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HE DOESNT OWN ME !, WTF , WHY DOES HE CARE.
EmmalieV
post May 13 2005, 08:34 PM
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My ex boyfriend found out I smoke and hes mad.


I call him and he goes , when you stop smoking..call me.


Im like WTF , why does he care.

smoking ciggarettes.
Im 15.

one word. stress.
 
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nyctophiliac
post May 13 2005, 08:50 PM
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Smoking as in weed or cigs? & how old are you? But anyways...maybe he still cares for you and doesn't want you to get hurt.
 
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post May 13 2005, 09:31 PM
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thats kind of young but okay.. well thats true, he doesnt own you but he does care for you... no offence but i would have acted the same if one of my close friends smoked or smoke
 
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post May 13 2005, 09:34 PM
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Obviously he doesn't want to date a smoker. Just becuase he said "Call me when you stop smoking" doesn't mean he's bossing you around.
 
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post May 13 2005, 09:34 PM
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i would do that to my bf if he started smoking. but you're right, he shouldn't be acting like this
 
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post May 13 2005, 09:53 PM
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QUOTE(AnonymousGirl589 @ May 13 2005, 10:34 PM)
Obviously he doesn't want to date a smoker. Just becuase he said "Call me when you stop smoking" doesn't mean he's bossing you around.
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Hes my EX.

and well yes , because anything he says I usually do if you get the point.
 
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post May 14 2005, 02:32 PM
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just because he's your ex doesn't mean he doesn't care.
 
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post May 14 2005, 02:32 PM
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not that he doesnt care.


he shouldnt.
 
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post May 14 2005, 02:36 PM
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you want him to not care?

i mean.. i don't even know you and i still care.
i don't know what i'm really trying to say either. *shrug*
 
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post May 14 2005, 02:52 PM
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"You don't own me....
I'm not just one of your many toys...
You don't own me...
Don't say I can't go with
Other boys...

And don't tell me what to say,
and don't tell me what to do...
And when I go out with you...
Don't put me on display...!"

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Haha. Go download that song or something and leave it on his answering machine. biggrin.gif
 
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post May 14 2005, 02:55 PM
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he is trying to stop you before you get cancer or other stuff...
he just cares...just talk it through with him
 
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post May 14 2005, 02:57 PM
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exactly ur freakin 15 and u smoke! im 16 and I never smoked, not even once. If I was him, I would say the same thing too.

idk, I dont like kids who smoke..its not *cool*

U know if u smoke, 7 years of ur life is going away...yah i know to much.
 
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post May 14 2005, 02:59 PM
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chaa smokin is bad.. and im not preachin and everythin but i kno cause i got kicked out of skewl for smokin, marijuana but still u can still get in trouble wiht ciggs. did u know quitin cigs is harder than cocciane..maybe thats why he is worried.
 
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post May 14 2005, 03:23 PM
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why cant he care just because he's your ex?
 
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post May 14 2005, 03:29 PM
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He cares about your health, sweety. He still has feelings for you.
 
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post May 14 2005, 03:59 PM
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Perhaps your ex boyfriend still cares about you. Did HE or YOU break off the relationship?

What you've got to understand is that people around you do care.. that they want you to stop. I, too, am NOT preaching for you to quit (it's your own decision), but he probably still cares about you. Stress? You should take into consideration what he's telling you.
 
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post May 14 2005, 04:21 PM
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he cares about you, thats why hes asking you to stop. by telling you to call him when you stop doesnt mean he owns you, it means that hes hoping you care enough about him to stop this hurtful habit.
 
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post May 14 2005, 05:07 PM
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i don't understand why you're so upset that someone cares about you. whether it be your ex or not. you have people on here that don't know you that care. smoking is bad for you! why would you want to shorten your life like that? in such an unhealthy way. he's just concerned thats all.
 
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post May 14 2005, 07:07 PM
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QUOTE(Just_Dream @ May 14 2005, 4:59 PM)
Perhaps your ex boyfriend still cares about you. Did HE or YOU break off the relationship?

What you've got to understand is that people around you do care.. that they want you to stop. I, too, am NOT preaching for you to quit (it's your own decision), but he probably still cares about you. Stress? You should take into consideration what he's telling you.
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He broke off the relationship , and its been like 5 months since we broke up. He refuses to talk to me or anything. Hes a senior by the way.
 
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post May 14 2005, 07:27 PM
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Well it's not his fault I mean you're young and you smoke, maybe he's worried about your safety.
 
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post May 14 2005, 07:31 PM
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maybe hes worried about kissing cigarrete breathe or hes really worried (he wants you to stay with him forever and cares about you too much and doesnt want you to get heart)
 
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post May 14 2005, 09:11 PM
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Maybe he still cares about you.
But then again, he's your EX and if you don't want to listen to him, it's fine.
He's just worried for your safety, that's all. =)
 
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post May 15 2005, 12:09 AM
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He cares about u..thats y hes telling u that...he might not talk to u when things r going fine, but that doesnt mean he doesnt care...its pretty obvious he cares about u...
 
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post May 15 2005, 01:24 AM
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Smoking is a bad way to relieve stress.. you should work out or soemthing..

He cares about you, and so do we at CB. So..please stop smoking.
 
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post May 15 2005, 02:21 AM
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Well you know its nice that ur ex cares about u, my ex pretends I don't exist.

And stop smoking, there are other ways to deal with stress.
 

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