so my friend asked me that one day

for me it would be a very difficult choice... if someone knew.. it would be such an embarassment to my family especially how alll my relatives are like crazy compettitng their kids to be the best... then it would be hard for a 16 yr old to keep her baby and go to school and do great in it. cant have an aboriton because we're catholic and it would suck... adoption would still mean carrying it for 9 months and then later give her/him away

what would u guys do

Hmm.. adoption.. -__-;;

indeed. yes I would put it up for adoption.
never abortion. thats just wrong.

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it is too alive...read this:

Conception: The father's sperm penetrates mother's egg cell. Genetic instructions from both parents interact to begin a new and unique individual - no bigger than a grain of sugar.

1st day: The first cell divides into two, the two into four, and so on.

5-9 days: The new individual burrows into the wall of the womb.

14 days: Mother's menstrual period is suppressed by a hormone produced by her child.

18 days: Heart is forming. Soon eyes start to develop.

20 days: Foundations of brain, spinal cord and nervous system are laid.

24 days: Heart begins to beat.

28 days: Muscles are developing along the future spine. Arms and legs are budding.

30 days: Child has grown 10,000 times to 6-7 mm (1/4") long. Brain has human proportions. Blood flows in veins (but stays separate from mother's blood).

35 days: Pituitary gland in brain is forming. Mouth, ears and nose are taking shape.

40 days: Heart's energy output is 20percent of adult's.

42 days: Skeleton is formed. Brain coordinates movement of muscles and organs. Reflex responses have begun. Penis is forming in boys. (Mother misses second period.)

43 days: Brain waves can be recorded.

45 days: Spontaneous movements have begun. Buds of milk teeth have appeared.

7 weeks: Lips are sensitive to touch. Ears may resemble family pattern.

8 weeks: Child is well proportioned. Now a small scale baby, 3cm (1 1/8") and weighing a gram (1/30th oz.) Every organ is present. Heart beats sturdily. Stomach produces digestive juices. Liver makes blood cells. Kidneys begin to function. Taste buds are forming.

8 1/2 weeks: Fingerprints are being engraved. Eyelids and palms of hands are sensitive to touch.

9 weeks: Child will bend fingers around an object placed in the palm. Thumb sucking occurs. Fingernails are now forming.

10 weeks: Body is sensitive to touch. Child squints, swallows, puckers up brow and frowns.

11 weeks: Baby urinates, makes complex facial expressions - even smiles.

12 weeks: Vigorous activity shows distinct individuality. Child can kick, turn feet, curl and fan toes, make a fist, move thumbs, bend wrists, turn head, open mouth and press lips tightly together. Breathing is practiced.

13 weeks: Face is prettier, facial expressions resembling parents'. Movements are graceful, reflexes vigorous. Vocal chords are formed (but without air baby cannot cry). Sex organs are apparent.

4 months: Child can grasp with hands, swim and turn somersaults.

4-5 months: Mother first feels baby's movements.

5 months: Sleeping habits appear, but a slammed door will provoke activity. Child responds to sounds in frequencies too high or low for adults to hear.

6 months: Fine hair grows on eye brows & head. Eye-lash fringe appears. Weight is about 640g (22 oz.), height 23 cm (9"). Babies born at this age have survived.

7 months: Eye teeth are present. Eyelids open and close, eyes look around. Hands grip strongly. Mother's voice is heard and recognized.

8 months: Weight increases by 1 kg. (over 2 lbs.) and baby's quarters get cramped.

9 months: Child triggers labor and birth occurs, usually 255-275 days after conception. Of 45 generations of cell divisions before adulthood, 41 have taken place. Four more will come during the rest of childhood and adolescence.

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I'm pretty sure I would choose Adoption.

I wouldn't let the guy rape me. I practice these things, odd, but I didn't take tae kwon do so some guys can lure me in and rape me. I would f---ing kick his ass.

i dont know what i would actually do if it happened to me. Thinking about it I would keep it. I can't kill anything. With school and everything I dont know though

Stab myself! Whee!

I could never have an abortion-i think it's wrong maybe i would put it up for adoption tho..idk ive never been in the situation

i would never kill or give up my child no matter who the father was.

Ive never understood the logic of "i know Id get too attached to give it up, so Ill abort it." If you love him or her, you will take care of him/her or give him/her to someone who will.

Personally, if I were raped I wouldnt even take the morning after pill because I think its wrong. Therefore, I would never even consider abortion.

abortion..... i know a lotta ppl are against it, but i'm always afraid of like dying during child birth or something & the child would alwys remind me of my rape xperience..... i couldnt live w/ tht id probably feel really bad about killin it but my sry thts just how it is

I would keep the kid and explain that I loved then and let then know that there was a reason they were there even they were there by rape

I think abortion is really wrong so I would maybe put it up for adoption =[

Abortion.

I couldn't handle looking at the baby reminding me of that experience.
If I put it up for adoption, when it's old enough it will try to find her/him biological parents, so then I would have to face her/him once reminding me of the rape and then tell her/him that their biological father raped me.

gross
i chose to keep it

I chose adoption but i would rather give it to my parents to raise it as their own, at least i would be able to know him/her and i wouldnt mind them thinking i was a sister. I was close to choosing abortion as it would be hard for a girl who could be in her early teens coping with the stress and not being able to grow up the same as the other kids but i am totally against abortion. You would be reminded of the rape if you kept it.

Abortion has the top votes! How could u guys?!!! Thats killing a person! At least let it live in happiness somewhere else! Gosh...

abortion is too harsh on the baby that had never done anything to you ! well i would rather just let my parent take care of it or i would just rather adopt it to someone. hopefully it wont happen to me. =D

It's not fully developed to be considered a person.

Sure, let them live somewhere else being happy. You mean adoption right? I'm pretty sure they'll want to know who their biological parents are. That person finds the mum and all of a sudden the mum gets filled up with that bad memory and maybe sink into the way she was after the actual rape (since most cases they normally end up being depressed.) So yeah, I'm actually thinking of more about myself then the foetus.

i wud keep it...

i'd go for abortion...... da baby would remind me of da trauma if i keep it

Abortion. I don't want ANY reminder of 'the rapist' in this world. It would be a waste of space anyways. Having a rapist be your father must be a tough thing don't you think.

probably abortion

i realy dont know i'll have to get lots of help and advice from
parent or gardent but god forbid that happen to any one

keep it or put it up for adoption.

Same here
I couldn't keep the kid, it would hurt me to see him in its eyes, I couldn't live with that. the kid doesn't deserve knowing the father was a rapist, the child would feel like he was an accident and it would ruin their lives!