i hate my mom, why? |
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 Apr 22 2005, 05:07 PM
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 I Made Ebonics  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430  |
i hate my f**king mom she has total control over me like she owns me or something or i'm like her lil pet that she could do whatever he wants with me.. she freakin abuses me and makes a promise and breaks them.. i ran away once but my friends f**king mom caught me at their house and called my parents damnit..I HATE HER SO f**king MUCH... she gets mad at every single little thing whenever i'm on the phone she always pick up the othetr one and says hang up shes busy i mean like wtf right? whats her problem i need freedom i'm not a little kid anymore i'm a teenager for christs sake and whenver i'm with my boyfriend harrison shes all like talking to me in chinese saying like lets go stop talking and shit i mean like f**k and my b days coming up in like 4 days and she won't even let me decide what i wanna do i mean its my birthday that days about me not you i mean like aren't i right? like i wouldn't tell my mom she can't go eat dinner on her birthday she has to go to the movies with me like i wouldn't do that i should be able to do what i wanna do and invite the people i wanna invite on my birthday
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Apr 22 2005, 05:09 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
I'm sorry about that
 Moved to Relationships. |
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Apr 22 2005, 05:10 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
i hope you have a kid who thinks the same about you.
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| *XLilAznGrl592X* |
Apr 22 2005, 05:12 PM
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aww
 im sorry about that my mom acts like she owns me to... she wont let me go anywhere not even 3 houses away 2 my friends house and she gets mad at me when i did nothing sometimes its not fair, i know... i guess our moms wont accept the fact that we arent in 1st grade anymore
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Apr 22 2005, 05:16 PM
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 +Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
mah mom used to be like that.. even tho your a teen.. dont mean that your grown up.. shes just protectingg you... how old are you btw? maybe if you tell me your age i can help you better...
------------------------ edit: WHOA!!! you were born in 1993?!?!.. that means your onlii 11-12 years old... O.O! honey sorrie to tell you.. your NOT a teen.. your still a childdd... and your mom does have a right to tell you wat to doo cus she dont want you to do the wrong thingg... your luckie your even allowed to have a boiifriend... |
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| *mzkandi* |
Apr 22 2005, 05:17 PM
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You are not grown so your mom does have the right to tell you what to do as long as your staying in her house. Do you pay any bills? Put food on the table? I didnt think so. And if she abuses (like physically, and i dont mean spankings) i am sorry to hear that, you tell someone about that.
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Apr 22 2005, 05:20 PM
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I Made Ebonics Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430 |
i'm the one who pays most of the bills
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| *mzkandi* |
Apr 22 2005, 05:23 PM
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QUOTE(ix3youx33 @ Apr 22 2005, 6:20 PM) i'm the one who pays most of the bills i'm the one who works  arent you 12 or 13..and if you pay so many "bills" as you claim, why dont you get your own place...buy your own car..??? |
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Apr 22 2005, 05:25 PM
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I Made Ebonics Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430 |
you know what you're replys are pointless i'm serious
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Apr 22 2005, 05:26 PM
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B-rex Group: Member Posts: 149 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,689 |
in your profile it says your born in 1993, a lil bit young to be paying bills, eh?
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| *mzkandi* |
Apr 22 2005, 05:27 PM
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QUOTE(ix3youx33 @ Apr 22 2005, 6:25 PM) you know what you're replys are pointless i'm serious i bet you are  anyways i am done here.
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Apr 22 2005, 05:28 PM
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B-rex Group: Member Posts: 149 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,689 |
well we cant really help you with a problem unless your telling the truth so...yeah im done too
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Apr 22 2005, 05:29 PM
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+Princess+ Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,131 |
QUOTE(ix3youx33 @ Apr 22 2005, 5:25 PM) you know what you're replys are pointless i'm serious you noe wat? your post is pointless, im serious... your just a kid who wants to grow up.. and a part of growing up is accepting the critism that ppls will give you... so dont f*cking biitch and moan about stupid stuff.. if your paying bills and your working and you hate your mom so much.. move the f*ck out.. god... dont be f*cking biitching at us just cus we're telling you the truth... thats how life is.. get over it |
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Apr 22 2005, 05:45 PM
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I Made Ebonics Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,430 |
i'm not bitching at you god you don't even know wat i just said i was talking to mzkandi
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Apr 22 2005, 06:23 PM
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oh my gosh I'm so sorry!
