Best way.., to screw a relationship up |
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 May 9 2005, 08:33 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101  |
ok, im a bit tired of hearing about the same things on this forum over and over again so i thought id do something a little different.
What do you all feel is the best way to totally screw up a relationship? It doesnt even have to be the best way to screw it up, just things that you know will make it so it wont last. ex.: lying and not trusting each other, not communicating, etc. |
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May 9 2005, 08:39 PM
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 Disgrace to the asian race Group: Member Posts: 346 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,080 |
Cheating or being a ahole/jerk.
.......not that I would know. |
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May 9 2005, 08:47 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Well, I guess cheating is something, lying, abuse? I dunno...
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May 9 2005, 08:51 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
losing someone's trust and lying are the biggest issues...for a break up
being disrespectful can cause break ups, and being two faced. i hate people who are two faced 
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May 9 2005, 09:20 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
cheating. or liars
i hate liars. |
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May 9 2005, 09:23 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
saying to their face how much you hate them. talking behind their backs and telling the person you talked to to tell the person what you said. being mean. hitting, kicking, smacking, threatening. just stop talking to them.
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May 9 2005, 10:08 PM
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 THE EVERGLOW Group: Member Posts: 95 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,409 |
abuse, most definitely. and cheating/ lying. or just being an all around jerk.
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May 10 2005, 10:47 AM
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 im addicted to my car<3 Group: Member Posts: 635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 92,236 |
messing with other guys(or girls) right in front of them.
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May 10 2005, 11:57 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
Heres one that a lot of people dont think about. Over analyzing can kill a relationship. calling everyday asking if someone is mad, or why do you love me, or do you think we will last. then if they dont neccesarily give the answer you expect, fights come out of it. I know, cuz I used to do it. Not intentionally, I just had really low self esteem and thought everyone liked me cuz they felt sorry for me. So yeah. Thats a great way to lose someone.</sarcasm>
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
May 10 2005, 12:49 PM
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Cheat and lie and you're all set!
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May 10 2005, 02:06 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
1. cheat
2. ignore 3. cause drama |
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May 10 2005, 02:47 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
hmmm...maybe cheating on yur bf/gf?
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May 10 2005, 03:09 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
cheating.
Becoming very unfreindly an stuff. Getting you pregnant than suddenly leaving. dying. lol, that owuld screw it up 
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 10 2005, 04:43 PM
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Act as if their your worst enemy and flirt with other girls/guys in front of their face i guess.
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May 10 2005, 04:45 PM
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well.. for me... the number 1 reason is when the person you like start trying to be cool or start showing off because they think they can fit in with the "cool" people now.
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May 10 2005, 05:39 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Cheat/flirt with other girls/guys.
Or if you want something from my experience... ASKING SO MANY DAMN QUESTIONS AND GETTING MAD WHENEVER YOU DON'T ANSWER ONE!!! hmph... |
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May 10 2005, 07:07 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
break off plans
flirting with other girls / guys cheating lying getting mad easily bossy |
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May 10 2005, 08:26 PM
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 E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 |
Losing trust. That encompasses cheating, lying, ect. because they all have to do with a person's trust in you to stay true to them.
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May 10 2005, 10:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,641 |
Not talking to them is the worst lol while ur around them and u dont talk to them it makes him/her so mad and then they ask why are you not talking to me or answering me saying"Just dont wanna talk to u"Makes them real mad or rude comments about everything they gotta say etc
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May 10 2005, 11:38 PM
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 i'm hot. you're hot. but she's not. Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,896 |
-->not doing anything... like never going anywhere together...
--->cheating -->accusing the other person of cheating  --->Being over protective. -->Not TALKING to eachother. ((my friend did that with her ex.. heh)) --->And just using common since.. that should be ittt... expcially the last one <3333 |
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May 11 2005, 04:38 PM
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 Call me Lauren d=] Group: Member Posts: 278 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,118 |
I would have to say lying.. And being caught too
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May 11 2005, 05:24 PM
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 reluctantly gazing Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 120,555 |
never had a bf but i can answer this talking about me and one of my really really close guy friends...
we used to be really close...almost like brother and sister and what messed it up was dishonesty i think ... and he was acting like an ahole, i was acting like a bitch. to sum it up. *sigh* i really miss him as a friend though...we still talk occasionally but spend more time yelling at each other  although in a bf/gf relationship, basically the same thing. disloyalty; dishonesty. cheating; being an ahole/bitch. |
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May 11 2005, 10:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 137,122 |
well everyones answer seem to be cheating....that would do it.
but i would also have to agree with some others and say.... abuse lying ignorance avoidance things like that |
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May 11 2005, 11:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
^ ignorance isn't really a big deal.... IMO
 But I find that, breaking the trust, cheating, you know, the gist. Its what screws up a relationship. |
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May 11 2005, 11:53 PM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
dieing!!! :)
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