the chase!, getting a girl or guy to like you |
 Jun 26 2005, 08:04 AM
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i dont know what it is...but i find this part of a relationship really fun if ur successful, its just like flirting back and forth and gradually getting more and more close, and then each time i move up a step with a girl it feels awesome! maybe its just a highschool thing....i mean the time i first held my gf's hand after like 4 months of talking and flirting...it felt great...like ive earned it or somehting..lol..i doubt older people get a chance to gradually flirt into a relationship...but yeah...anyone get what im saying??
 ...but then after you start going out it seems less fun cuz the mystery of whether they like you back is gone....meh...if you dont get what im saying i dont blame you...i dont even get what i just wrote...this forum business is harder than i thought!
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Jun 26 2005, 08:09 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
Umm, what's the point of this topic? This isn't a journal.
& Is this girl your very first girlfriend, 'cause you seem too joyful. |
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Jun 26 2005, 08:16 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,016 |
sorryy....i just wanted to see if i could relate to anyone. guess not tho -_-...and yes it is my first gf, i guess im still too young to understand relationships fully....ahh..sorry for wasting your time
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Jun 26 2005, 12:48 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
*thumbs up*
know how that feels, man. But i think this should be in relationships. The flirting is great. Hehe. But after that's all done, you can have these really great, deep conversations. It's quite awesome. |
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Jun 26 2005, 01:34 PM
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Hydro Azn Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 155,718 |
I feel yah. Sometimes the chase is what makes the whole thing worthwhile. Whether u get the girl or not, if the chase was fun, I guess it isnt all that bad. And sometimes the chase is better than what u actually are chasing.
Those days when u poke the girl, and she chases u, and u hide behind a pillar, lol. Oops, im reminicing. But yeah, I understand. 
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Jun 26 2005, 07:30 PM
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 former member Group: Member Posts: 706 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,339 |
hmm nope wouldnt know what it would feel like one girl for 2 years now and we're just friends
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Jun 26 2005, 07:49 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
Aww crap...There is so much I WANT to say, but I don't want to ruin your happiness.
I have personally not chased anyone, someone has chased me. Well, I don't think I've chased someone. ANyways, I'm happy for you (in a sense) but, the chase isn't as fun for us guys who care about the little things and have spent 2 years blah blah blah. Yea, I just save you 15minutes of your time, you owe me your life. |
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Jul 2 2005, 10:01 AM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
yeah it is fun to flirt and then they flirt back but then it gets weird.
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Jul 2 2005, 05:16 PM
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 Ant-----------> Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 164,297 |
sounds cool
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Jul 2 2005, 06:09 PM
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QUOTE(aanttd @ Jul 2 2005, 6:16 PM) sounds cool  No spamming. Please read the rules. QUOTE Pointless Posts To enhance the experience of these forums, please do not post just for the sake of posts counts. We care more about what you say than how many times you can hit the "add reply" button. Spamming is a BIG no-no here. This includes double posting (posting two or more posts in a row), repeated posts (even in different threads), and anything unrelevant to the topic at hand. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Moved to Relationships |
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Jul 2 2005, 06:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,098 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,687 |
when I was younger it was fun but now I just skip that and go straight to the relationship
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Jul 2 2005, 06:48 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
The chase CAN be fun.. But I like relationships better because then you can do more than just flirt and hug... Like hold hands, get/give kisses on the cheek, kiss, be held ect ect. Sometimes the relationship can be a drag though.
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Jul 2 2005, 09:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 515 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,039 |
QUOTE(some-one- @ Jun 26 2005, 8:04 AM) i dont know what it is...but i find this part of a relationship really fun if ur successful, its just like flirting back and forth and gradually getting more and more close, and then each time i move up a step with a girl it feels awesome! maybe its just a highschool thing....i mean the time i first held my gf's hand after like 4 months of talking and flirting...it felt great...like ive earned it or somehting..lol..i doubt older people get a chance to gradually flirt into a relationship...but yeah...anyone get what im saying?? ...but then after you start going out it seems less fun cuz the mystery of whether they like you back is gone....meh...if you dont get what im saying i dont blame you...i dont even get what i just wrote...this forum business is harder than i thought!hehe..thats how i feel, exactly.. when you start going out, the suspense and fun of it all disappears  thats probably why i haven't had a serious bf yet...  heh..oh well..i'll settle for flirting..for now xD
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Jul 3 2005, 08:28 PM
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lol..i kinda felt da same way as yoo feel... ^^
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Jul 3 2005, 10:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
well idk... i just be myself and all of a sudden boys like me [not to sound concedid]... all you have to do is be yourself...
but sometimes doing that can get myself carried away by doing MORE than being myself, like changing the way i act towards the boy[s] that like me [thats if i like him back] |
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Jul 4 2005, 12:51 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Omg i totally, completely, honestly know exactly what you mean. I mean, really. Thank god someone started this topic.
The chase was without a doubt the best part. After that the passion started fading away... |
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Jul 4 2005, 03:14 AM
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trust me, im fightin temptations. Group: Member Posts: 399 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,414 |
i love "the case" or whatever you call it. because basically thats the most exiciting and frusting part for me. but its fcked up when you take "signs" the wrong way during "the chase" because most of the time it will hurt you.
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Jul 4 2005, 11:50 PM
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i get wat you mean
but im not really agreeing with you when you say it's not fun anymore that it get boring cuz iono i think that if you're really in love with a guy/girl then every day shouldn't be boring |
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