my best friend.. |
 Apr 20 2005, 07:44 PM
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 brandon demarin  Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512  |
my best friend is going to another high school
 shes the only one i can trust and i feel comfortable around her we always hang together nd stuff but in 2 months, schools out and shes gunna go to a different high school because her mom is forcing her to. i know shes my best friend but for the past few months, i think ive fallen in love with her  if she goes to another high school...i just dont think i can make it what can i do??~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~  (theres pretty much nothing u can tell me cuz theres nothing much i can do) shit man this is gay... i never thought she would leave me |
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Apr 20 2005, 07:47 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
so what are u going to do? force her to go to the same school u go to? u can't help it. try ur best to stick together, chill together after school, on weekends, whatever. it hurts to loose ur best friend like that, but whatever. time changes, u can't help that. she's going to leave, so accept the fact asap, and spend as much time with her as possible from now or whatever.
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Apr 20 2005, 07:54 PM
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 Class of 2005!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,132 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,080 |
Well, since she is going to a differnet school, and not a diff home, I'm guessing she still lives near you. Just do stuff together. You guys just won't be in the same school. It will work out if you let it. I mean, if you tell her your feelings and they are mutual, it will work. So, talk to her. I think thats what you really need to do
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Apr 20 2005, 07:55 PM
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Tu es laid. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,675 |
well like i always say "life goes on" no doubt you guys will still be friends but you'll make new friends and so will she.. Its just the way of life and i feel the same cause in San Franicsco people aren't getting into the highschool they pick so all my friends are going to one high school and im going to one thats half way across town.
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Apr 20 2005, 08:14 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
That's kind of what's happening to me..A lot of my friends are going to another high school..Well I guess keep in touch and make new friends that are going to you high school..
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Apr 20 2005, 08:40 PM
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 JULiiANA FAYE. Group: Member Posts: 460 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,749 |
 get her phone number? ask for her address? when u see ppl at school its just half the fun u do when you visit some one. when u ask for that kind of stuff u might as well feel more closer together.... try it see if it works 
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Apr 20 2005, 08:56 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
just hang out on the weekends, at least. and tell her how you feel before she finds another guy at the new school! good luck
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Apr 20 2005, 09:05 PM
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You never know what you have until its gone. Thats sucks but maybe you guys can continue your relationship at a distance
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Apr 20 2005, 09:20 PM
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yeah, hang out with her during the weekends and maybe during vacation... u can call her? and chat online or something... u might not see her much but u 2 will still b in touch
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Apr 20 2005, 09:40 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
The only thing you can do is keep in touch and maybe even tell her how you feel...
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Apr 20 2005, 09:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
Just because you are going to a different school doesn't mean that you guys aren't going to be friends anymore.
I suggest you get over it. It's life and eventually in life a person has to go their ups and downs. Well now you have to face your downs. So find a way to cope with it. |
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Apr 20 2005, 10:21 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Aww, sorry to hear that. I think you should tell her you like her whethere in a note, or just when you're talking & all. You guys can always keep in touch, but for now I think you should tell hre how you feel
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Apr 20 2005, 11:10 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
keep in touch by phone, aim, msn... the works.
i don't really think there's a use for telling her how you feel about her... she's gone, you know? =T but hey... whatever floats your boat. |
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Apr 20 2005, 11:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
I like Dustin's reply. I go with that.
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Apr 21 2005, 06:42 AM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
Never thought she'd ever leave you? She had no choice. It's not her fault. There is such a thing as a phone and hanging outside of school.
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Apr 21 2005, 06:48 AM
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let time do its job
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Apr 21 2005, 06:50 AM
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 RAWR. Group: Member Posts: 2,585 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,641 |
that happened to me and a friend of mine. Way back in hr hi. we survived. Just make sure you keep in contact. Try to meet up on weekends. It'll be okay :D
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Apr 21 2005, 06:00 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
so wat if she's going to different school? u can still talk to her n meet up with her. maybe not as much but just because she's going to different school doesnt mean u cant ever see or talk to her again. i mean come on. grow up. it happens. it she's moving somewhere really far then im sry but bfore she leaves how about u get ur butt to ask her out! i mean so wat if she rejects u? at least u had the guts to try. u have to make sure that she understands that if she doesnt have feelings for u then u can still be friends n that u can get over her so u guys wont become all wierd with each other later.
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Apr 21 2005, 06:01 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,221 |
yu still have email, letters, and the phone.
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Apr 21 2005, 07:47 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
does she still live in the same city, state or even country as you? you made it seems like she totally deserted you...
 if she still lives near you, go visit her and i guess you could ask her out but i wouldn't advise it. if i have said it once, i have said it a thousand times. going out with best friends is very risky! like having sex without a condom. things could work out and y'all could live happily ever happy or things won't work out and y'all will hate each other for the rest of your lives. are you feeling lucky today?
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Apr 22 2005, 12:33 AM
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 Call me Julie Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,042 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 20 2005, 5:47 PM) so what are u going to do? force her to go to the same school u go to? u can't help it. try ur best to stick together, chill together after school, on weekends, whatever. it hurts to loose ur best friend like that, but whatever. time changes, u can't help that. she's going to leave, so accept the fact asap, and spend as much time with her as possible from now or whatever.  YEAH DO THAT..OR WENEVER YOU HAVE FREE TIME..HANG OUT TOGETHER..OR..TALK ON THE PHONE..ALSO..IF YOU HAVE AIM..YAHOO..OR MSN..YOU COULD TALK ON THAT! |
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