do you think i just got myself into a big episode of drama by going out with a senior [my first boyfriend] who is basically my best friend? he is going to college next year and i said, one day you're going to jail. and he said why? and i said for breaking my heart. and he said when will i break your heart. and i said when you leave for college. and he said well i hope that day where i break your heart never comes. and i said, me neither.

has anyone had a boyfriend who is a senior [i'm a junior] and got their hearts ripped out because of college. i mean we hang out more than anyone i know, i just think college.. will i dont know, break us up. maybe i am overreacting?

I thought your boyfriend was a Senior Citizen! hehe!

Things happen for a reason if you were meant to be you guys will reunite!

no. my friend's dating a guy 3 years older than her. he just graduated last year and he's in 1st year college now. and they've been dating for like 2 years.

it all depends on the level of commitment, and what the other expects of the other. like if you expect him to visit everyday. that's probably not possible because he has school and stuff. so yea... but reasonable.

if ya know what i mean.

I have dated seniors my ex was one but were not going out anymore so I dont have to wait till he goes 2 college.

Well you're a junior...

that's only a year until u graduate...

but then again, it could break it up because he might be too busy with college and stuff, for u

it's okay. relationships are better when you get to see eachother outside of school.

He's only a grade above you, so I don't see how it's a big issue, even considering the fact of college.

well my friend's sister is currently a senior now, and her boyfriend's in college. they've been dating for a long time, ever since her boyfriend was still in highschool. The relationship's still continuing and such, and they're very happy. So i agree with the aboves, it just takes the commitment.

[FONT=Arial][SIZE=1][COLOR=blue]yeah i feel the same way because my boyfriends in 8th grade n i'm in 6th so yeah hes going to highschool nxt year and i won't see him but i'm gonnago to the same highschool together n college jus look forward to seein him again time is good cuz you guys'll miss each tother more n when u see him again you'll be like omg hi! n do a lot of stuff jus look forward to it

i don't think your relationship will be ruined when he goes to college. if he likes and cares about you a lot, he won't do stupid shit when he gets to college. dont start thinking negative about it, think positive. yeah, sometimes you cant always think positive but still, dont think that you two will break up just because of college.

hahahaha senior citizen

you know what? im going through something like that right now. i've been talking to this senior who i.. really wanna be with but he's gonna be leaving in two months. im not really sure if i should go out with him because of this. it's a guarantee that i'll be hurt some day down the line, purposely or not. even though i'm a junior and will be graduating soon, i dont even think we'll be in the same state....

Yeah, I'm a junior and my boyfriend's a senior. But if your relationship is a serious one, then you'll get through that one year. My boyfriend only applied to colleges in the state and city to be closer to me (!), so that's how we're going to deal. Just talk to him about colleges if you're really afraid about that. And besides, next year you can apply to the same college he's at.

this is not a problem...if u 2 really love each other!
nothing can seperate u 2!

LOL!

well it's highly unlikely that you would have married him anyway... i guess you can still keep a distant relationship (because he's going to college... busy with exams...) it depends how strong your bond is. hope it works out

o and i'm also going through something like this... my crush in in 9th (i'm in 8th) and he's going to high school next year... so i'm gonna miss him but then again i might see him when i move up to high school so lol maybe i'll look prettier haha jk but it'd be like the "old memories" situation you know?

If you two are hanging out as often as it's sounding like you two are a little distant and space can help the relationship. Through the experience and the stories I've been told; people tend to get tired, bored to be exact, with their significant other after spending too much time together.

People often forget that they once had a live of their own before that special someone came along. Just because they're here now doesn't mean you still can't.

If this doesn't work out, you'll live. In all reality high school relationships usually don't. College is the time where you really start to experience new things and meet new people. People often mistaken their high school relationships for the real thing and they are set on that. You have to keep in mind there are so much more growing that hasn't happened yet. Temptation that some aren't strong enough to deny.

AND, that suggestion of applying to the same college as him. I don't recommend that, simply because if things don't work out you'll be stuck at the college that wasn't really fit for you. Choosing a college should be a solo choice.

nth special to date a senior.
as long as u reali like him.

Well have you ever watched Laguna Beach?!?!...well girly I'm sorry but college always seperates people no matter what?!?!...it's either cheating or the distance...but if you love him alot then do whatever it takes...take it to the extreme?!?!... ...I love High Skool loves it's soOo cute!!!

I concur, it's either the distance or cheating that will break you apart.

Do you actually think he is going to remain faithful when there are tons of hawt chicks in college? No.

it not the end of the wrld. if you are really commited, it can still work.

Thats why I try not to date senior boys.

I don't know, I've never dated a girl older than me.

I also don't know because I'm still in 8th grade, and no one goes to college in 8th grade. Hm...

But I doubt it will ruin your relationship, unless he isn't as commited to you as you think he is.

my boyfriend just told me he is going to take a year off just to work instead of going to college so we could spend more time together and go to college at the same time. i wanted to cry because he was saying how he would never leave me and stuff. sweetness.

it hasn't happened to me but i know a couple thats gone through it. it just depends on the strength of the relationship.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

You make it seem as if you want him to feel guilty for graduating and going to college. It's not his fault. Either youc an deal with a long-distance relationship or end it.