soul mate vs. love of your life, :/ the difference? |
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 Jul 11 2005, 02:22 AM
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wat is the difference between soul mate and the love of your life?
which one would you choose? no problem or advice needed to be given i guess i was just wondering cuz it kinda makes me wonder :/ |
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Jul 11 2005, 03:33 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
I think a soul mates is someone who is like you; who completes you.. love of your life is just someone you love VERY much.. :P a soulmate can be a friend too, so i'd choose a soulmate :P
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Jul 11 2005, 03:39 AM
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 Heykidd. <3 Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701 |
Soulmates hav things n common.. but the person u love..
sometimes.. opposites attract.. WEll.. My friend.. has that prob.. its like.. shes wid sum1 but she has diz soulmate and she likes him or sumtin.. If i were you.. id go wid.. Soulmate also.. cuz u guys hav things in common.. |
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Jul 11 2005, 03:40 AM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
let's see...
soulmate= perfect companion love of life= who (or what ) you devote your life too. i'd want a soulmate. |
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| *anubis* |
Jul 11 2005, 03:45 AM
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i definitely choose love of my life
--a soulmate is someone that you have a bonding relationship with--almost as if you're one person. you share common interests and is definitely a person you can talk to anytime--since you have so much in common. --but a lover shares what a soulmate doesn't. intimacy. now if love of my life means the same person for the rest of my life, i'd definitely choose that because, although a soulmate is someone i can share a conversation with at any time, a lover is someone i can express myself to (psychologically, mentally, romantically, and even sexually). my values weigh more towards love than friendship. |
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Jul 11 2005, 03:48 AM
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dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
QUOTE(anubis @ Jul 11 2005, 3:45 AM) i definitely choose love of my life --a soulmate is someone that you have a bonding relationship with--almost as if you're one person. you share common interests and is definitely a person you can talk to anytime--since you have so much in common. --but a lover shares what a soulmate doesn't. intimacy. now if love of my life means the same person for the rest of my life, i'd definitely choose that because, although a soulmate is someone i can share a conversation with at any time, a lover is someone i can express myself to (psychologically, mentally, romantically, and even sexually). my values weigh more towards love than friendship.  unfortunatly, you're assuming the love of your life loves you back. which is not nessicarily. |
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Jul 11 2005, 03:52 AM
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QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 11 2005, 2:48 AM) unfortunatly, you're assuming the love of your life loves you back. which is not nessicarily. of course i'd assume that  i'm sure mizz rizza didn't mean love of your life as unrequited love or a one-way love--or else there wouldn't need to be a question in the first place. you can stick to your choice, and i'll stick with mine. |
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Jul 11 2005, 03:56 AM
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dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
QUOTE(anubis @ Jul 11 2005, 3:52 AM) of course i'd assume that i'm sure mizz rizza didn't mean love of your life as unrequited love or a one-way love--or else there wouldn't need to be a question in the first place. you can stick to your choice, and i'll stick with mine. hmm... well, i don't think mizz rizza meant soul mate as friend either... oh well. love is fun. |
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Jul 11 2005, 06:30 AM
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i'd rather have a soul-mate to complete me than a 'love of my life' that makes me feel empty. o_o; i dunno xD why can't we have both? like one or both of them as friends only? what's so wrong with that? xD
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Jul 11 2005, 08:42 AM
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soulmates are a great thing. i have had the pleasure of having two
one of them was coincidently someone i did love, and it turned out bad. i think i'd love to have a love of my life again, but they always end so shitly, so i guess a soulmate would be better |
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Jul 11 2005, 09:27 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, the love of your life could also be your soulmate.
A soulmate is someone that is perfectly compatable with you, someone you can spend the rest of your life with. It can either be a friend or some romantic partner. The love of your life is someone whom you will always love for the rest of your life; whether they love you back is different. However, if the love is reciprocal, then they could also be your soulmate. I believe that I have already found my soulmate, who is also the love of my life. |
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| *anubis* |
Jul 11 2005, 02:08 PM
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QUOTE(linke3 @ Jul 11 2005, 8:27 AM) Well, the love of your life could also be your soulmate. A soulmate is someone that is perfectly compatable with you, someone you can spend the rest of your life with. It can either be a friend or some romantic partner. The love of your life is someone whom you will always love for the rest of your life; whether they love you back is different. However, if the love is reciprocal, then they could also be your soulmate. I believe that I have already found my soulmate, who is also the love of my life. good answer 
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Jul 11 2005, 02:51 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
Theres not difference...
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Jul 11 2005, 04:18 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
love of your life...some random person who is really special
soul mate...someone just like you and is more of a bestfriend but i think you can have a soul mate love of your life type of thing going on if your lucky =0 |
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Jul 11 2005, 05:16 PM
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Soul mate - I personally think that you don't have control over this one. A soul mate is someone you were made for, a soul mate is someone who you are destined to be with, as final as that sounds. He/she is the one that complements you in every way; he/she knows exactly how you feel, knows exactly how to make you happy. When united with him/her, you feel complete - you know it's him/her.
Love of your life - This one, you do have control over. The love of your life, the one that shines brighter than the others. Perhaps not a soulmate, but as close as you can get because, after all, not everyone is lucky enough to find his/her soulmate in this large world. However, this love can be unrequited, one-sided, or even just an infatuation. I'd definitely choose a soul mate - and I have just that. |
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Jul 12 2005, 05:58 PM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jul 11 2005, 5:16 PM) Soul mate - I personally think that you don't have control over this one. A soul mate is someone you were made for, a soul mate is someone who you are destined to be with, as final as that sounds. He/she is the one that complements you in every way; he/she knows exactly how you feel, knows exactly how to make you happy. When united with him/her, you feel complete - you know it's him/her. Love of your life - This one, you do have control over. The love of your life, the one that shines brighter than the others. Perhaps not a soulmate, but as close as you can get because, after all, not everyone is lucky enough to find his/her soulmate in this large world. However, this love can be unrequited, one-sided, or even just an infatuation. I'd definitely choose a soul mate - and I have just that. I agree with her. |
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Jul 12 2005, 06:14 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Jul 11 2005, 3:40 AM) soulmate= perfect companion love of life= who (or what ) you devote your life too. there goes your answer |
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Jul 13 2005, 08:51 AM
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im not even sure wut soul mate really means -.-
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