i was at the tennis courts this morning...n this girl about 15 was down there with her friend who has a 2 week old baby and both their bfs...both the girls were dressed like complete sluts and would change clothes every few hours..no one even watched the kid...what if u have a child that grows up like that...slutty n doing drugs or getting pregnant...or just being one of the slutty "bad kids"...i think now im scared to have a kid cuz i dont want one like that

It has a lot to do with how you raise and discipline your child. But don't be afraid! As long as you let your child know what's acceptable, and she/he knows their limits, they should turn out fine, although they will have their rebellious stage. Girls like that shouldn't be allowed to have kids, but hopefully those kids will have some sense... poor baby.

You're stupid.
Read over what you wrote, dumbnut.

first off you can never predict how your child will turn out no matter how you have raised them. i belive good displine and good values that are instilled while they are growing up helps alot but you just never know. the whole part of life is making mistakes. i know people whos father and/or mother are preachers but they are the wildest kids i know....but even with that i dont judge...who am i or you to judge anyone....

Actually, I know a ton of preachers' kids who are absolutely wild because we (yeah, my dad is a preacher too) are always under pressure to be perfect. Other kids are allowed to make mistakes, but if a preacher's kid does something bad, everyone freaks. It actually gets on my nerves quite a lot.

How your kid turns out depends on how you raise them. If you teach your kids what's right and wrong, from an early age, they'll remember...

yea, its all about how you raise them, what you tell them when theyre young, what you do, what their life experiences are. And the futrure will proably be different, how kids grow up etc.

um, i dont think you should worry because you'll be a good mom, right ? good mom will have good kids because they teach their kids about stuff. The way parent rasie them and the type of surronding because you dont want bad influence go to ur kid's mind.

bad kids? you don't know their situation. and its all a matter on how you raze your kids. just because you have kids won't make you like them

my mom was 15 when she had me..she wasnt a slut..but she wasnt careful..i am not a druggee or a slut..so there you go..even tho all my moms friends were sluts and i grew up around them

I can imagine what happens to the kid later on in life.

personally, i think it's the "kid" themselves. i was born and raised in a pretty beat down neighborhood but i consider myself very well-grounded. i'm a straight A student in all Honors courses. we moved from that town into a pretty nice neighborhood and i'm still the same. i haven't changed at all, not that i know of.

i love my parents because they taught me well and were always there for me, they taught me all my morals and values and i respect them very much. it really depends on the way you look at things. some kids are easily influenced by who they hang out with too. i once had a friend who SEEM like she would never do anything bad. she was very good and everything but as soon as she started hanging out with this one group of people- she started to steal, sneak out at night, speak in a vulgar language, smoke, drink, and is now pregnant with her second child. she had her first child at the age of 15 and dropped out of school. went back to school for 3 months during her sophmore year and then left again. she is now 17 years old, working at Cici's Pizza.

wow.. .kids these days =P

It depends on how your raised. yeah, I have a cousin who is permiscious, and has 3 kids at 19, all of her kids, she doesn't take care of them. Thats the stereotype, also, I have a cousin who had her kid that young, and her child grew up caring, giving, and you wouldn't of known any different.

So yeah, you don't have to be a "slut" to have a child, and not all "sluts" get pregnant

You were at the TENNIS courts? And they were playing tennis? And they were changing every second? Changing where? Why?

wow hey my school has a group of kids that are 15 too like that. haha. well yea i agree with what most ppl say. you cant really predict how your kids gonna be like.

agreed. it just depends on the kids really...

depends on how u raise the kid. at that rate, poor kid's gonna die at a young age in a gang fight.

sad how youth is wasted.

it also depends on how you act, cause even though it doesnt seem like it (yes you'll probably say you dont act at all like your parents) but kids do a lot of imitation.

If you raise your child right with discipline and manners you dont have to worry about any of that stuff.

you have a point, but like what most poeple said, if you teach them right...and if you care for them right, they won't turn out as bad as you want them to be.

smoking, however, will be a problem.

o wow...that's very bad... how can you leave your kid like that?!?!?! that's so mean.. well at least the baby is with its mother? wait is it the girl's child or is she baby-sitting the baby? what if the baby got kidnapped...dang they are one irresponisible kids.

agreed...it depend on how u raise them and how u act...

oh well. what were the bad kids doing in a tennis court? theyre not thatttttt bad if they play tennis ;]
but yeah, it depends how you raise the child.

You should think about what you just wrote. Getting pregnant at a young age doesn't mean you're slutty. I was 13 when I had Geena.