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| *jeanna* |
 Feb 28 2005, 10:37 AM
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last night at my house, i got my first kiss. it was wonderful.. i am still in heaven as we speak. he hasn't asked me out yet but i think it would be better if we were friends with benefits.. or do you think that is wrong to think? we are best friends by the way
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Feb 28 2005, 03:14 PM
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good for you...i don't think friends with benefits are good though, but you also don't want a relationship..that can affect everything
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Feb 28 2005, 03:49 PM
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fwb can be a bad idea. Since you two wouldn't be going out, he may feel that he has the freedom to hook up with other girls. If you start to get feelings for him, you may find yourself jealous. Then it can lead to problems.
But if you're not ready for a relationship, then I'd advise you not to make a commitment towards one. To play it safe, you two could always just stay friends. 
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Feb 28 2005, 03:53 PM
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 ...becasue I'm cool like that... Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,508 |
Congrats on your first kiss. glad you liked it. BUt it really depends on if you have feelings for him. B/c if yall are fwb and you start to get feelings for him b/c of what yall are doing and he decides to blow you off witch he shouldn't or gets a girl then he might stop things or you might get jealous or it could be the best thing in the world. You just have to decide the outcome of both and know that its worth what your getting into
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Feb 28 2005, 03:57 PM
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 have u lost ur mind? Group: Member Posts: 512 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,217 |
ehh stuff like dat isnt alwayz dat great... me bein a guy, i'd prefer doin shiet wit one person den movin on. a kiss is a kiss aint much of feelings in it realli... but u shud talk to him bout it..
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Feb 28 2005, 04:51 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Congrats with your first kiss.
 I don't think there's anything wrong with friends with benefits...but I dont think it's a good idea to be friends with benefits with a best friend...And the fact that if feelings on your part develope....he might not feel the same way...and then....not only are you losing a friend with benefits...you could end up losing a best friend too.
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Feb 28 2005, 06:41 PM
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 I'm with Stupid. Group: Member Posts: 410 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,973 |
Can't friends have some kisses ? HAHA
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Apr 28 2005, 04:18 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
thats great. i would go with the boyfriend and girlfriend. but if you wanna be friends with benefits then thats good
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Apr 28 2005, 05:46 PM
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friends with benifits...bah.
ur gona get attached, but if u wish stay that way. maybe it might be better so that way if things get bad, yall are still friends..? i guess |
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Apr 28 2005, 05:52 PM
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 atleast pretend to care? Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,176 |
u might start getting feelings for him.. =)
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Apr 28 2005, 06:06 PM
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nothing wrong with that. there are so many FTFs here
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Apr 28 2005, 06:13 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
hm.. u might have feelings for him .. and im like the same situation... he flirts with other grl ... i get jealous . and jealousy takes me into depression . >.<
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Apr 28 2005, 09:19 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Feb 28 2005, 3:49 PM) fwb can be a bad idea. Since you two wouldn't be going out, he may feel that he has the freedom to hook up with other girls. If you start to get feelings for him, you may find yourself jealous. Then it can lead to problems. But if you're not ready for a relationship, then I'd advise you not to make a commitment towards one. To play it safe, you two could always just stay friends.  well said |
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Apr 28 2005, 10:32 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
i dont think that's a good idea. it's easier to get hurt that way, in my opinion. you're letting him go around and kiss anyone. i dont know how to explain it, but i just dont think its a good idea.
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Apr 28 2005, 10:49 PM
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QUOTE i dont think that's a good idea. it's easier to get hurt that way, in my opinion. you're letting him go around and kiss anyone. i dont know how to explain it, but i just dont think its a good idea. i completely agree with her answer. i also think it`s not a good idea. |
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Apr 29 2005, 11:53 AM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
kiss on the cheek the lips or what? why did he even kiss you in the first place?
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Apr 29 2005, 12:28 PM
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I don'tthink being friends with benefits is a good idea. Oneof you is going to end up getting hurt. Maybe you should try talking to him about it ..like if he wants something more or how does he feel about you...
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Apr 29 2005, 01:25 PM
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 weird Sarah. yes,me... Group: Member Posts: 714 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,023 |
depends on what's the relationship...
if he doesn't love u, that isn't a good idea. |
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Apr 29 2005, 02:14 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I hate friends with benefits and crap. Someone always gets hurt.
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Apr 29 2005, 02:41 PM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
QUOTE(jeanna @ Feb 28 2005, 9:37 AM) last night at my house, i got my first kiss. it was wonderful.. i am still in heaven as we speak. he hasn't asked me out yet but i think it would be better if we were friends with benefits.. or do you think that is wrong to think? we are best friends by the way Aww..I would be friends with benefits, bc going out could ruin that, you kno? |
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Apr 29 2005, 03:37 PM
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QUOTE(jeanna @ Feb 28 2005, 10:37 AM) last night at my house, i got my first kiss. it was wonderful.. i am still in heaven as we speak. he hasn't asked me out yet but i think it would be better if we were friends with benefits.. or do you think that is wrong to think? we are best friends by the way no that is DEFFINTILY not wrong to think. because i got with my best friend and then we kissed and it was great. we were friends with benefits for many months (ohhmmygoodd such a great kisser - i miss it so much) but then some sh*t happend and he lied to me. i'm not saying thats gonna happen to you LOL but it isn't wrong to be friends with benefits. GO FOR IT |
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Jun 25 2005, 04:07 PM
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friends with benefits...not a good idea. it neve works. at some point one of you will find someone special and the other one will not know what to do. then comes conflict. if your bestfriends now, and you haven't been doing anything until now, i think you can control yourself enough. good luck :)
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Jun 27 2005, 12:50 PM
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for3ver y0urs Group: Member Posts: 203 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,162 |
that sucks..
 i think you should either hook up or just stay friends.. like everyone else's said friends with benefits might lead to problems.. well would you rather stay best friends with this guy and take your chances? |
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Jun 27 2005, 01:38 PM
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 The Eurasian Concert Master Group: Member Posts: 484 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,826 |
Aww I feel ya, congrats, that's always special if it's done naturally and not in a stupid truth or dare. I guess that's ok, it's really your choice, but if you want to be friend's with benefits, you can't get too attached and if he wants to move on with another girl to go out with, you can't really stop him. But maybe if you get to know him better and decide to go out with him later, that's fine.
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Jun 27 2005, 03:12 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
you really need to talk with him
fwb isn't always the best but it could have been like just because of the moment |
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