Help CB What do I do, ?????????????????????? |
| *nightmare4taki* |
 Apr 5 2005, 04:38 PM
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Well I just found out this guy and I were cousins at a family reunion and we just happen to go to the same school. Anyway now he has started hanging around me and my crew. This is where the problem begins. He is annoying as hell. He talks about everybody and makes these annoying comments. My friends have even told me he agitates them all the time. He has made me mad on numerous occasions to the point where I just want to beat the sh*t out of him. I already vowed that I would not fight anymore since Ive already been in numerous throughout the years, but if he keeps pushing buttons my temper will get the best of me. Anyway me and my friends have tried to ditch him so many times but he keeps coming back. He just doesn't get the hints. We even all broke and ran from him one day when we saw him coming across the street but yet he still returns.
I don't really like hurting peoples feeling So my question is how do you get rid of this guy? |
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Apr 5 2005, 04:40 PM
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You don't like to hurt people but you ditch him on countless occasions? Okay then.
I doubt you can get rid of him. If he can't take hints as blunt as yours, he'll never get it. The only way you'll get rid of him is when you leave your school. I've been in that situation. |
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Apr 5 2005, 04:40 PM
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 One Love Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,958 |
^Lmao
 ....i remember we pulled that on some kid....whenever we saw him on the street, we all screamed "DITCH HIM"...and we all ran away...
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| *nightmare4taki* |
Apr 5 2005, 04:45 PM
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QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Apr 5 2005, 3:40 PM) You don't like to hurt people but you ditch him on countless occasions? Okay then. I doubt you can get rid of him. If he can't take hints as blunt as yours, he'll never get it. The only way you'll get rid of him is when you leave your school. I've been in that situation.  You dont understand my situation. He also cockblocks as well. Whenever he sees me talking to a girl personally he always jumps in. I give him hints like back off but I guess he just doesn't get it. QUOTE(Azn Kid from NY @ Apr 5 2005, 3:40 PM) ^Lmao ....i remember we pulled that on some kid....whenever we saw him on the street, we all screamed "DITCH HIM"...and we all ran away...LMAO |
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Apr 5 2005, 05:22 PM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
1) relationship forum
2) find a new hang out spot and not let him know the new location. however, let him know how you and your friends feel about the situation, but let him down gently. he is, after all, a relative. you wouldn't want your family to get on your case, nor do you want to regret hurting someone of your relation years later. Trust me, YOU DO NOT WANT TO HURT SOMEONE OF YOUR RELATION at a young age with such trivial reasons. |
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Apr 5 2005, 06:31 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
QUOTE(Azn Kid from NY @ Apr 5 2005, 1:40 PM) ^Lmao ....i remember we pulled that on some kid....whenever we saw him on the street, we all screamed "DITCH HIM"...and we all ran away...Lol. I remember we use to do that to this girl. Moving on.... Just like someone said already, I dont think you'll be able to get away from him. His your cousin so he probably thinks you guys are cool with each other. I think you should just tell him that his really annoying you. |
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Apr 5 2005, 07:00 PM
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 o.x Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,026 |
Uh, tell him.
"We really like you and all, but we are getting kinda annoyed. It would be a lot easier if you wouldn't 'cockblock' (haha i've never heard that term before!!). Also, (here list all the things that annoy you and your friends). I don't want to make you mad or sad or anything, but you need to hear this." Truth hurts. |
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Apr 5 2005, 07:20 PM
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let him know your annoyed with him. and it isnt just your opinons. maybe on some occasions hang out with him. (after all he is your cousin ) But he should go back to his old "crew" or make some new friends.
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Apr 5 2005, 07:31 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Tell him...instead of just giving him clues....
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Apr 5 2005, 08:45 PM
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I dotn' know what to do about yer problem...just make it clear you don't want ot hang out with him I guess
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Apr 6 2005, 11:06 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(Shattered_Hope @ Apr 6 2005, 8:31 AM) Tell him...instead of just giving him clues.... ^ Agreed. Although it may seem harder than giving clues, it'll take less time for him to stop buggin ya. |
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Apr 7 2005, 01:35 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
1. Be stubborn to him.
2. Act like he doesnt even existed. 3. Hostile him a bit. 4. Argue at him. 5. BE careless. 6. BE ignorant. 7. BE blunt. it works for me .. he start hanging out my closes friend now ! gr .. |
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| *wind&fire* |
Apr 7 2005, 02:35 AM
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stright up and go "i dont think this is getting anywhere and my friends dont like you..is there another place you can go?"
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