Will I be single FOREVER!!, pathetic and perpetually single.. |
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 Mar 10 2005, 09:31 PM
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Ok, I'm turning 15 in a bit more than a week...I have NEVER had a boyfriend...not even a day long elementary school boyfriend..whats wrong with me, is it because I'm smart, is it because I'm quiet?
I feel so left out and that is not a good feeling.. I feel like I'm the only one, what do guys like...and why can't you like smart girls!! are we intimidating? I don't know why,  help me 
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Mar 10 2005, 09:41 PM
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 Ooh, Miranda. Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 105,609 |
don't worry! someday there will be a person who's going to appreciate your smartnes...=]
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Mar 10 2005, 09:41 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
Wait.....wait for the right person, it's better to have one Good perfect boyfriend than to have multiple crappy ones who are just for show
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Mar 10 2005, 09:44 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you just haven't met the right guy yet...
 don't worry....you'll meet that special someone someday. 
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Mar 10 2005, 09:46 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
aww sweetie. don't worry. i had only one boyfriend just for a day; but he doesn't count.. becuase it's not really like anything..
Your guy will come. Just be patient 
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Mar 10 2005, 09:46 PM
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Tu es laid. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,675 |
well have u heard of the phrase "there is always that one person out there for you" well thats what you should referr to. Dont worry you will bump into a boy that likes you for the way u are and for your smartness... and its nott hat your smart maybe that your too quiet or shy??
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Mar 10 2005, 09:47 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
just wait. don't rush into things. its okay hun.
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Mar 10 2005, 09:48 PM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
ill go out with you!
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Mar 10 2005, 10:11 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
dont worry every body ends up with somebody and you look pretty so thats not a dount =D
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Mar 10 2005, 10:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i am just like you the smart and quiet....except i am turning 14
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Mar 10 2005, 10:14 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you'll always find someone when you're not looking for one...
that's always happened to me...usually, actually in all cases, i was looking at one guy but got another guy 
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Mar 10 2005, 10:17 PM
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 *~XoXo~* Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,460 |
dont worry about it, i kno some ppl who haven't had boyfriends until they were in in college(kinda pathetic when your that old but anyways..) your not alone in the world.
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Mar 10 2005, 11:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,624 |
Don't worry about it! Just wait and be patient. Someone will come to you. There are a lot of people out there that are probably older than you and haven't had a bf yet.
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Mar 10 2005, 11:20 PM
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 Holla if ya hate me Group: Member Posts: 2,386 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 80,819 |
With an attitude like that, you might be
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Mar 10 2005, 11:42 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Don't worry, the right guy will come along. I didn't get my first boyfriend until I was 16, so there's nothing to worry about.
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Mar 10 2005, 11:57 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(The 1 and only JJ @ Mar 10 2005, 4:48 PM) ill go out with you!  lol.. wait for the right guy..dont rush things...there is always a guy in the world waiting for u... |
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Mar 10 2005, 11:59 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
some people start off earlier than others, it doesnt mean they are ahead of u. So what if ur 15 and u dont have a boyfriend yet. Some of my friends still dont have gf's yet haha, its sad if u think about it, but its just not that important to them right now. 15 is nothing to worry about okay?
Just enjoy life while u can, try not to make ur life about boys yet haha...the opposite sex carry alot of drama and problems with em =] |
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Mar 11 2005, 12:04 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
Ok.. 95% of my friends have no gfs.. only I and 1 or 2 friends of mine do.. so.. im almost 15.. so yeah... no need to stress out
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Mar 11 2005, 12:46 AM
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aw it might be that your in the wrong place maybe.
but just you wait til you meet that first guy. it was a huge distraction to my school studies. watchout. |
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Mar 11 2005, 12:51 AM
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gigi =p Group: Member Posts: 3,679 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,206 |
Well...I've never had a boyfriend either. It doesn't really bother me, you should just do what comes naturally. For now, just worry about school, friends and family. Guys shouldn't be your top priority.
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Mar 11 2005, 12:52 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,598 |
wait for the guy...but im here with ya...except that im a boy...so no gf yet...meh i dont care...as long as the ONE comes...haha...yea
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Mar 11 2005, 01:09 AM
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 Quand j'étais jeune... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 6,826 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,272 |
QUOTE(xBeBeKissezx @ Mar 10 2005, 10:17 PM) dont worry about it, i kno some ppl who haven't had boyfriends until they were in in college(kinda pathetic when your that old but anyways..) your not alone in the world. Oh beetlejuice... Why would it be pathetic? Child, pathetic is standardizing what age a girl should have a boyfriend. |
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Mar 11 2005, 01:46 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
Don't worry; don't rush into it. Me and my ex rushed into and needless to say, it didn't work out. It was huge distraction to my studies...and my grades plumetted. Trust me...the right one will come for you ^^
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Mar 11 2005, 02:50 AM
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don't worry...i know girls who're 17 and haven't had a boyfriend yet. there's no rush. i'm sure you'll find someone. and being smart is a good thing. just relax, things will be fine.
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Mar 11 2005, 08:27 AM
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 Je vous aime Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,078 |
I know exactly how you feel, I'm only 13 but I feel the same way you do.
And everyone keeps telling me that I just have to wait for a perfect guy to pop up, BUT I DONT WANNA WAIT! So I really don't have any advice for you.. sorry.
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