"immature teens", not all of them are |
 Apr 5 2005, 06:01 PM
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 Oh Goddamnit.  Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,884  |
I am very sick with people who are about 15 and above and think they can diss younger people because their older. Like the Most Heart Breaking moment topic, older people were dissing the 12 year old, you don't know him, he might have been heartbroken! Anyways, people always judge younger people as immature and stupid. Not all of them are (including me).
What are you opionions on this?? |
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Apr 5 2005, 07:18 PM
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Thank god Zimmerman isn't doing cheerleading this year. Someone would've broken a bone....
So, back to the topic. |
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Apr 5 2005, 07:35 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE(gotnoheart @ Apr 5 2005, 7:07 PM) Well, don't generalize. Not all 12 year olds I know are mature. You might be, but as you grow older, most people mature. It's just life.  agreed. 
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Apr 5 2005, 08:06 PM
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the age you are changes almost everything and older ppl know that b/c they have been there...they are just comparing themselves with the young ones
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Apr 5 2005, 09:07 PM
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 Take advantage of me. Group: Member Posts: 912 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,792 |
QUOTE(misskentucky @ Apr 5 2005, 6:01 PM) Like the Most Heart Breaking moment topic, older people were dissing the 12 year old, you don't know him, he might have been heartbroken! Anyways, people always judge younger people as immature and stupid. Not all of them are (including me). People said that mostly because no one really like Jason61992...he`s annoying and immature. |
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Apr 5 2005, 09:17 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
I personally think that most 12 year olds are immature, but not stupid. But, they do do stupid things.
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Apr 5 2005, 09:18 PM
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Well most people said those things in the most heartbreaking moment topic because honestly Jason's 12. He hasn't experienced barely anything in his life yet...it's like he's just starting out. Can someone at that age really be in love, really be heartbroken over rejection? Plus, he wasn't even exactly rejected. He just "heard it through the grapevine" really. And then he went and totally blew it out of proportion. He's also showed immaturity in previous posts.
Anyways, most older teens and adults think that younger teens to kids are immature because they are. Sure, they might be mature for their age, but I still don't think that they are really mature. Just more mature than the majority of the people at that age, that's all. Granted, I'm only 17 so what do I know, but it's like adults/parents say, they really do know more than you even if they didn't finish highschool or graduate college. Not knowing in the sense of book smarts but more of life smarts and that's why older people view those younger than them as immature no matter how mature they might actually be compared to others their age. Because they've experienced more, lived longer, seen more, etcetera and they remember how it was to be 12 and young and when compared to how they act now, to how others their age act now, they say those that are 12 are immature, because them themselves were immature. Ehhh..that doesn't make much sense but it does to me. Also, some people might say this because they have younger siblings who are immature; like I have a 13 year old sister and she is very immature and I have an 11 year old sister and she is too. Like Emmalie said, it's just how it is. Oh yeah and we aren't "dissing" them. To me, just by you saying that, it reveals that you are immature. |
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Apr 5 2005, 09:24 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Apr 5 2005, 5:11 PM) Some young kids are as immature as some older adults. Kids have their reason, adults however... don't. Not all adults think that all teens are immature. Many adults do think that MOST teens are immature, which is somewhat true. Sorry guys. ^ yea like she talks to me and she's 6 years older than me. *shrug* i don't care how mature the person is, people under 12..maybe even 13, are NOT ready to be dating people. you're supposed to just be getting out of, or maybe still in your "BOYS HAVE COOTIES!" phase. you should not be all up on some guy when you're freaking 11 years old. that's disgusting. sorry if you're 11 or something, but seriously..it sickens me when i see little kids acting like they're 20. and yea, juuuulia, i thought you were so much older. i don't really hear you talking about making out with guys though, so....i still love you. :P |
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Apr 5 2005, 09:28 PM
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hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Apr 5 2005, 8:24 PM) ^ yea like she talks to me and she's 6 years older than me. *shrug* i don't care how mature the person is, people under 12..maybe even 13, are NOT ready to be dating people. you're supposed to just be getting out of, or maybe still in your "BOYS HAVE COOTIES!" phase. you should not be all up on some guy when you're freaking 11 years old. that's disgusting. sorry if you're 11 or something, but seriously..it sickens me when i see little kids acting like they're 20. and yea, juuuulia, i thought you were so much older. i don't really hear you talking about making out with guys though, so....i still love you. :P Oh, I agree with you about the 11 year olds having relationships and such. It's really disgusting. I mean, you're 11. Calm down! I think I remember topics in either the girls locker or relationships about young girls asking about sex and boyfriends and dating. It's odd to me. |
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Apr 5 2005, 09:29 PM
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QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Apr 5 2005, 9:24 PM) ^ yea like she talks to me and she's 6 years older than me. *shrug* heh, wow. my sister is 6 years younger than me, and i cant come anywhere near having an intelligent conversation with her |
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Apr 5 2005, 10:02 PM
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QUOTE(tweeak @ Apr 5 2005, 7:53 PM) barnes and noble. i got called down to dinner and has to cut short my post, sorry there was this on girl at the music thingy next to me who looked to be about 12, but she had on low pants, and a blue mesh shirt over a tiny black one that very much did not cover her stomach. it was completely innappropriate and ridiculous then a couple of seats further down, there were these boys who also looked about 12 who were dressed up so be punk or rockers or whatever the hell, but anyway, they started shouting obnoxiously, 'hey man, look at the best sellers list. that is so LAME. i cant believe it' and then started going on about some perfectly awful and tacky rock groups that someone his age and apparent maturity should not be concerning himself with i think i was going to say.. something like.. girls around 12 are trying to wear 'sexy' clothing to attract boys. and they think they're mature that way [well, the girls in my school think so. they brag that they're mature just because they wore something that didn't cover their bra strap] so anyways.. yeah. they think they're mature like that but they're more like idiots trying to be half-naked. |
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Apr 5 2005, 10:02 PM
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 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 |
oh em gee, i'm gonna go make out with someone now. hawtnezz. i am so kewl. i m almohst 13 mahn, lemme make mah own decisionz.
