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 Apr 8 2005, 06:29 PM
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s w e e t e s t  Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149  |
alright .this might be long. but i want to put it to a summary.
------------------------------- alright. so dis guy before he told me that he likes me. and also my other friend. but i dont want to make a move and say like ' arent u gonna ask me out... ? ' so i just waited for about like 2 months. between those 2 months. we always hang out wit each other and talk and being stupid. =) but den later on i started realizing that he actually talks to my friend more than talkin to me. i may sound like im selfish of my best friend or jealous of dem 'both'. but yeah. okay. so i told my best friend who my crush always talk to. and she was like , .... ( silence ) ... i told my other friend and she had noticed it too. i had been like depressed over dat situation and over that problem. and when he tried to talk to me, i walked away and ignored him. so he went over to my best friend that he always talk to and ask her why is everyone mad at him and espicaly me. my friend asked him if he still liked me.. and it took like 20 seconds for him to answer. so i was like.. ok if it took like 20 seconds to answer . it might be that because he doesnt want to dissappoint me/ my friend. i actually thinked that before he actually told me that he liked me, we're like tight friends. but i guessed that i was wrong. =/ **sigh** should i say that i was wrong and im sorry? should i explain it to him ? should i try to go out with him? i may be too young for relationships right now.. but im ready ! is there any chance that some guys may be shy around their crush and doesn't really talk to them?? |
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Apr 8 2005, 06:34 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
i think that jealousy is a wasted emotion. just ask him if he likes you or not if you are going to be all pissed off whenever you think he doesn't like you back.
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Apr 8 2005, 08:15 PM
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should i say that i was wrong and im sorry? No, not really. Your reaction was pretty normal since he IS sort of playing you both and you got the shit end of it.
should i explain it to him ? Yes, definitely. should i try to go out with him? It's really up to you. Do you want to go out with someone knowing they like someone else? Maybe like them better? is there any chance that some guys may be shy around their crush and doesn't really talk to them?? Yes. Some dudes are like that. Although, it seemse that this particular dude doesn't have that problem. It's just that, maybe he likes talking to your friend better. - Solipsist |
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Apr 8 2005, 08:27 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
Well, i dont think you should say sorry. Its his fault for being a playa and try to hook up with 2 girls at once. If you want to explain it to him, go ahead. Tell him why you've been ignoring him and yadidiyadiaya. Dont go out with him if he likes two girls. Theres a chance he might cheat.
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Apr 8 2005, 10:44 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Should i say that i was wrong and im sorry?
No...you aren't wrong....I don't think you need to say sorry..he says he likes both of you but he talks to the other one more... Should i explain it to him ? Yes...he might be too slow to get the idea... Should i try to go out with him? I don't think that it would be a good idea because he sounds like a player....besides..he likes someone else too.. Is there any chance that some guys may be shy around their crush and doesn't really talk to them?? There are some guys that are shy around their crush...but in this case...I don't think he is one of the few guys that are shy around their crush... |
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Apr 8 2005, 11:08 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
first of all if it took him 20 seconds to answer it just means he needs to see for sure this isnt a game so you have to be sure so it doesnt matter if it takes him long time to answer i say just try it with him
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Apr 9 2005, 03:15 AM
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 woah im asian Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,691 |
heh i kno how you feel..i'm kinda in the same thing...but wut YOU gota do is just tell him how you feel...and ok he might feel bad cuz he likes your best friend but don't let that mess up your friendship...if he "likes" you he just might be scared to show it...so just talk to him...but in person...don't do it over the phone or something like that..but yeah thats it really
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Apr 9 2005, 05:48 AM
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 evelyn* <3 Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,438 |
QUOTE(xxaznxgurlxx @ Apr 9 2005, 7:29 AM) should i say that i was wrong and im sorry? should i explain it to him ? should i try to go out with him? i may be too young for relationships right now.. but im ready ! is there any chance that some guys may be shy around their crush and doesn't really talk to them??  yea explain the whole thing and say that ure sorry. if he rly still likes you then try to go out wif him. and yes theres a chance that guys may be shy around their crush and dont rly like to talk to them. theres a chance that he likes you more than ure frd cuz he talks to ure frd more and to you less. but its only a chance. goodluck* |
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Apr 9 2005, 07:43 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(xxaznxgurlxx @ Apr 8 2005, 6:29 PM) should i say that i was wrong and im sorry? no don't say sorry, you didn't do anything wrong, what you felt was perfectly normal, he was the one that played you. QUOTE should i explain it to him ? well if you want to, but i think you should to clear things up QUOTE should i try to go out with him? no don't, know that he might cheat on you if you go out with him since he likes someone else. QUOTE is there any chance that some guys may be shy around their crush and doesn't really talk to them?? yeah there might be guys like that but i don't think that guy is one of them |
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Apr 9 2005, 10:05 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
jealousy is really hard to understand sometimes. after i introduced one of my best guy friends to one of my close friends, he started to talk to her instead of me. even though he still talked to me alot more than her, i still got annoyed a little. anyways... you should explain to him what happened.
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Apr 10 2005, 12:22 AM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
u should not b sorry or think that u were wrong n yes u should explain n no dont try to go out with him n he's not the shy type it looks like. but...u know...watever u want.
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Apr 10 2005, 11:27 AM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
but now i sorta regret for getting mad at him. because to me, it doesnt seem like hes a player type. but now when hes like going and talkin to my other friend, it seems so much like it. =/ i don't know. im confused. =/
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