can anyone spare some advice, please??, I need it.. |
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 May 8 2005, 05:56 PM
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 Captain Screw Up... aka, Mwah!  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,850  |
Okay, well.. I went out with this guy Chris for like a week a week or two ago. I really really liked him. See, he'd just moved here from a few towns away, and I thought he was really cute, and he felt the same way about me. Then, on a Monday after second hour (we have that class together) he breaks it off cause 'something happened over the weekend'. Well, while I was going out with him we three-wayed his friend from his old school, Zach. I really liked talking to him and everything.
Now, I still talk to Zach and Chris and all my friends got into a really big fight cause Chris told Zach on the phone that I was annoying and my friend Ashley had a 'rooster chin'. He's not really mean, he's super sweet.. He just notices peoples flaws, and doesn't intend on those people to hear. Well, Zach told us. Everyone got pissed off. My friends were sooo rude, throwing things at him and such. Now he has no friends and I feel bad. I gave him a note on Friday and apologized for myself and my friends bad behavior.. He still WON'T TALK TO ME! I HATE THIS! I honestly want to be his friend, but I don't know what to do to ease this tension between us. It really sucks.  It also sucks that I still like him, and don't know what to do..Please give me some advice, I need it.. Thanks. Lacey |
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May 8 2005, 06:26 PM
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QUOTE(captain_screw_up @ May 8 2005, 3:56 PM) Chris told Zach on the phone that I was annoying and my friend Ashley had a 'rooster chin'. He's not really mean, he's super sweet.. He just notices peoples flaws, and doesn't intend on those people to hear.  wow ok that doesnt sound like a guy who is "super sweet"! That is called gossiping and you totally dont wanna be involved with any guy who gossips ESPECIALLY about your friends. And you wrote him an apology? why? HE should be the one apologizing! Yes your friends were mean to throw stuff at him but you dont have to apologize for them! Ok so you still like him. I understand where ur coming from. I use to like a guy who treated everyone like crap and talked behind peoples back. But for some reason I saw the good in him. But my friends talked me outta it. Now im so greatful of them because now that I got outta the crush i had on him i fully see the jerk that he is. You just need to move on. Find someone else to like. Its hard to get over someone, I know, but seriously the only thing you can do to get over him is to give it time. It speeds up the process to find someone else so do that if you can. Hope I could help |
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May 8 2005, 07:32 PM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
i know u like him and stuff but u shouldnt be the one apologizing. did he say sorry to u about him calling ur friend rooster chinned? its hard to believe hes "super sweet". although he may be good with grls and he can charm u, if he has the heart to say something like that, i dont think hes the right guy
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May 8 2005, 07:34 PM
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QUOTE i know u like him and stuff but u shouldnt be the one apologizing. did he say sorry to u about him calling ur friend rooster chinned? its hard to believe hes "super sweet". although he may be good with grls and he can charm u, if he has the heart to say something like that, i dont think hes the right guy Agreed completely |
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May 10 2005, 11:24 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
You're calling a guy who called you "annoying" super sweet.....and you actually apologized......I don't think you should bother with him if he's going to say mean things about your friends......forget about him and find someone else who won't call your friend names.....and your friend was right for throwing things at him....he deserved it....
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May 11 2005, 12:22 AM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
If I were you, I'd get over him. He seems like a really big jerk. He's not "super sweet". You shouldn't even waste your time trying to be his friend.
I tried to be friends with my ex boyfriend and he ended up being a REALLY big jerk. Like REALLY REALLY big jerk. |
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May 11 2005, 12:41 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
uhh..u shouldnt be the one apologizing..HE should be the one for insulting and saying mean names..and he definately isnt sweet...
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May 11 2005, 07:09 AM
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it is hard to like forgive someone for hurting your feelings, but if this guy only sees the flaws in people and directly points them out, then HE has the problem. it makes him feel better to criticize others. i would just forget him, you apologized for hurting him, but has he apologized for hurting you or your friends.......i would just forget about him.
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May 11 2005, 11:40 AM
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QUOTE(fuzz4 @ May 8 2005, 3:26 PM) wow ok that doesnt sound like a guy who is "super sweet"! That is called gossiping and you totally dont wanna be involved with any guy who gossips ESPECIALLY about your friends. And you wrote him an apology? why? HE should be the one apologizing! Yes your friends were mean to throw stuff at him but you dont have to apologize for them! Hope I could help *nods head* I completelty agree |
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May 11 2005, 07:50 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
talking behind people's back is not "super-sweet." people have that misconception with me and my friend, because they think we're "really really sweet" and would never say anything mean. turns out though, we're not as "really really sweet" as everyone thinks. everyone talks behind everybody else's back. even if you mention what someone said during class, thats still talking behind peoples back. i dont know where im going with this...
he said bad things about you. try and move on. |
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