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 Apr 14 2005, 01:19 AM
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Who stole my pants  Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,933  |
Well im just 13 so i guess im young but that doesnt get in my way.
anyway i was with this girl from like the summer before 6th and i was 11. till the summer of 7th. She left me but it was my fault and i regret it all the time. Even though ive been with another person i still think bout her and i mind my self jealous of people she likes (and i dont even know if she does for sure) It took me months to get over her. We were such great friends and i went to house all the time. Her parents were and are good friends with mine(after we got together if that matters) and i always got to spend time with her. And now adays i find my self trying to find out who she likes and things. And we talk and shes really open with me and she tells me really personal things and that im one the only people i can talk to even over her best friend. I hear she doesnt like me so im pretty much crushedd but not by her.(her freind told) and i guess im having a hard time deal with this. I was just wondering if she mite like me or if its all in my head and i might as well lose all hope. yea ok |
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Apr 14 2005, 06:30 AM
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you can't always believe what her friend says, well it might be true but the best is to ask her whether she still likes you
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Apr 14 2005, 07:50 AM
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Well your young and trust me when i was at your age I thought it was the end of my world too when my first boyfriend and I broke up but its is not the end of the world. If it turns out she is actually not interested you, just move on, as hard as it may be, because there will be other girls, please believe me on this
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Apr 14 2005, 03:56 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
You're only 11. You should be studying, not getting girlfriends. Yeah, how do I do, right? I'm 12. When I was dating my ex, I got low grades in all periods because I focused on him too much. Sigh.
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Apr 14 2005, 04:25 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(mzkandi @ Apr 14 2005, 5:50 AM) Well your young and trust me when i was at your age I thought it was the end of my world too when my first boyfriend and I broke up but its is not the end of the world. If it turns out she is actually not interested you, just move on, as hard as it may be, because there will be other girls, please believe me on this  Agreed. You are pretty young to be dating anyways and your relationships should not be soo serious. You are eleven, give yourself a chance to grow up. |
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Apr 14 2005, 07:06 PM
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Who stole my pants Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,933 |
NOO PEOPEL IM 13 !!! i was 11 when i first got with her!! ahh now people wont give me good advice dam loll and jsut say im 11 lol
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Apr 14 2005, 07:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,678 |
dude pple say that 13 is young to date, but at mai school everyone is dating at age 13 and earlier.
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Apr 14 2005, 07:37 PM
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 `non;chalance Group: Member Posts: 700 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,113 |
the best thing that you gotta do is ask her yourself, just so you can get the right answer. and if she says that she is over you- then move on. there is NO reason to sit around, mope, and believe that its the end of the world because it's NOT. its never to late to get back on your feet. you're still very young, your time will come (:
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Apr 14 2005, 07:42 PM
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 Litt0 Mi55 T@rA! Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,734 |
wow....that sounds like a mix between my first and my past relationship....the last guy i went out with (brian) i still haven't gotten over him fully....we broke up sept. 1st....but you know what...i'm his best friend. he's my best friend. it's all i can ask for and i'm happy with that...it's hard to let go, but sometimes you gotta try...
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Apr 14 2005, 08:24 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If she doesn't like you....move on...they'll be others....you might think this isn't true because you haven't met this other special person yet. Give it time...
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Apr 14 2005, 08:38 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
13 is still young. You just need to move onto videogames or whatever 13 year old boys do. Stop worrying about girls
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Apr 14 2005, 08:46 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
mmm.. well dont be so gullible.
i mean jst cause someone says something, doesnt mean its true (: so theres still hope. & besides, even if she doesnt like you, there are still other ppl right? =] well i cant say " oh you`re still soo young at 13 " like everyone eles. when im only 13 too. i guess i can relate to you then, cause when ppl say im so young, i .. dont feel really young.. dont give up hope, but try not to put your hopes too high either (; |
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Apr 14 2005, 09:38 PM
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WELL I THINK YOU SHOULD BE OPEN TO HER.. TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL !
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Apr 15 2005, 12:45 AM
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Who stole my pants Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,933 |
well it turns out she doesnt like me sigh
 i guess i should just laugh it off
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Apr 15 2005, 01:11 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
Even though you are young, it still doesn't hinder the fact that you care for someone. I don't understand why people think that just because you are young that you are incapable of loving someone. Some people could reach the age of 40 and still not understand the true meaning of love as someone who is as young as 13. It's not really about the age.
ok that said and done...I know that you care about her, and you just posted a few hours ago that it turns out that she doesn't like you. It's ok to feel hurt about it. You don't have to "laugh it off" like you said. All i can say is TRY to move on. Even though it's hard. I think she really does care about you as a friend, and she respects ur opinion, and i know you don't want to lose that. So just focus on being her friend right now and who knows what will happen in the future |
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Apr 15 2005, 11:52 AM
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honestly at your age, school and education should be your top priority. when you are 30 and tossing burger at McDanolds, are you going to think of this girl...or how you wasted ur time by slacking off school and thinking about her?
i think the choice is clear. stay in school, and be good, kid -cf |
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Apr 15 2005, 04:07 PM
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Who stole my pants Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,933 |
Its not like thinking about her is making my grades slip or somthing but iknow what your saying it just kkinda seemed like "flipping burgers" lol i doubt thats gonna happen just over this. but tahnks i guess
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