my mom's not controling at all, I love her, the only thing I dont' like about her is the way she won't go shoppign with me but what the heck, you can't ahve everything...she is like not controlling AT ALL  granted there's not much she can control me aobut cause I dont' even go to school and I dont' ahve a boyfreind or anything sooooooooo...ya...but she doesn't cotrol my bday! that jsut stupid!! and she doesn't care which freinds I visit or anything, although sometiems she incurages me to visit so and so because I ahvn't visted her for a long tiem or something, but when it comes down to it I'm the last decision maker that's how it should be...maybe you should rant to your mom like you did to us  tha tmight soften her heart a bit  ..maybe... EDIT umm, paying the bills? I doubt that. what job do you have?  13 is far too young to get a job paying enouhg to pay the bills...I mean you can do a newspaper route and stuff but I Serisuly doubt that'll give you enough money to pay the bills...so umm, where's this money coming from anyway?and how was mzkandi's reply useless? sounded like a good question to me...  anyway, don't worry, life always moves on, once oyu get a car and can drive than you'll be rid of your mom forever, think abotu ti form your mom's point of veiw, she's probably only tryign to do what's best for you..and by controling your life I guess that is what she thinks is best, she doens't think you are resposible enough to chose your actions yet, and at your age ti's true that some of us make mistakes, I'm not saying it's a good thing she's a control freak but you have allow for a little bit of guidence, after all, she IS your mother . cheer up little one  QUOTE(SuiE @ Apr 22 2005, 2:16 PM) WHOA!!! you were born in 1993?!?!.. that means your onlii 11-12 years old... O.O! honey sorrie to tell you.. your NOT a teen.. your still a childdd... and your mom does have a right to tell you wat to doo cus she dont want you to do the wrong thingg... your luckie your even allowed to have a boiifriend... I agree, if I had a boyfriend at that age my mom would freak 
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Apr 22 2005, 06:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,505 |
from reading the last posts i've learned your 11-13. i think that you shouldn't be in hurry to grow up. believe me when your do get more "freedom" you won't want it. you'll be wishing you were a kid again. you should try to see it from your mom's point view. she just wants the best for you and wants to keep you safe. about the birthday thing try to talk to her and see if you can reach a compromise about the birthday and other issues.
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Apr 22 2005, 07:08 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
tht sucks.. sit down and talk to her about it
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Apr 22 2005, 07:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 913 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,212 |
Hummm, hun, you are still a child and not adult.
Stop trying to be an adult. Stop trying to be someone older. Live your life a little. I mean, the real birthdays start when you are 14-18. But it seems your mom does care about you. I mean, if its getting on your nerves, talk to her not yell/scream at her. Those are my 2 cents. 
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Apr 22 2005, 07:49 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i've been through that stuff with my mom when i was 14-17, i know what it's like. my mother even told me she would strangle me if we didn't live in america, and stuff me somewhere, actually the other day she was sitting right next to me talking to her friend and she said she wouldn't give a sh*t if i was stuck on the street being a hooker, nor would she care if i gave birth. she said she would have been better off giving birth to a piece of roast pork instead of me because that would be more useful.
