I think we love naturally..like ever since we are born, you know, like with a mother's touch and smile and things like that..

Well, you can love naturally and just learn to love, like most people naturally love their parents and family, and sometimes a guy might like you and you might not like it at first, but you might learn to love him, and who knows, in the end you guys might become bf/gf.

I think love is when you would do anyone for that other person and you invest your trust and time with them.

I think love is when you would do anyone for that other person and you invest your trust and time with them.

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I never thought of Love as something that happends and works its magic and makes everything beautifull and great..I think Love is something that you work at and make happend..sure it starts things off with a first kiss, or a first look, or what have you, but then the ball is in youre court and it is what you do with it then, that determines where love takes you.

It maye sound dumb, but I think love is achieved by trust, a open relationship, and the wilingness to adjust to whatever may be thrown ur way. If you are wiling to do these, then i think one may have found Love.
One has to reliase that he or she can not control the other, or control youre feeligns in any form or shape. One can only strive to be as open as possible, and hope that everything he or she does, from the most smallest things, good or bad, will appeal in the others eyes and hold on to that.

Love is different for every singel person, not any two people have the same definition of Love, it takes on a different shape and form for many people, but this is mine I think. I am only 17 year's old and my girlfriend is almost 2 years younger, but I feel according to my above stated defintion that I am comming close to love. I just hope that my view of love does broaden and I cna expand that definition for just a little longer, so I may see Love in its true beauty.

there have been too many times i thought i loved someone, only to find that it wasnt true love. it just happens, two stupid teenagers think they love each other, think they will grow old together, then a few months later cant stand each other and want someone new to love. its amazing, how people can love someone one day, then the next day have totally different feelings.

I think love is somthing like nothing else in the whole world...it is a little bit of this and a little bit of that.
whether you like guys or gals , or both it just does not matter.

Love is a mixure between companionship and sexual attraction
you need both to have a healthy relationship.

Im not sure but i think a sexual attraction is that feeling you get in side your stomach when you see someone you think is hot.
Good companionship i think is when you care for someone a lot and put their needs above your own.

as for learning love and being born with it....i think it is a little bit of both..
you are born with the ability to love and the need to be loved but sure you can live with out it if that is all you know

you learn love from your parents that kiss you and tell you they love you and from movies....alot from them! lol...like info on sex and the relationships but i think you need to follow your heart instead of your sexual urges....which teenagers do too much these days

love: strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties

hmmm.
lol and for those who says love spells evil backwards........... i have nothing to say to you

I'll let all of yous know when I get married.

i know a person who doesn't believe in love. she thinks that its just lust, infatuation, and/or attraction all mushed together.

love...love is so hard to define. it isn't that feeling you get in your stomach when you see that crush. i think..its how far you'll go for a person. "till death do us part".
sacrifice, i guess.

She doesn't love her parents? Care for them?

hm. good question.
i think she was speaking more along the lines of love outside of family. like...boyfriend/girlfriend/wife/husband

to me, love comes naturally....... how can we learn it?? it's a feeling!!!
i can tell i love someone if i miss dat person terribly and want to see him every moment lol......

Love is being able to fart in front of your loved one.

hahahahaha!

I think love is when you care about someone a lot. But then again you can care about a family member a lot and love them. So to tell you the truth theres really no right or wrong defenition to love.

you're not supposed to be able to describe love. that's what makes it special. <3

Love isnt anything..

I mean it cant be defined because everyone thinks Love is something diffrent.

There is no real defination of love you can only feel it.

to me; love is when you want the best for that person; even if you arent going to be part of their lives. and if you are willing to sacrafice your life for theirs. and i dont think you learn to love. i think it comes naturally.

for me?a lover-- someone who unconditionally cares for you, trusts you & you trust them, and .. oh gosh its hard to explain.

love is just too strong
we think we love but we only "like"

Everyone has a different perception of "love."

To someone, "hate" might actually be passionate, and bring them "love."

*waves* hello dear.

Anyway, I agree with what you said. There can be no debate about what love is and isn't because there is no right or wrong answer based on factual evidence. Beauty isn't the only thing that's in the eye of the beholder.

Closed.

i wasn't sure if this was supposed to go in debate since i guess it really isn't gonna be much of a debate? anyways, i wanted know if you think its true that if you know the definition of love then you aren't in love because love isn't exactly something you can put into words, it's basically undescribable. i heard that somewhere and i think it's true. haha i think it might've been in here, not sure.

ah, sorry for being unclear about what i was trying to ask.

This post has been edited by xtreme_<3: Aug 9 2005, 01:27 AM