How do you get over a crush??? |
 Mar 25 2005, 02:29 PM
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 Residential Crazy Child  Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897  |
The guy I like is kind of a flirt. And he's my friend and only likes me as a friend. I figure it wouldn't do any good to just get jealous everytime he flirts with a girl. I want to get over him, but how do you get over a crush? Is it possible? Has anyone ever felt like this before?
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Mar 25 2005, 07:27 PM
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 something more Group: Member Posts: 2,468 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,808 |
lol. I want to get over my crush.....badly. I can't, somehow, but then i am starting to not like him. heehee. In my heart, ill never get over him, but then when i think of him i think of someone else.
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Mar 26 2005, 02:32 AM
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 freakieee Group: Member Posts: 241 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,779 |
it's quite hard..
i take at least half a year to get over a crush....... perhaps making urself busy all da time is a good way....i dunno |
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Mar 26 2005, 04:13 AM
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 I wanna LALA!!! Group: Member Posts: 81 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,728 |
QUOTE maybe i am stupid but i honestly believe u never fully get over a serious crush. a part of it always stays with u. but to make it lessen i would find a new crush lol. yepp i agreee |
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Mar 26 2005, 04:31 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
this happens to everyone... you'll get over it eventually. just remind yourself that he's just a friend or w.e.
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Mar 26 2005, 04:18 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
you can't exactly get over someone just like that.. but it'll take time casue you know, you can't always control your feelings about someone. this happened to me before. like i had this big crush on someone, and i figured they didnt like me back.. so like i stopped. then i liked him again.. and again so far this is my 8th time liking him. pretty crazy but yeah. well just think about the negative things about him i guess. like imagine him picking his butt or his nose&sucking his own d**k. idk
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Mar 26 2005, 10:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,641 |
Ha im going thru the same thing except my crush likes someone else but the way he acts around me its like it LIKES ME 2!!so its really confusing and ive tried so hard to get over him and its like i cant every second hes on my mind and HES AT MY HOUSE EVERYDAY ALL DAY so its not that easy for me and i find it hard to start crushing on a nother person i dunno how u gurls do it but w/e.....Im confused myself and dunno wut to do lol i know this didnt help ya but i figured id tell ya ur not the only one
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| *lolita kitty* |
Mar 26 2005, 11:00 PM
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QUOTE(someflipguy @ Mar 25 2005, 2:31 PM) Get a new crush!  seriously =] |
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Mar 26 2005, 11:11 PM
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 live life to the fullest <3 Group: Member Posts: 97 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,474 |
think of the reasons why you liked this guy. make a list of bad and good things about him if one of them take over the other list it will come to your outcome of how easy it would be to get over that guy
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Mar 26 2005, 11:16 PM
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I don't think you ever get over a crush...I mean even when I have a boyfriend I still try hard to get my old crushes jealous...you kno?!?!..well I guess thats how life rolls..
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Mar 30 2005, 08:38 PM
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 David desrosiers rox* Group: Member Posts: 185 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,312 |
well... that happens to me a few months ago...
what i did is avoid being around him and find a new crush... and it worked for me. good luck. |
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| *salcha* |
Mar 30 2005, 10:16 PM
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dont stand around him.
dont look at him. dont talk to him. dont stare at him. dont think about him. ignore him. keep yourself occupied. get a new crush. think bad thoughts about him. think all the negetive parts about him. yeah, if those dont work.... ....you're hopless |
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Mar 30 2005, 10:21 PM
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 ♥ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,393 |
Yep. The best way to get over someone is to find someone new to crush on. Especially an older guy... with a car... on the Varsity Baseball team... wearing spandex shorts...
  Well, you get the idea, right? 
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Mar 30 2005, 10:26 PM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
Yeah. I go through the same routine everytime. .. I get over him eventually..
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Mar 30 2005, 10:52 PM
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 sunshiine Group: Member Posts: 1,080 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,360 |
it happens.. i felt it before... tee hee. you just either ignore it by thinking about something else.. or what everyone else is saying.. get a new crush =D
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Mar 30 2005, 10:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 323 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,565 |
you can't help who you like. you'll get over him eventually.
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Mar 31 2005, 09:29 PM
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 ...and so it is. Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,967 |
Basically, everyone has said what I wanted to say. Just try to occupy your mind with other things, and someday you'll wake up and you'll see him and those feelings will be gone.
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Mar 31 2005, 10:09 PM
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well i say you cant miss what yeah never had... move on and if u arent totally sure if he doesnt like you, flirt you said he flirts so flirt alil with him! he will become use to u flirtin so then... stop chasin him and wait a while, if he chases you back ... flirts and comes around u you know that he likes you because when you left him he thought you were important enough to go after
 hope i helped!
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Apr 3 2005, 02:11 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,873 |
QUOTE you can't exactly get over someone just like that.. but it'll take time casue you know, you can't always control your feelings about someone. this happened to me before. like i had this big crush on someone, and i figured they didnt like me back.. so like i stopped. then i liked him again.. and again so far this is my 8th time liking him. pretty crazy but yeah. well just think about the negative things about him i guess. like imagine him picking his butt or his nose&sucking his own d**k. idk tongue.gif wow... and ew LOL i saw my crush picking his nose... but that doesnt change anything... i still like him... its really hard to get over someone that you really like... sorry i dont think i helped... |
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| *mona lisa* |
Apr 3 2005, 02:48 PM
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i always develop a crush over another guy. haha
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Apr 3 2005, 02:50 PM
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 XOTY*06 :D Group: Member Posts: 2,635 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,747 |
it takes time, find a new one! :D
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Apr 4 2005, 04:50 PM
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i'm facing the same problem...
 there's someone i have liked for nearly a year and my friends told me he liked me a year ago. i still like him, but it doesn't seem like he likes me back anymore, if he ever did. and the problem is, no one knows i like him. and i want to get over him because he's moving away in a month and i'll never see him again. still, everytime i think of him and the fact i'll never see him again, i start crying.. i've tried forgetting him, i've tried getting a new crush, i've tried thinking about all the negative things about him, but nothing works. he seems so perfect. i don't know what to do. i guess you could give it time? that's what i'm doing. |
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Apr 4 2005, 05:22 PM
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 tHa siiNgLe LiiFe Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,926 |
yea i felt the same.. way like someone said you could get a new crush to get ur mind of him.. for me it was kinda hard to get over someone tho.. it takes time... once you make up your mind that you dont like him try not to think about him.. this happen towards the end of last yr.. but it was easier for me to forget cuz we were moving in the summer
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Apr 4 2005, 05:27 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
QUOTE(BlOnDiEcHiCk @ Mar 26 2005, 9:00 PM) seriously =] I dont know getting a new crush, is hard. For me, I know I don't have a chance with my crush that I have been loving for the last 3 years. And I never moved on. I act like I do have the chance when I don't really have the chance. So I just keep on loving that person. It's unstoppable. Well I'm just waiting for another guy to rescue me. Like someday my prince will come! hehe. |
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Apr 4 2005, 06:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 95,036 |
just think about how idiotic it is of him to nott be crushing on you.
orrrr ice cream 
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Apr 4 2005, 06:20 PM
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Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
i appreciate it....but i can't just ignore him...he's my friend...how would you feel if all of sudden one of your friends just stopped having to anything with you?????
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