I wanna get this out of my head.

In my opinion, race does matter. I'm not gonna explain why but the area I live in and the enviroment I grew up in, race matters.

No, and If you said yes, you`re racist

I dont think it really matters, as long as you love them.

It doesn't matter, only if they're human. Penguins, no. Animals, no. Bums, erm, no.

My parents are like yours. They freaked out when I told them I was dating someone Mexican. I tried to talk to them but they still flipped out. So, I made a decision to not tell my parents if I go out with someone. Trust me, it was hard, with all the flowers and gifts in your room while you have to keep the relationship a secret to your parents, it was a pain in the butt.

i don't think it matters, but i am black and would probably never date a black guy and my parents totally understand that... well i'm really white and asian at heart so... i just don't like black guys they turn me off really fast...

if that answers your question

I oficially hate 5 people.


I'm mixed. MIXED. So anyone who has a problem with love out of your race has a problem with me. DAMN YOU. I'm really trying to stay calm without freaking out, but I hate stupid people. I can love anyone. I mean, since I'm mixed, does that mean if I cant love another race, I have to go out and find someone who is half black, half chinse/italian? I'd probably never find love! Does that mean I'm supposed to be alone forever because a chinese person would date the chinese part of me, but since I'm also italian and black, they cant? I mean, love should have no colors you douche bags!! People shouldnt be looking on the outside for love, anyway. And I mean, your parents arent going to be watching you forever, so if they did keep you from dating a race, they couldnt do it once you moved out. Thats so FREAKING IGNORANT!!! ugh. I mean really you guys...I love everyone from every race. Unless a person does something personally offensive to me, I dont dislike anyone. And even if say, a white person was racist to me, I wont turn around and never like a white person. My boyfriend is white, I love him very much, and have loved him for yearsnow. But the first person to ever be racist against me was a littel white boy. Oh, and not to mention that since my mom is adopted, my whole family is a different race then her. They are all german, and she is italian and chinese. So even tho they are a different race form me and my mom, I love them. And love is love no matter if its romantically or family. Why are people so focused on the outside?!?! Love is timeless, colorless...I mean. No one can control it, no one should even try. Sure, if you never talk to a white person, you'll never fall in love with one. but thats your own damn loss. Grow up and stop being so closed minded. Its people like that that are holding the world back. And the moron tlaking about getting hanged from a tree...please get out of the 50's. If you get hung from a tree, that f*cker is going to jail. Period. So I doubt theres anything to worry about. And I live in the south too ya know.

Srry to have offended you but did you not read where I said I was joking. Besides Im one of the 50+ people who said race is not a issue.

no. love is colorblind.

love is from the heart, not from the eyes.

if the two people love eachother, no matter how they look, then it is a beautiful thing.

To be honest, its a yes and no question
If you can connect on that level where the 2 of you love each other, no it's a not a problem.
Love is colorblind, but you have to look at the facts
Races are unique for their culture, and in some cases religion, and that can cause major damage to the relationship if the 2 ppl are not ready for it
I'm in an inter-racial relationship with a latino man, and sometimes its hard because our cultures are so different, yeah he's half white so he's also familiar with the ways whites handle things (that may be taken completely out of context, but I mean like how white culture is, even tho I don't really act white at all), but the fact of the matter is we love each other and those differences make our relationship interesting and we can handle it.
So yes race can be a factor in dating someone, but your heart is colorblind, and race is not a factor in love.

This post has been edited by kryzcoak47luv666: Apr 14 2005, 10:01 PM

I don't think it matters... sadly my parents do... and so many other kids think so too.

Nah...if you love them thats what counts.

your parents would most likely disagree because they don't want Black babies. hehe.

If you love someone from a different race, it shouldnt matter...........you'd hate me for saying "BUT!" but.........BUT, you have to consider what you are putting urself through. Remember, people from different race, although we are all humans, have differnt view in life. Lets see, differnet race, could have different religion, differnt views in life, different ways of living. So do you see what you will go through? You both would have differnt ideas about everything because you live through what YOUR race have taught you. Some relationshps wouldnt work because people argue. Some do work, because love is much too strong that they can adjust to their belief. Although, it is sometimes a great education to learn the opposite race. But even though things work out fine btwn you two, parents would always opose to it nonetheless.

...sorry. I was on a rant..I kinda cant be stopped. Notice I didnt go back and fix my typos either. With me its somewhat of a sensitive subject...I'm calm now. I'm chill. Sorry for blowin my top, you are cool peoples.

^ Like I said I apologize to you if I offended you and any other person I have offended with that Joke. And theres no need to apologize I shouldn't have made a joke like that.

mai parents want me to marry a viet guy when u m older and date viet guys. but i don't see why i have to force maiself into trying to find a viet guy to love. i'll probably marry someone who i luv no matter the race

race doesnt matter at all. i find it so cute when i see two different races dating or married (:

LIKE MY FRIEND SAYS

"HELL TO THE F*CK TO THE NO!'' LOL

Race doesn't matter to me; but it matters a lot to my parents. They won't attend my wedding if I don't marry a man of the same race. So my solution is not to get married! Hahaha. Plus, I shouldn't be worrying about marriage anyway.

Its sad if u think it matters, we're all human, we all got feelings, u gotta see past the appearence, its just so darn IGNORANT. You cant help who you fall in love with.


Its a shame, some people in our society still strongly disagree in interracial couples because of 'what theyve been brought up and taught to believe' or whatever that bull is.

NO IT DOESNT MATTER AT ALL
AND IF YOU DISAGREE WITH ME I REALLY DONT LIKE YOU

i get teased for this alot.
i've never had a white boyfriend (i'm white)
and i've only kissed 2 white people.

i have nothing against white people obviously, since i am one
but it just doesn't work out with them hahahaa..

No race totally doesnt matter to me. I've dated and have had crushes on guys of all races. That goes for religion too. I think having different cultures is what makes a relationship even more interesting. After all they do say opposites attrached

no i dont think that matters

it dioesn't matter if you love that perosn... its also about personal desires... i'd rather have someone who is the same racial group as me...

Race really shouldn't matter. It's sad that it does though.