my bf and me, my bf and me |
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 Mar 11 2005, 09:08 PM
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 ok my boyfriend and i hae been dating for 1 year 2 months and since like 3/4 months ago he started playin this game n he joined the team on the game and in this game u can use a head phone 2 talk...so wen he joined he still called me all the time n stuff then all the guys started making fun of him 4 having a g/f and always callin he and they told him he was wipped..since they started teasing him he has totally changed he always places him game he plays from the the minute he gets home till he goes 2 bed...his moods have change he gets mad reali easy now and he is always gettin mad at me and always turnign things so it looks like its my fault we use to hang out everyday after skool now we only hang out once a week and we use to talk on the phone all the time and be with each other on the weekends but now all he does is place him game he doesnt even bother showing his emotions anymore....i love him so0o0o much and i never wanna lose him but hes making me like im nothin and when i try to tell him he gets all mad and say im the 1 thats changed.. so wat do you think can you guys please let me no so i no wat 2 do and no y hes doing this please and thank you!!
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Mar 11 2005, 09:13 PM
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 xtears_of_angelx Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,139 |
what he wants right now is space..try to get along with ur friends and have fun until he is all right.just give him 4 what he asks..space...
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Mar 11 2005, 09:15 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
first of all, there's nothing wrong with you sweets, it's just him
he's growing up and turning into the man/immature adult he'll be. it's all on him if he lets people sway him on his relationship with you. he should'nt be ashamed for having a girlfriend, most of those people probably rag on him because they don't have one my boyfriend plays those card games  and i always accompany him, everyone knows him because he's good but they know him by face because of me...he's the only one who has a girlfriend at those places he goes toi'm sorry...but i don't think he can handle a girlfriend...you don't deserve this abuse from him. you've done nothing wrong...he has no right to go off on you because he's stressed... talk to him...have a real heart to heart, make him turn off the stupid game and truly listen...if that doesn't get through to him...get out...the longer you let this go on...the more the inevitable break up will hurt... good luck sweets 
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Mar 11 2005, 09:18 PM
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xtears_of_angelx Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,139 |
what she said...
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Mar 11 2005, 10:58 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 11 2005, 10:15 PM) first of all, there's nothing wrong with you sweets, it's just him he's growing up and turning into the man/immature adult he'll be. it's all on him if he lets people sway him on his relationship with you. he should'nt be ashamed for having a girlfriend, most of those people probably rag on him because they don't have one my boyfriend plays those card games and i always accompany him, everyone knows him because he's good but they know him by face because of me...he's the only one who has a girlfriend at those places he goes toi'm sorry...but i don't think he can handle a girlfriend...you don't deserve this abuse from him. you've done nothing wrong...he has no right to go off on you because he's stressed... talk to him...have a real heart to heart, make him turn off the stupid game and truly listen...if that doesn't get through to him...get out...the longer you let this go on...the more the inevitable break up will hurt... good luck sweets  you always give good advice =D |
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Mar 12 2005, 06:18 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
well....if he's ignoring you..then maybe you should try and make him listen at what you're saying..and if he doesn't then just leave him. Sometimes people change...and this time..it's him. And since he isn't the same as he was...the guy that you fell for...why should you stay with him? Find someone new...if he doesn't change his ways.
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Mar 12 2005, 06:50 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
loving someone who has changed b/c of some game? And if he truly loved you the way you loved him, he wouldn't be weird just b/c some guys teased him.
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Mar 13 2005, 01:52 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
then stop calling him everyday. GOSH. a lot of guys hate that. well mostly.
anyways, i dont think he loves you no more. he's changing his mood. he's embarrassed to be with you. |
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Mar 13 2005, 08:55 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(chii @ Mar 11 2005, 9:15 PM) first of all, there's nothing wrong with you sweets, it's just him he's growing up and turning into the man/immature adult he'll be. it's all on him if he lets people sway him on his relationship with you. he should'nt be ashamed for having a girlfriend, most of those people probably rag on him because they don't have one my boyfriend plays those card games and i always accompany him, everyone knows him because he's good but they know him by face because of me...he's the only one who has a girlfriend at those places he goes toi'm sorry...but i don't think he can handle a girlfriend...you don't deserve this abuse from him. you've done nothing wrong...he has no right to go off on you because he's stressed... talk to him...have a real heart to heart, make him turn off the stupid game and truly listen...if that doesn't get through to him...get out...the longer you let this go on...the more the inevitable break up will hurt... good luck sweets i agree. HitomiKansaki1120 your sig is abit too big |
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Mar 13 2005, 04:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,961 |
QUOTE(swe3ttemptasian @ Mar 12 2005, 7:50 PM) loving someone who has changed b/c of some game? And if he truly loved you the way you loved him, he wouldn't be weird just b/c some guys teased him. awwWwzZz that is soOo sad!!.. ..and need to get his necesities straight...juss ask him do you want a game to stimulate you your whole life or do you want someone to be there for you whose real...I used to have a boyfriend like that...he was more into his games than me!... 
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