so there's this guy, (another pathetic story) |
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 May 24 2005, 07:25 AM
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so there's this guy and i only get to see him at church. i really like him and i think he likes me coz whenever he looks at me and i catch him, he turns away. I really wanna go out with this guy but then im dead shy to ask him out. and then sometimes he doesnt even show up at church...
 oh yea and his little sister (who i think is 8) scares the damn hell out of me. she like STARES at me the WHOLE bloody hour. i wish i could just jam my fingers into her eyes... Anybody got any ideas on how i could get him to ask me out?
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May 24 2005, 07:29 AM
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hmm..church you say...go to a church function i guess. like those car wash things or even concerts so it's not really like a date. ask him out first and then see if he'll ask you out for a second "date". that's what i would do.
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May 24 2005, 07:31 AM
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c the thing is, we are both with our families and im so shy as soon as i see him i like faint so just saying hi would make me drool...
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May 24 2005, 07:36 AM
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i have a similar case as you!!!!
i know my fd who is in the same department in University likes me and i also love him... in the first week of being fds wiv him, we already have feelings towards each other. however, today is 3 months after knowing him! still having the same situation. yesterday is his birthday, he invited me to his old fds' party! and he has chatted wiv me for so long... however, he is too shy or passive to do any action!!! and we two have never gone out togather@@ wt can i do? wt should i do to make him take action? i MUST not be the one to say I LOVE U...coz i think guy will look down me.... but...WT CAN I DO??? |
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May 24 2005, 07:37 AM
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Lights Are Blinding My Eyes Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,218 |
Proclaim your love for him online as I am doing it to you right now. God I'm such a sleazeball.
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May 24 2005, 07:39 AM
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yea but i've never even TALKED to the guy...he only winked at me ^^ and fell over while watching me which was kinda funny acctually...
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May 24 2005, 07:41 AM
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Lights Are Blinding My Eyes Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 142,218 |
I'd fall over if I was trying to wink at a hot girl as well. Girls just don't appreciate how hard it is to perve, let alone wink while perving, while walking.
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May 24 2005, 07:43 PM
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Try like playing with his sister, and then just go like: OMG you're sister is so cute How hold is she? SHE IS SOO ADORABLE! And what not.
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May 24 2005, 08:17 PM
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 ticktock. Group: Member Posts: 1,138 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,235 |
maybe get to know his friends? give him&his friends hints that you like him. a lot of times; friends get the person to ask that person out.
or you could just ask him to go somewhere with friends. |
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May 25 2005, 09:29 PM
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her sister is like 8 i think, she is fat, annoys me and pokes my butt.
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Jun 22 2005, 12:49 AM
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WTF!!! pokes your butt! ...... no coment to that! NE wayz you should just go up to him and say 'hey'. the rest of the convo should go easy from there on. also think of it like this....YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE!!!!!!!
 get over your insecurities! in the future the can be 2 outcomes, 1. you will say to yourself 'what if i had talked to him...' and be wondering for the rest of your life! or 2. he could be your devoted boyfriend, and perhaps way into the future your husband.long story short: TALK TO HIM!!!!!!!!! 
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Jun 22 2005, 06:26 AM
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he's not asking you out maybe because you guys haven't spoken to each other before, so try and be friends first then see what happens from there
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Jun 22 2005, 04:08 PM
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try to stir some sort of conversation up with him. And soon that little conversation would turn bigger and bigger. and let him know your pesonality and stuff.
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Jun 22 2005, 06:56 PM
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 memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
haha the thing with the lil sister cracket me up well anyways back to the subject.
well are you 2 at least firned you get well aqquainted [i think thats how you spell it] just talk to him slowly become one of his close friends. try to hang out with him everytime hes free [nto to much or he'll just get annoyed] then it all just depends on him |
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Jun 23 2005, 11:30 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
QUOTE(freakonaleash @ May 25 2005, 6:29 PM) her sister is like 8 i think, she is fat, annoys me and pokes my butt.  HAHAHA  lol srry...are your families friends? maybe have a get together or something. you and him can bond over video games while your parents talk or something. that always seems to work... lol |
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Jun 25 2005, 12:39 AM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
He totally likes you. Pick up the slack and go for it. Drop hints slowly, and then make your move.
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