just don't see that happening...for some, it may be possible if they are that lucky with their first pick. *shrug*

nah..i dont really think so...cuz... mi first bf...i dont really wanna talk about it...but no i dont believe it..

Hmm, probably not. We never talk anymore and he ignores me. And, I would rather marry my current boyfriend, whom I love very much.

Is this in general or are you specifically asking about "our first date"? I'd marry whoever I thought was right, regardless of it was the first or last person I dated. Specifically, HELL NO, I would not marry my first boyfriend if he were the last human on earth.

of course. but only if you're meant to be.

Also, a cliche line from Affirmation that definitely plays into this:
"I believe you can't appreciate real love 'til you've been burned."

Part of the reason why I said no.

No, I would not. But, in general terms, if I *truly* loved them, then yes I would. But as for my first boyfriend, I love him and all, but as a friend. I could never marry him.

The whole Highschool Sweetheart thing is very sketchy to me. I think that in some point during the relationship, the two should take a break for a while to date around and see what they are missing, or what they aren't missing. I think this secures the relationship and doesn't leave you wondering mid-marrige "what could have been"

i agree

my first boyfriend was nice but we're just too different...most people don't end up with their first boyfriend/girlfriend because they're usually young and only dated each other for the wrong reasons...or as the mature they grow apart.

my parents were their first bf/gf. but i think it's really rare nowadays. it's be sort of cool and romantic though