this stuff doesn't bother me anymore because you know what? she's my mom, there's a reason she does things and the crappy things she says to me doesn't mean anything either, we all say sh*tty things when we're pissed. your mother has a job she has to run around and take care of you and your siblings, she's been doing that for years, she can say that she hates you but that doesn't change the fact that she's still caring for you, she's putting food on the table and provides shelter for you. this will all pass, not everything can be hell me and my family still laugh together and etc. your mother is trying to look out for you, when you're 12, having a boyfriend can be dangerous she doesn't want you to get hurt. don't try this rebellion crap, it will make everything worse...all it proves is that you're still a kid. |
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Apr 22 2005, 08:12 PM
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 rwar (; Group: Member Posts: 590 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,308 |
QUOTE(SuiE @ Apr 22 2005, 2:16 PM) mah mom used to be like that.. even tho your a teen.. dont mean that your grown up.. shes just protectingg you... how old are you btw? maybe if you tell me your age i can help you better... ------------------------ edit: WHOA!!! you were born in 1993?!?!.. that means your onlii 11-12 years old... O.O! honey sorrie to tell you.. your NOT a teen.. your still a childdd... and your mom does have a right to tell you wat to doo cus she dont want you to do the wrong thingg... your luckie your even allowed to have a boiifriend... ^ ditto on the edited part also, even if you were a teen, your mom does own you until you`re EIGHTEEN. besides, you`re only 11-12 years old. and being able to have a boyfriend is beyond generous. im 13 and my mom tells me all the time: "no boyfriends till second year in college" you know how effing long that is? ehh anyways.. she has the right to tell you to do whatever she wants you to do. i.e. wash the dishes, do the laundry, sweep the floor, etc etc. she`s your guardian, she owns you. and for your birthday thing, for heavens sake, you`re supposed to spend your birthday with your family ! gawd, jst cause you`re a "teen" doesnt mean you shouldnt value your family anymore  QUOTE you know what you're replys are pointless i'm serious and that reply to mzcandi was pointless too. was that remark any help to resolve your situation? everyone on cb is jst trying to help you understand that you`re not even a teen and you need to realize it. |
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Apr 22 2005, 11:11 PM
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 Grrrrrrr Group: Member Posts: 801 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,696 |
sounds like one of my friends. She cant wait to move out.
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Apr 22 2005, 11:19 PM
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 high hopes for the cutter Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,714 |
QUOTE(ix3youx33 @ Apr 22 2005, 6:25 PM) you know what you're replys are pointless i'm serious to me her replies are honest. its something i would have asked your what 13? just because you pay a bill does not mean you can accept the real world. i read the first post you made and i was pissed off. you ran away... wow u ran away *sarcasim* you claim to be so grown up but u choose to do stupid childish things like that. you can mess up and be sent away to a home doing crap like that i know ive known ppl thats happend to. And they regreted ever runing away time after time. i have so much to say about this but i dont know where to begin. My mother was strict to a certain point even after i stoped living with her and it only showed that she loved me and cared for my wel-being so much so that she would go out of her way to make sure i was safe and i was ok. Im not saying that everything is always going to be ok. but my god to say that you hate her just flat out hate her. No one deserves to hear that from their child thats cruel. Your speaking as though she abandoned you or some crap. but from what im reading it seems like shes more over protective then anything. It seems to me you need a serious reality chech hun.
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Apr 23 2005, 09:18 PM
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 o.O Group: Member Posts: 116 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,230 |
Oh whatever. You're 11/12? Stop complaining. I'm almost sixteen, and I barely get to see the sun. The only times I leave is when I go to school or when I go shopping WITH MY MOM. I never get out with my friends. So why don't you just crawl back into your little hole and realize that there are people out there who have it worse than you do.
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Apr 24 2005, 10:28 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
i dont mean this in a critisizing way, but how do you manage to pay the bills? i just want to know... because this could possibly be child labor and/or child abuse. the chances may be very slight though...
you should stop rebelling; ive watched my brother rebel, and it is not pretty. my parents think i am too, but its in my family, and i can help if my brother is my biggest influence. of course, i havent told them that i dislike them ALOT (but not to the point of hate), because i know that i care for them somewhat. and youre... a preteen (i think). be grateful that you actually have a mom to provide for you and she has to care for you, even the slightest, otherwise she would have thrown you out and put you in an orphanage. i wouldnt use the word hate so lightly. |
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Apr 25 2005, 12:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 349 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,513 |
Your still young, stop trying to grow up so fast, and if you think people's replys are useless, don't ask for any people, your asking for people's opinions and your getting them.
And don't run around saying you hate your mother, because you will def regret it one day (I know I do), and she's really keeping tabs on you because maybe she thinks the worst will happen if she doesn't, I can only say with the birthday party, you should have your say so because it is your b-day so talk 2 her about it, but yeah your a little too young to have a bf.... |
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