 imma go buy sum miniskurtz tew, ya knoe, cus i lik tha boys xD omg my brah straps showing xD i m so mature now! |
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Apr 6 2005, 12:03 AM
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QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Apr 5 2005, 6:26 PM) i think my 12 year old self was an idiot. i would have locked him in a dark closet if i met him. same here with myself.  but really, look at what society has done to 12 year olds, they think dressing less and putting on more make-up turns on the guys. :/ |
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Apr 6 2005, 12:07 AM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
QUOTE(wonders79 @ Apr 5 2005, 11:03 PM) same here with myself. but really, look at what society has done to 12 year olds, they think dressing less and putting on more make-up turns on the guys. :/ well, it does turn on the guys. the 60 year old pedophils... |
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Apr 6 2005, 12:07 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
i think not all teens are immature..theres some that r really mature..
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Apr 6 2005, 12:10 AM
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All I am saying is that people should act their age. (its just my opinion, sorry
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Apr 6 2005, 12:13 AM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
QUOTE(touch my monkey @ Apr 5 2005, 9:24 PM) ^ yea like she talks to me and she's 6 years older than me. *shrug*  *twitch*... i will hunt you if people start calling me grandma... i will hunt you. JK... remember that one Princess124354657686 person in the debate forum? she called me grandma...anyway... QUOTE i don't care how mature the person is, people under 12..maybe even 13, are NOT ready to be dating people. you're supposed to just be getting out of, or maybe still in your "BOYS HAVE COOTIES!" phase. you should not be all up on some guy when you're freaking 11 years old. that's disgusting. If young teens are truly mature, they would know what they should and should not be acting like around guys. However, most of them don't. They just follow certain trends: dating at a young age, kissing, sleeping around. Yup, that's disgusting to me, too. QUOTE sorry if you're 11 or something, but seriously..it sickens me when i see little kids acting like they're 20. It sickens you? It makes me gag! Hell's bells, I'm 20 and those kids scare me, in the sense that I fear how I will have to keep a tight leash on my own kids in the future. |
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Apr 6 2005, 12:21 AM
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QUOTE(Emmaliev @ Apr 5 2005, 6:05 PM) But think about it , when your 12 your probaly like " well , all those eleven yr olds think they are so cool " Same thing when your 15 your like well all those 14 yr olds are so immature. StereoTypes like that are always going to happen. ^ True. I'm 21. I find many teens to be obnoxious, immature, rude... etc.. etc. But I was an "immature teen" before.. so it's all gravy. |
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Apr 6 2005, 01:21 AM
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like "stupid freshman".. i dont get it cuz they used to be freshmans once
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Apr 6 2005, 01:56 AM
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Well, it's just a way of life and there's nothing we can do about it. (:
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Apr 6 2005, 06:02 AM
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This has happened to me on more than one occasion, but never on Createblog.
xo, Pauline |
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Apr 6 2005, 06:08 AM
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I personally don't think all 12 yr olds r immature, and i dont compare them to 15 or 16 yr olds. To me anybody younger than me is "younger than me" not "immature". I'll call you immature only when you act immature.
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Apr 6 2005, 06:26 AM
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QUOTE(gotnoheart @ Apr 5 2005, 6:07 PM) Well, don't generalize. Not all 12 year olds I know are mature. You might be, but as you grow older, most people mature. It's just life. That's very true. QUOTE(xXgWenZilLaXx @ Apr 6 2005, 1:21 AM) like "stupid freshman".. i dont get it cuz they used to be freshmans once And people called them "stupid freshman" when they were freshman. It's a cycle. |
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Apr 6 2005, 06:30 AM
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i hate it when that happens....if they are so 'mature' then why the hell cant they see that only morons will judge based on age. as for myself i try not to judge until I actualy know the person, of course i am one of those people who more mature than most my age, so it really isnt so hard for me.
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Apr 6 2005, 07:05 AM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
QUOTE teachers didnt suck so badly, like squires (shudder) and zimmerman (hate. her.) *weeps with memory of mrs squires.* we had ISSUES. bitch. oh, on topic? whats that? lol yeah... i do think a lot of twelve year olds bring it on themselves... people tend to focus on the minority, who act like evolutionary throwbacks. as a rule i try to get to know someone based on personality... i gues it helps that high school and middle school aren't split here. you see a lot more of 12 yearolds from day to day, and some arent so bad. some REALLY are tho. |
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Apr 6 2005, 08:00 AM
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age is just a number~
but i think discussing the whole older ppl always feel as though they're more mature blah blah* is immature. |
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